hello there I would agree with you. and I am doing the same thing as you were doing. try to get a young guy live with me and respect him treat him like he is apart of the family, but most of the young guy here from the US and I am from Canada its very hard for him go to other country for living and to work, I actually want adopt a gay young male as a my son which I never had. and so far I meet most of scammer lier and they want me pay for everything first, and I almost give up here and since I see your post I willing give it a try and see what happen. thanks for your time.