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I've found a few houseboys from this site and they have worked out pretty well, so here's my two cents: First and foremost, I've found that you shouldn't expect sex to be part of the equation. If that's what you are wanting or expecting it's most likely gonna turn out badly. You've got someone staying at your place that might have no where else to go or no way to feed themselves. They are most likely in a desperate situation and if they had the means to pay their own rent or had family to help they wouldn't be looking to be a houseboy. Don't put him in the situation of feeling unsafe by even suggesting it's something on your mind. Also, if what you are truly wanting is someone to keep up the house, there may be little incentive to clean up if someone thinks they ar being kept around for sex. If sex is what you are expecting, then better to go look for someone explicitly wanting a sugar daddy and stop the pretense. To that end, one issue I have (and I've heard from friends who have used this site to find a houseboy) is that the profile pages are overly sexualized. When you look at a profile, the first thing you see is the "loads in mouth / loads in ass" with porn pics. What sort of expectations are we setting here from the start? Folks also don't like that when you set up a profile most of the questions want to know about dick size and sexual positions etc. Another complaint I have is I've wanted to upload pictures of the room I have here, the house, the view of the city, pics of the group of roommates that live at the house, etc. These are all things I'd imagine a potential houseboy would like to see. But the only thing we're allowed to show is a picture of ourselves. Again, setting the expectation that all he really would care about is "would I do" the employer. In my situation I think he'd be at least as interested in what his room looks like. As long as the site is geared towards sex being expected, don't be shocked that it attracts sketchy people. So here's my advice: 1- get rid of the "takes load in ass / mouth" graphic on the top of profiles. Super tacky. 2- allow pictures of folks houses, yards, households, room the houseboy will be living. 3- allow folks to opt out of the sex questions

More scam profiles.

I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts!" It sounds bad, I know... But, if you send them a few hundred dollars, the world will once again be righted and they will come directly to you and it will be nothing but sunshine and happiness until the end of time. DON'T DO IT! My rendition of what may happen is, clearly, overly dramatic and you can (hopefully) see that what I've laid out before you is a load of crap. The kids with the to-die-for sexy pictures who say they love you will not be as obvious. Regardless, you must resist them. If they truly are homeless, stranded, etc there are resources available to them who will help them: They can post on their local Craigslist for somewhere to crash for a few days. It will be much easier for them to get somewhere local (and at no cost to you, to boot!) than for you to give them money to fly/drive/bicycle to wherever you are. They can go to a shelter. There are 3,500+ shelters in the US. Some cater specifically to Youth -- some even to GLBT youth. (http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/) No car, no gas, pogo stick broken? No way to get to the shelter? They can call the local police. They will gladly take them to a shelter. Did their parents throw them out because they're gay? Call the local PFLAG office. They'll put 'em up for a few days and help them get back on their feet. (http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256) You do not have to help them. Their predicament whether real, or most likely, a fictionalization is not your fault. They were like that when you found them, and they will be like that when you keep on walking. The above resources are available to them free of charge. Keep your money, buy yourself something pretty -- don't give it to them. Bottom line, please don't send them money. It's a trick. If it sounds too good to be true (i.e.: drop-dead gorgeous guy telling you that you're hotter than an oven on the sun, when you know good and well that you're an elderly bald man*, and he wants nothing more than to be snuggled up in your arms tonight.) it probably is. Common sense is the rule guys. * Nothing against elderly bald men, by the way. I just needed an example. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.

It's amazing how many boys live at 68-29 Main Street in Flushing NY

He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.

Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.

Same problem. Whether someone appears online or not, I cannot send or reply to messages. No response to support request.

Hi! I am from Pennsylvania, but I currently travel weekly for work. I am looking for a long term role where I can be a houseboy for someone (or someones’) who is very loving but also strict and dominant. I am imagining waking up at 5am (before you), cooking breakfast every day (passion for cooking) kissing you good morning, doing all the chores for most of the day, relaxing a little bit, and then cooking you dinner and pleasuring you in different ways every single night, with no off days. I would wear outfits you chose, follow a schedule and complete tasks that you command, and bend to your every whim in the bedroom. In return, I imagine I get free room (or low cost) and board and hopefully an allowance along with some free time to enjoy sightseeing and activities (non-sexual) outside of the home. I have extremely soft hands as well, tehe. I’m 5’6 140 lbs, Caucasian with blue eyes and brown hair. I am into being praised (“who’s a good boy?”) and generally pleasing however I can. I like a clean and proper environment, one with positivity and a focus on basic healthy activities! I’m very real, just nervous since this involves a lot of commitment, but I am looking around and hopefully you can be the one for me! I can’t add more pictures because of the file limit, but I can give more if needed.

