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I've found a few houseboys from this site and they have worked out pretty well, so here's my two cents: First and foremost, I've found that you shouldn't expect sex to be part of the equation. If that's what you are wanting or expecting it's most likely gonna turn out badly. You've got someone staying at your place that might have no where else to go or no way to feed themselves. They are most likely in a desperate situation and if they had the means to pay their own rent or had family to help they wouldn't be looking to be a houseboy. Don't put him in the situation of feeling unsafe by even suggesting it's something on your mind. Also, if what you are truly wanting is someone to keep up the house, there may be little incentive to clean up if someone thinks they ar being kept around for sex. If sex is what you are expecting, then better to go look for someone explicitly wanting a sugar daddy and stop the pretense. To that end, one issue I have (and I've heard from friends who have used this site to find a houseboy) is that the profile pages are overly sexualized. When you look at a profile, the first thing you see is the "loads in mouth / loads in ass" with porn pics. What sort of expectations are we setting here from the start? Folks also don't like that when you set up a profile most of the questions want to know about dick size and sexual positions etc. Another complaint I have is I've wanted to upload pictures of the room I have here, the house, the view of the city, pics of the group of roommates that live at the house, etc. These are all things I'd imagine a potential houseboy would like to see. But the only thing we're allowed to show is a picture of ourselves. Again, setting the expectation that all he really would care about is "would I do" the employer. In my situation I think he'd be at least as interested in what his room looks like. As long as the site is geared towards sex being expected, don't be shocked that it attracts sketchy people. So here's my advice: 1- get rid of the "takes load in ass / mouth" graphic on the top of profiles. Super tacky. 2- allow pictures of folks houses, yards, households, room the houseboy will be living. 3- allow folks to opt out of the sex questions

More scam profiles.

It's amazing how many boys live at 68-29 Main Street in Flushing NY

He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.

Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.

I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts!" It sounds bad, I know... But, if you send them a few hundred dollars, the world will once again be righted and they will come directly to you and it will be nothing but sunshine and happiness until the end of time. DON'T DO IT! My rendition of what may happen is, clearly, overly dramatic and you can (hopefully) see that what I've laid out before you is a load of crap. The kids with the to-die-for sexy pictures who say they love you will not be as obvious. Regardless, you must resist them. If they truly are homeless, stranded, etc there are resources available to them who will help them: They can post on their local Craigslist for somewhere to crash for a few days. It will be much easier for them to get somewhere local (and at no cost to you, to boot!) than for you to give them money to fly/drive/bicycle to wherever you are. They can go to a shelter. There are 3,500+ shelters in the US. Some cater specifically to Youth -- some even to GLBT youth. (http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/) No car, no gas, pogo stick broken? No way to get to the shelter? They can call the local police. They will gladly take them to a shelter. Did their parents throw them out because they're gay? Call the local PFLAG office. They'll put 'em up for a few days and help them get back on their feet. (http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256) You do not have to help them. Their predicament whether real, or most likely, a fictionalization is not your fault. They were like that when you found them, and they will be like that when you keep on walking. The above resources are available to them free of charge. Keep your money, buy yourself something pretty -- don't give it to them. Bottom line, please don't send them money. It's a trick. If it sounds too good to be true (i.e.: drop-dead gorgeous guy telling you that you're hotter than an oven on the sun, when you know good and well that you're an elderly bald man*, and he wants nothing more than to be snuggled up in your arms tonight.) it probably is. Common sense is the rule guys. * Nothing against elderly bald men, by the way. I just needed an example. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York

always report each profile.

I think that many people on this site just treat this site like a regular porn site, versus dealing with real peoples lives. (I got to be first to admit there is a lot of eye candy on the site.) the only way to really fix this issue is that the owners of this website gets serious and make it to where people can meet and employ people who want to be employed!

No one pays relocation

Scammer be aware. Never replies to question, I'm talking basic simple info. Be careful

Go straight to videochat. I used to set up videochat after several email exchanges. But now I've learned to make it step #1. I met one guy who was completely genuine. He had no problem with video chat, liked the idea of seeing if I was for real too. Two other guys; One never showed up to the chat and I never heard from him again The other pretended to have no access to any device capable of videochat (you can do it for free at the library if you really have a 27 year old phone with no camera like you say). Dont waste your time on the scammers and players. Filter them out from the start.

Before I paid to relocate someone there would be extensive chats about expectations online, then I would visit them to see if everything's a good fit. If that's the case then I'd personally relocate them.

