[Finding someone real as me]

I have been on this site for several years with hopes to find another DL closeted bi guy like me who is masculine, discreet, height and weight proportionate, versatile, who has never contracted any STD's/STI's in there entire life like myself. I will never understand why most of the openly gay community has accepted HIV and is something I truly will never accept in my life unlike most in this community. Recently retired, so all I am willing to offer is free room and board, and travel if we meet. Seems impossible to meet anyone real in this community any more regardless what dating site or app you use. I view the entire bi/gay community as being mentally/sexually challenged misfits who hide behind a computer screen or smart phone being total pic collectors, and yet, nobody ever meets anyone. I think it's time to rethink my bisexuality and just go back to women, all you guys play far too many games for me and entertain far too much unnecessary dram for me, and as always, nobody ever meets anyone. Sorry I even wasted my time on here, this community has turned into a total joke for meeting anyone. Best of luck guys. :)

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Hi everybody and a great topic to address. However, I will say upfront that is a very tough job to weed out the bad guys on websites as we all already know. I guess for starters, I think it would be ideal to have a log of all the IP Addresses so that if you do kick someone off of here for being a player or spammer, you will know when he tries to come back. Another thing that troubles me is that every time I go into the chatroom, I never see anybody in there and it makes you wonder right off the bat if anyone on here is even real. I wish I knew why people of the gay and bi community lack so many communications skills. It seems like nobody wants to meet or talk to anyone and is very frustrating. I wish I had more input and advice but wish this site the very best of luck achieving that.

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hey, it really sux that people like that really exist and you have to find out the hard way. I wish you the best of luck in the future bro.

So Guys,

Here goes... I am a guy, who honestly Isn't homeless, Isn't struggling financially, I pay my own bills, and still have a savings account. I spent approximatley 1 month with this couple. I am not even sure how to categorize this. One is a Medical doctor for a Federal Prison the other a student. Both are really cool guys, until they decide to intentionally push you out of the circle and make you feel as if you dont belong. DO NOT FALL for the "Oh how are you doing, or WHAT are you feeling line?" because after the entice you into their lives, and make you feel somewhat comfortable, they STOMP ALL OVER YOU. The older of the two, will TWIST every single word and sentence you say to make you seem like a bad guy, and then kick you out of his house when you call him on it. Thankfully, I am able to financially support my own, otherwise it could have been more intrusive.

The younger of the two is very sweet, very kind, very caring, but very stuck up his daddies ass. Even if daddy is wrong and acting a fool, the younger partner will side with him so be for warned. NO I a no some psycho, I actually started falling in love with both of these guys... and my heart was ripped from my chest. After spending over 2 grand of my own money on Christmas, New Years, and other endeavors with this couple... the end result was "oh your crazy and need to go home".... after I told the older of the two, that he was lying and wrong for stretching and twisting my words with a negative meaning.. BE CAREFUL guys.. DO NOT get your Heart Broke, and DO NOT waste your time and money on a dis functional relationship.

The minute you attempt to discuss a situation with either of the two, you will be told you are psycho, or wrong, or stupid, even if you are not.