And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York

always report each profile.

I think that many people on this site just treat this site like a regular porn site, versus dealing with real peoples lives. (I got to be first to admit there is a lot of eye candy on the site.) the only way to really fix this issue is that the owners of this website gets serious and make it to where people can meet and employ people who want to be employed!

No one pays relocation

With Mozilla Firefox, Microsoft Edge, and other browser platforms, there is an add-on application you can get generally called Reverse Image Search allowing you to RIGHT click on a photo and search for similar across numerous websites. A good 30% of the 'houseboys' on this website are FRAUDULENT - using someone else's photos OR claiming to be someone else. PLUS, IF you contact someone and they refuse to send additional photos - THAT'S a good indication that something's wrong!

Scammer be aware. Never replies to question, I'm talking basic simple info. Be careful

Go straight to videochat. I used to set up videochat after several email exchanges. But now I've learned to make it step #1. I met one guy who was completely genuine. He had no problem with video chat, liked the idea of seeing if I was for real too. Two other guys; One never showed up to the chat and I never heard from him again The other pretended to have no access to any device capable of videochat (you can do it for free at the library if you really have a 27 year old phone with no camera like you say). Dont waste your time on the scammers and players. Filter them out from the start.

Before I paid to relocate someone there would be extensive chats about expectations online, then I would visit them to see if everything's a good fit. If that's the case then I'd personally relocate them.

Ggood-looking Boca Raton Florida couple looking for house point to come and enjoy our lives with us. must love dogs we have three and also must take care of the house and the dogs. The only wrong business so there is opportunity for extra work. we are too nice guys and both looking. Occasional friend would be fine too but really looking for someone to live with us send email or text

This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!

Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.

Not retired. Still producing and acting.

TIRED OF GOING IT ALONE? Strong Dad figure looking for son who realizes he NEEDS his Dad. Life has become challenging and he needs help figuring it out in a safe place. Son needs love, affection, affirmation, encouragement, stability, sanity, safety and patient care. Dad needs son's devotion and doting attitude to build a solid and successful future together. Dad is a professional mentor, business owner, and life coach. How do I find this young man?

The problem we run into is that often the reason a houseboy is looking for a job is that they are not working and have no money so unless you are willing to help with travel they cannot afford to get to you. Normally I tell them I will reimburse them for any travel expenses once they arrive and all is good and everything they have told me is true. I made the mistake of sending $100 to Michael22 for gas money and of course he turned out to not only be a scammer, but using different names on different sites. On the "other" houseboy site he is Matthew Myers, on here he is Michael Dawson, which is the name he used at Western Union to pick up my money. Insist on seeing your boy on cam either on yahoo or skype or on your phone's facetime and get him to take a selfie in the bathroom mirror showing either a current newspaper or holding up his fingers a certain way so that he can't just send a pic off the internet of the guy he is using to fake who he is.

Hi, My name is Andy Im 21y.o, and I am in Baltimore Maryland, I am looking to relocate anywhere and become your new house boy, I will make a wonderful houseboy and much more. I will relocate anywhere

I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know. Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next page. Never try to change yourself to fit a houseboy position. Meeting the right host and finding the right houseboy position (and for hosts to find the perfect houseboy) is like a puzzle. No matter how close some pieces come to fitting in more than one position, you'll never have a complete result unless every single piece is in the right spot. Anything less than that and there will always be that pieces left out and even if you don't miss it, someone will. I guess if there was a text book answer, the text book itself should be your own heart.

