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  9. New scammer - Jamal

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    Hey there - another scammer, Jamal. Profile says he's in Seattle. Other members have had him tell them that he's from New York or Qatar. Don't give him your phone number or email address. 

    Told me he's suffering from typhoid, which is as scary as Covid-19. Hasn't asked me for money before I blocked him, but feel certain that he's hit up others for cash.

  12. New, likely conartist - LAdarrius9200

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    A lazy con artist, though.

    Evidence:

    • Lives in Atlanta, no, New York, well, visiting Atlanta but going home tomorrow
    • No requirements, no back story, doesn't want to talk about himself
    • Two photos, both distant, phone camera is broken and he has no other photos
    • Profile says "no" to relocation, but is hitting up employers outside his area. "Oh, I need to change that"
    • Profile says "I want someone to cook for me" but says "I like to do the cooking" in conversation

    I cut him off before he had a chance to ask for money.

    Be wary when talking to potential housemates - everyone has a back story, everyone has photos of themselves, discrepancies mean that they aren't telling you the truth.

  16. Houseboy's Are Not Updating Their Locations

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    On 12/12/2019 at 11:10 PM, Buck52 said:

    This guy has made headlines here several times. I dealt with him as well. Even gambled and helped him with gas, food phone bill and even a one night stay in a hotel just so he could bathe and sleep in a bed because he supposedly was living in his car and driving for Uber. The guy is a hopeless mess. Had a great opportunity with me and blew it. Don’t waste your time with him. 

    He got me too; same story he gave Buck.

  18. SCAM ALERT: Ksweet

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    There was one on another site the other day that had copied/pasted "his" profile from a M4F site - looking for a "lady". Hilarious. Bad scammers. 

    A few weeks ago, I started telling the scammers that were on a "peacekeeping" mission that there were so many of them that were gay on these limited "peacekeeping" missions - were there gay bars for them? Did they all hang out? Why, it's almost like a gay army!

  21. Negotiating terms of engagement

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    It is my opinion, and interpretation of my own experiences, that many or most of the young men offering their services on here are primarily looking for one of three things - free housing, free money, or "being spoiled." They are universally, none of them, ready to actually perform services that would make their presence in one's home worthwhile. I have negotiated with four house boy candidates thus far who have showed up for a trial run; none were successful. I have negotiated with another five, each of whom I had a similar experience in sending them money to travel here, airline tickets, etc., and they each of them took the money and "ran" in an internet ghosting sense. All five maintain active profiles on this site. 

    There are some who are very appealing, but reject my interest because I don't meet their particular BDSM or role play needs.

    I believe that one of the first questions that must be answered by a prospective houseboy must be what their current housing situation is. Many of these lads are homeless, or about to be. If a prospective houseboy will not clearly answer this question, one should move on to other candidates regardless of how pretty his pictures are.

     

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