Ggood-looking Boca Raton Florida couple looking for house point to come and enjoy our lives with us. must love dogs we have three and also must take care of the house and the dogs. The only wrong business so there is opportunity for extra work. we are too nice guys and both looking. Occasional friend would be fine too but really looking for someone to live with us send email or text

This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!

Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.

Not retired. Still producing and acting.

TIRED OF GOING IT ALONE? Strong Dad figure looking for son who realizes he NEEDS his Dad. Life has become challenging and he needs help figuring it out in a safe place. Son needs love, affection, affirmation, encouragement, stability, sanity, safety and patient care. Dad needs son's devotion and doting attitude to build a solid and successful future together. Dad is a professional mentor, business owner, and life coach. How do I find this young man?

The problem we run into is that often the reason a houseboy is looking for a job is that they are not working and have no money so unless you are willing to help with travel they cannot afford to get to you. Normally I tell them I will reimburse them for any travel expenses once they arrive and all is good and everything they have told me is true. I made the mistake of sending $100 to Michael22 for gas money and of course he turned out to not only be a scammer, but using different names on different sites. On the "other" houseboy site he is Matthew Myers, on here he is Michael Dawson, which is the name he used at Western Union to pick up my money. Insist on seeing your boy on cam either on yahoo or skype or on your phone's facetime and get him to take a selfie in the bathroom mirror showing either a current newspaper or holding up his fingers a certain way so that he can't just send a pic off the internet of the guy he is using to fake who he is.

Hi, My name is Andy Im 21y.o, and I am in Baltimore Maryland, I am looking to relocate anywhere and become your new house boy, I will make a wonderful houseboy and much more. I will relocate anywhere

I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know. Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next page. Never try to change yourself to fit a houseboy position. Meeting the right host and finding the right houseboy position (and for hosts to find the perfect houseboy) is like a puzzle. No matter how close some pieces come to fitting in more than one position, you'll never have a complete result unless every single piece is in the right spot. Anything less than that and there will always be that pieces left out and even if you don't miss it, someone will. I guess if there was a text book answer, the text book itself should be your own heart.

It loads with Safari but often takes a while. I find that if I search photos first for a few minutes, other functions like visitor profiles and messages work faster. Searching photos always comes up immediately. Searching for houseboys loads quickly. Viewing messages takes time to load and viewing profile visits takes a long time to load (like do something else and come back to see if it's loaded).

Thank you very much, you're very kind and I appreciate you taking the time out to not only read my post, but to respond as well. I also appreciate the heads up on the lack of engagement in the forums. I'll def keep that in mind. Looking forward to seeing what the site has in store for me though. God bless!

ANOTHER $. SCAMMER HUSHPETERS

any issues getting on website? been 3 - 4 days can't even get to login page any help appreciated

Handsomeboy4u is a scammer, don't fall for his stories. He's has multiple profiles in the past.

Is this true ?

With Mozilla Firefox, Microsoft Edge, and other browser platforms, there is an add-on application you can get generally called Reverse Image Search allowing you to RIGHT click on a photo and search for similar across numerous websites. A good 30% of the 'houseboys' on this website are FRAUDULENT - using someone else's photos OR claiming to be someone else. PLUS, IF you contact someone and they refuse to send additional photos - THAT'S a good indication that something's wrong!

Wants to go to google chat immediately, immediately starts the "daddy" label , and then says you just need to send him $600 to buy him from his current master. He eMails and Google Chats from his phone, but of course can't video chat. Sends a picture claiming it is him in his passport, the picture is an awful photoshop that overall lays part of the text. The passport is for Issac Smart White - wonder if that poor guy knows his passport information is being passed around. Also, the passport was issued in 2016 - which would make him 16 when the picture was taken - oddly it looks exactly like the picture he first send in chat - hasn't aged in the last 6+ years. Also his profile says he's 23 but his passport says 22. Use caution when messaging with this person.