I am seeking for a young (max. 28y) and small houseboy in Berlin/Germany. As a houseboy you have to do every household chores like cleaning, cooking, buying food, washing the car, cutting the grass. You have to relocate to my home. You get room and board for free. Your daddy would guide you through Berlin. But you also get a bike for use and a ticket for the public transport system, so in your free time you can discover Berlin by your own if you want. Berlin is a city with a great queer culture. As a houseboy you must wear chastity cage for 24/7. For reasons of health every two weeks you get bound on a chair, locked off and get an edging with a ruined orgasm at final. But you could compensate your horniness by touching and sucking your dad's cock everytime you want. In the first month you get regular spankings for reminding you at your position as a houseboy and additional spankings for misbehaviour. Later on you get less spankings and more hugs and teasing for doing your job well. Every time you give your daddy a smile you get kissed as reward. In the summer sometimes I spend a day at the beach in a nature reserve at the baltic sea. There, it is free to wear clothes or not. That means for you, that you must be nude in public the whole day. But it is the only time you need not wear your chastity cage. You can play football with your daddy or you can go swimming or have a lazy day. It might happen, that your mannerism will change after those days with increasing horniness. If you have more masculine mannerism or your mannerism is in the middle, you will get more feminine or girly. Then it's time to get laid by your daddy and get treated like a girl. Your orgasm will be huge and you will be totally satisfied. If your stats fit and you think, that the position is exactly what you looking for, please contact me. Don't forget to visit my profile on houseboy.com. Although my profile says that I would be a houseboy (the webmaster don't adjust that for month) I am an employer of course. Yours BerlEmployer

It’s because this site is absolute garbage now…seems like there’s no one at the wheel anymore.

GL Ocala, very few are real as far as I’ve experienced. All BS scammers, and lame scams at that. I’ve been discouraged for a while now but I still have hope that someone’s out there. The WhatsApp guys are a scam to get more folks on WhatsApp, the second I say I don’t use it they’re never to be heard from again. The ones that can’t form a proper sentence but say they were raised in Washington or wherever are the ones that get under my skin and they always get SOOOO irrational when I call them out. Sometimes it’s quite entertaining lol Happy hunting!

Hello! I’m looking for a live in either permanent or part time work position. I can cook and clean. Prefer someone who is more of a dominant master than just an employer. If you are real feel free to message me I can FaceTime and have more photos.

You guys are being scammed and there's less HB's because your expectations for us are ridiculous and not satisfactory to our talents.

It doesn’t matter which browser I use. I can never load the page that shows who’s viewed my profile. Safari, Chrome, Firefox, doesn’t matter. What’s happening?

Out of the blue after 1 year I get phone call from Danny=vegasboy (we have never spoken or communicated ever) looking for a position. While I was interested I told him to provide recent Pic & personal details. As we're talking I check main houseboy website & NO MORE VEGASBOY! Thought it was a scam for $ but felt sorry for him. Since he deleted his profile putting aside my concern for him I hung up & blocked his phone number. Disappointed bc we were considering helping him! Be careful, don't get suckered in, like we did in past cost us $$ Ask for info & do background check. ALSO, BIG CLUE LOOK AT THEIR ADDRESS! FOR EX SEVERAL GUYS ARE AT SAME ADDRESS IN MIDDLE OF PARK IN BROOKLYN NYC!

ANOTHER $. SCAMMER HUSHPETERS

DavidRoca62 FUCK YOU you're harassing me on here & email So listen up & read if you're literate No profile FUCK YOU no response to questions FUCK YOU so FUCK YOU we are NOT INTERESTED IN A SCAMMER FOR MONEY SO FUCK YOU

any issues getting on website? been 3 - 4 days can't even get to login page any help appreciated

Wants to go to google chat immediately, immediately starts the "daddy" label , and then says you just need to send him $600 to buy him from his current master. He eMails and Google Chats from his phone, but of course can't video chat. Sends a picture claiming it is him in his passport, the picture is an awful photoshop that overall lays part of the text. The passport is for Issac Smart White - wonder if that poor guy knows his passport information is being passed around. Also, the passport was issued in 2016 - which would make him 16 when the picture was taken - oddly it looks exactly like the picture he first send in chat - hasn't aged in the last 6+ years. Also his profile says he's 23 but his passport says 22. Use caution when messaging with this person.

That is very true. so I have to believe that there are people actually doing that.