This guy said he is an innocent boy located in the UK. I did a websearch of his pic and found the picture that is posted on Houseboy is also on a Sean Cody porn models profile? RichardColton5 ignored me once I sent him the link. It seems that in the past few weeks there has been a huge jump in the number of fake profiles. http://www.fitdudesnude.com/sean-cody-willis

Jim Nabors, the Hawaii resident well known for his starring role in the 1960s television sitcom "Gomer Pyle, USMC," married his longtime male partner early this month, he told Hawaii News Now Tuesday. Nabors, 82, said he married his companion of 38 years, Stan Cadwallader, who's 64, in Seattle on Jan. 15. Nabors declined an on-camera interview but spoke to Hawaii News Now by phone. "I'm 82 and he's in his 60s and so we've been together for 38 years and I'm not ashamed of people knowing, it's just that it was such a personal thing, I didn't tell anybody," Nabors said. "I'm very happy that I've had a partner of 38 years and I feel very blessed. And, what can I tell you, I'm just very happy." Nabors said he and Cadwallader traveled to Washington state, where gay marriages became legal in early December 2012. They were married at the Fairmont Olympic Hotel in Seattle. A judge performed the marriage ceremony in the privacy of their hotel room with a couple of friends who live down the street from them near Diamond Head as witnesses, Nabors said. http://www.hawaiinewsnow.com/story/20805642/exclusive-actor-jim-nabors-marries-his-longtime-male-partner

This Martin Taylor is a real expert. Luckily he failed my due-diligence.

How r u

I use it, but it takes a LONG time. I have 500 mps download, so my guess is that their server is very slow and has a badly designed sort program.

I can only go by my experience with him, if he was honest there wouldn't have been an issue. Also, you're not aware of our conversation. I respect your opinion and advice but again I can only refer to my personal experience.

Hi top daddies, I'm a sub bottom boy seeking a houseboy weekend with a top daddy (or top daddies) sometime later this year when COVID numbers get better. I'm new to the site; still getting verified, although my pics have already been approved. As you'll see in my profile, I'm not the typical houseboy. This includes the fact that I'm not looking for financial support from you. I am well established, financially secure, and am only looking for a weekend rather than a long term commitment. I can travel to you myself...the only things I need you to supply are the place to sleep, the chores to complete, and the cock to service. I welcome private messages, but I prefer to talk and answer questions here. That way, other folks can see what I'm interested in and how I react to different questions. While I am only looking for single weekends of submission and service, that doesn't mean I'm only looking for one weekend ever. I'm definitely open to multiple weekends with the same person/couple, or different weekends with different people/couples. So don't be shy about saying hi if you like what you see and think we'd have fun together!

This scammer pops up every other month or so. In October, he was HotBoy4Dad. I forget all his other names, but he always uses a '4' in his screen names. I know he's the same person as every profile he creates, he is the same distance from me, and he immediately has me blocked from reading and reporting his fake profile. Oh I should say he is a real person, just a flake and he'll try to take you for every penny he can get out of you. If you speak with him, please don't let his Southern accent fool you. He is from the deep south, he just doesn't have any Southern charm. You have been warned - take my advice please.

Fantasy site? True as that is, it's absurd.

ones like this crack me up they are so obvious. First red flag, his address is Flushing, NY, the default address when one isn’t entered. The laughable red flag are his stats, 5’ tall, 320 pounds, average. Compared to his profile photo? Lol! Then to top it off four of his answers to profile questions states “I like this app”. And he’s had a profile a good while. Long enough to correct if there were errors. Just another fake!

Three new scam artists with fake profiles houseboys.Steer clear, don’t waste your time. 1. HonestMentor 2. Pukky021 3. blowngerick If you wish details then pm me on the main website and I can email you what I discovered. Dont let a few rotten apples spoil the barrel. Good luck to you all.

Hi, I'm tired of messaging to profiles just to find they are fakes or they are wanting just a body, then I see in the forum that they complain that they are deceived. What did you expect? I am not the most handsome, muscular or fit but I will be a hard worker and I will be there to please and make happy my employer. I'm spaniard, I don't speak english very well but I can learn and I will travel to anywhere for the right person and by my own. Sexually I'm bottom and I will be happy giving blowjobs to my tired employer when he comes home after a hard day of work. If anyone is interested please feel free of message me.

This isn't the most glamorous offer...it's not like in the movies where you'll summer on a yacht in the Mediterranean and fly away with me every weekend to some exotic locale. Hardly. I'm just a guy who can offer you free rent in NYC in exchange for housekeeping and dogwalking. Sex would be great, but not required. My dog is old and has a bladder condition and she needs to be walked during the day while I'm at work. Walk the dog and tidy up the apartment and you'll have nights and weekends to yourself. The current houseboy (straight) leaves in August. He works nights and weekends (a cash job) and he has banked a lot of money over the past two years he's been here. Great opportunity if you're an online student or have an internet job where you can work from anywhere (or a writer). 2 bedroom apartment in Manhattan. You'll share a room with me (separate beds) and there's another roommate in the other bedroom. Nudist apartment.

Totally agree, a scammer. His lease is up, truck is packed, needs gas money, shames you if you balk, then knows you were just bs! Remember the number O N E RULE. DO NOT SEND MONEY. !!!! REGARDLESS WHAT iS SAID. He is good, he is convincing, he is good at shaming, he is a. S C A M M E R !!!!!!

Sorry for Crappy image quality but the file size limitations on here are ridiculous

What do you all think of a section that lists types of food liked and more importantly disliked. I take food, both eating and preparing as an important social aspect of living together. We will need to eat daily, while our sexual needs are important, they are not needed as frequent. Lol maybe wanted though! I have met a few guys that could have passed muster but their incredibly picky eating habits made me wonder how I could cook for both of us and enjoy a nice home cooked meal. I love eating out but that gets old and expensive.

No, it's perfectly reasonable for them to expect you to pay for them to get to you. You're the employer, so you ought to be the one with the ability to provide transportation. Now, that doesn't mean that you necessarily need to purchase a plane ticket. It's also reasonable for you to travel to their current city and interview them, possibly providing other transportation back. Put yourself in their shoes. If you were looking at employment at a startup company (which is what you effectively are), you'd expect them to buy a round-trip ticket for you (or travel to you) if they wanted to conduct an in-person interview. And it doesn't inspire much confidence that you'd be there for very long or that it's a worthwhile company to work for, if they're not willing to spend money to find and hire the right people. As the employer, you have the financial upper hand. You ought to demonstrate this by being willing to pay for their expenses. But, as always, remember the forum warning: NEVER send money directly to them. Those requests are almost certainly scams.

Hi we are a long term married couple looking for a house boy. This is a non sexual position and we are not looking for a sex kitten. My partner and I both are college educated, have very good jobs, and do well financially. My partner has ADHD and works a very high stress job as a market manager in retail. He struggles with keeping organized, making deadlines, and staying on top of things at home. Our lives can be a lot easier if we had someone competent to manage the house and keep him on track. We can work out all the details but your primary focus will be to manage our house and manage my partners life so he can stay focused on work. Specifically, keeping up with his very extensive daily schedule, ensuring he makes it to all his meetings, make all of his travel reservations and ensure he makes it where he needs to be, ensure that he is set up with his laptop, cellphone, keys, ipad, and everything he needs to walk out of the house with each morning. To sum it up we need someone to manage his days and send him occasional texts to keep him on track. His ADHD makes him a powerhouse in the retail word but hard to handle at home with the constant forgetfulness etc. If you don't know what this is please google it before contacting me. Also, please be able to pass as professional as he may use you occasionally to assist him with meetings etc if he has a lot going on, you'll need to help him keep track of the tiny details and make sure he doesn't miss a beat. We can offer free room and board (private room with a bathroom), a car (we are huge Mustang fans, so basically take your pic of what year and color from the garage), cell phone, and a salary that we will negotiate. Again we are not looking for anything sexual! To be a good fit you must be strong in planning, organizing, prioritizing, and following directions. Ideally we would like to find the right guy to have a long partnership that will turn into a family structure.

He gave me the same story two days ago. When I said my partner and I would drive to him to put gas in his car and that my partner would ride back in his car while I drove mine, he immediately hung up.

Hi. Great site. Lots to like including how much proactivity there is in protecting the site from abuse. Im new here (4 days now). Employer looking for a houseboy. One thing that would help in the search is an easily accessible button on the search results that makes it possible to hide a profile. The idea is that when you run across a profile that wouldn't work, for example, distant state and not willing to lreocate, you could just click off that one and reduce the results to profiles you havn't looked at yet. Its complementary to the existing "save profile" feature. When I look at profiles, they fall into three categories, 1) Send msg now or save, 2) Rule out, 3) possibly revisit later. The "hide" helps with #2, Save with #1, and the rest end up in catagory 3. THanks -E

A red flag for me as a houseboy, is when an employer has been a member of the site for several months and years, yet is still looking for a houseboy. It shouldnt take longer than 60 days to find a houseboy... if they are serious. Employers should have to pay a premium for membership. If they can afford the lifestyle of having a houseboy, then they can afford a membership fee. A serious fee like $100 a month. Only a serious member will pay a premium fee. It makes no sense for an employer to be on here 4 years and never had a houseboy because that tells me, they are flakey, not serious or something is wrong with them and no one wants to be their houseboy.