Jim Nabors, the Hawaii resident well known for his starring role in the 1960s television sitcom "Gomer Pyle, USMC," married his longtime male partner early this month, he told Hawaii News Now Tuesday. Nabors, 82, said he married his companion of 38 years, Stan Cadwallader, who's 64, in Seattle on Jan. 15. Nabors declined an on-camera interview but spoke to Hawaii News Now by phone. "I'm 82 and he's in his 60s and so we've been together for 38 years and I'm not ashamed of people knowing, it's just that it was such a personal thing, I didn't tell anybody," Nabors said. "I'm very happy that I've had a partner of 38 years and I feel very blessed. And, what can I tell you, I'm just very happy." Nabors said he and Cadwallader traveled to Washington state, where gay marriages became legal in early December 2012. They were married at the Fairmont Olympic Hotel in Seattle. A judge performed the marriage ceremony in the privacy of their hotel room with a couple of friends who live down the street from them near Diamond Head as witnesses, Nabors said. http://www.hawaiinewsnow.com/story/20805642/exclusive-actor-jim-nabors-marries-his-longtime-male-partner

This Martin Taylor is a real expert. Luckily he failed my due-diligence.

How r u

I use it, but it takes a LONG time. I have 500 mps download, so my guess is that their server is very slow and has a badly designed sort program.

Dang, truth. This all sounds spot on, at least for me. I guess I wanted someone who was transparent and up front, not misleading, and clear about what really goes into all of this. And a lot of the “maybe” and standoffish responses I’ve noticed I used to use that as a fallback to protect myself if I found out someone is not truly who they present to be. Jumping into any commitment has majorly uprooted a former life of mine, yeah, and it does come at a major cost. I’m not making money, I’m hoping things’ll pan out, and what then if I don’t really like them? What if it’s such a compromise to myself that I found I settled for a life I could have just as easily been making for myself? Like, really, I can figure out how to provide this stuff (and now do). It‘s just the human connections I’m lacking. We all want that, that makes a lot of sense. I’m catching on that there’s always some sort of caveat, though, and like he was saying, it’s not always monetary. I deleted my profile before (obviously came back) because I got tired of it, even though I’ve connected with a few matches for me over the years I was actually participating online - none of it really turned into meeting. I didn’t feel ready, or felt like it was too much of a rush. I do feel confident in eventually meeting one guy though because we’ve developed a relationship very slowly over a year, and still to this day, we talk and actually enjoy messaging each other. Actually, when we first made contact online, I asked him to tone it back originally when he wanted to message me multiple times per week. I wasn’t emotionally very available, only in spurts (like now), and then I would have to go back to tend to my own demanding work life. But we would message or get into doing some sort of weekly check in and that worked perfectly fine with me. Again, it wasn’t rushed. He just would message me like twice and I would be like dude back off. And when we finally communicated how often we wanted to talk after a few weeks or months of talking, we eventually came to some sort of agreement. I mean, how was I going to know if I really wanted to agree to communicate with someone indefinitely when I didn’t even know if I liked them??? I’m not gonna just make a commitment on week 1. But we did eventually work something out. I wasn’t in any rush to go anywhere. I’ve done that a couple times, allowing someone to rush me into a commitment, because I’ve really just wanted some temporary (very temporary, one day) connection which felt great, and it came to eventually hurt each time. Moving in with someone I know nothing about who has given me very limited information became one of my regrets and bigger learning lessons. Worthwhile stuff seems to take time to build (isn’t that what stability really is about?), and I’m not so keen to be pushed around or obligated by other people’s wants and and needs as much now. I think ultimately I’ve kept coming back for the fantasy of no worries, getting away from life, and doing some radical change like coming out of a combustion chamber two years later, all while enjoying a great sexual connection and companionship, revamped and ready to tackle the world, and fly away. I seem to do that when I realize I want a change or I’m realizing I’m not as happy as I’d like to be. Like this morning, getting on here. But maybe it is all just that - a fantasy with a hidden price tag. One big maybe. Seems like life ain’t one big cruise, and I gotta shape it how I want it to be if I wanna be certain. My two cents.

Hi top daddies, I'm a sub bottom boy seeking a houseboy weekend with a top daddy (or top daddies) sometime later this year when COVID numbers get better. I'm new to the site; still getting verified, although my pics have already been approved. As you'll see in my profile, I'm not the typical houseboy. This includes the fact that I'm not looking for financial support from you. I am well established, financially secure, and am only looking for a weekend rather than a long term commitment. I can travel to you myself...the only things I need you to supply are the place to sleep, the chores to complete, and the cock to service. I welcome private messages, but I prefer to talk and answer questions here. That way, other folks can see what I'm interested in and how I react to different questions. While I am only looking for single weekends of submission and service, that doesn't mean I'm only looking for one weekend ever. I'm definitely open to multiple weekends with the same person/couple, or different weekends with different people/couples. So don't be shy about saying hi if you like what you see and think we'd have fun together!

ones like this crack me up they are so obvious. First red flag, his address is Flushing, NY, the default address when one isn’t entered. The laughable red flag are his stats, 5’ tall, 320 pounds, average. Compared to his profile photo? Lol! Then to top it off four of his answers to profile questions states “I like this app”. And he’s had a profile a good while. Long enough to correct if there were errors. Just another fake!

Three new scam artists with fake profiles houseboys.Steer clear, don’t waste your time. 1. HonestMentor 2. Pukky021 3. blowngerick If you wish details then pm me on the main website and I can email you what I discovered. Dont let a few rotten apples spoil the barrel. Good luck to you all.

Hi, I'm tired of messaging to profiles just to find they are fakes or they are wanting just a body, then I see in the forum that they complain that they are deceived. What did you expect? I am not the most handsome, muscular or fit but I will be a hard worker and I will be there to please and make happy my employer. I'm spaniard, I don't speak english very well but I can learn and I will travel to anywhere for the right person and by my own. Sexually I'm bottom and I will be happy giving blowjobs to my tired employer when he comes home after a hard day of work. If anyone is interested please feel free of message me.

i've met several good men or couples thru the site, some that i've stayed in touch with even when things didn't work out between us. the site is very haphazardly administered, as an afterthought to the webcam porn portion of the site. and it's like most dating sites in the modern era, has lots of flakes, bots and picture collectors. but if you fill out your profile, chat with people, vet them, ask them practical questions, video chat them, get a background check etc, it's pretty obvious who is actually leaning into meeting and checking each other out. it's possible to meet good guys if the math of your competing but reasonable expectations works out. but it's a long shot. good luck.

I am due to move pretty soon from my current location. Hoping to find a genuine "employer". I am looking for someone who expects to create a closer bond than an employer/houseboy thing. Message me so we can get things going! I am ambitious and driven. Be the same isaacnerdton@gmail.com Willing to relocate anywhere for the right guy.

Bswim99 Fraud - has created a number of profiles before using the same pictures and narrative - chats with you a while and then says he actually performing a social experiment here to get guys to "healthly relationships" , his pictures can be found using google imagines and are created to several years old Russian pronography.

Hi we are a long term married couple looking for a house boy. This is a non sexual position and we are not looking for a sex kitten. My partner and I both are college educated, have very good jobs, and do well financially. My partner has ADHD and works a very high stress job as a market manager in retail. He struggles with keeping organized, making deadlines, and staying on top of things at home. Our lives can be a lot easier if we had someone competent to manage the house and keep him on track. We can work out all the details but your primary focus will be to manage our house and manage my partners life so he can stay focused on work. Specifically, keeping up with his very extensive daily schedule, ensuring he makes it to all his meetings, make all of his travel reservations and ensure he makes it where he needs to be, ensure that he is set up with his laptop, cellphone, keys, ipad, and everything he needs to walk out of the house with each morning. To sum it up we need someone to manage his days and send him occasional texts to keep him on track. His ADHD makes him a powerhouse in the retail word but hard to handle at home with the constant forgetfulness etc. If you don't know what this is please google it before contacting me. Also, please be able to pass as professional as he may use you occasionally to assist him with meetings etc if he has a lot going on, you'll need to help him keep track of the tiny details and make sure he doesn't miss a beat. We can offer free room and board (private room with a bathroom), a car (we are huge Mustang fans, so basically take your pic of what year and color from the garage), cell phone, and a salary that we will negotiate. Again we are not looking for anything sexual! To be a good fit you must be strong in planning, organizing, prioritizing, and following directions. Ideally we would like to find the right guy to have a long partnership that will turn into a family structure.

He gave me the same story two days ago. When I said my partner and I would drive to him to put gas in his car and that my partner would ride back in his car while I drove mine, he immediately hung up.