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  1. I've found a few houseboys from this site and they have worked out pretty well, so here's my two cents: First and foremost, I've found that you shouldn't expect sex to be part of the equation. If that's what you are wanting or expecting it's most likely gonna turn out badly. You've got someone staying at your place that might have no where else to go or no way to feed themselves. They are most likely in a desperate situation and if they had the means to pay their own rent or had family to help they wouldn't be looking to be a houseboy. Don't put him in the situation of feeling unsafe by e
    6 points
  2. Ggood-looking Boca Raton Florida couple looking for house point to come and enjoy our lives with us. must love dogs we have three and also must take care of the house and the dogs. The only wrong business so there is opportunity for extra work. we are too nice guys and both looking. Occasional friend would be fine too but really looking for someone to live with us send email or text
    3 points
  3. This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!
    3 points
  4. I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from t
    3 points
  5. Not retired. Still producing and acting.
    3 points
  6. TIRED OF GOING IT ALONE? Strong Dad figure looking for son who realizes he NEEDS his Dad. Life has become challenging and he needs help figuring it out in a safe place. Son needs love, affection, affirmation, encouragement, stability, sanity, safety and patient care. Dad needs son's devotion and doting attitude to build a solid and successful future together. Dad is a professional mentor, business owner, and life coach. How do I find this young man?
    3 points
  7. That post takes the word "fake" to a whole new level. If you're seeking real employment, you might want to try a job searching site. Here, the term "employer" is used loosely. This site is the place for people to satisfy their desires by seeking a place to play out a specific role; there are those that want to take care of a guy that does things for them (usually including sexual, but not always) and those that want to be taken care of in exchange for providing a little company and playing into the character their "employer" seeks. Also, a little advice; don't start off your profile
    3 points
  8. The problem we run into is that often the reason a houseboy is looking for a job is that they are not working and have no money so unless you are willing to help with travel they cannot afford to get to you. Normally I tell them I will reimburse them for any travel expenses once they arrive and all is good and everything they have told me is true. I made the mistake of sending $100 to Michael22 for gas money and of course he turned out to not only be a scammer, but using different names on different sites. On the "other" houseboy site he is Matthew Myers, on here he is Michael Dawson, which is
    3 points
  9. Hi, My name is Andy Im 21y.o, and I am in Baltimore Maryland, I am looking to relocate anywhere and become your new house boy, I will make a wonderful houseboy and much more. I will relocate anywhere
    3 points
  10. I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know. Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next pa
    3 points
  11. I could care less who he really is or where he is. I’d have nothing to do with him. He’s a scumbag, a liar and a con artist. He’s still around just with a different profile name again. Beware
    2 points
  12. Currently in Texas here looking for an employer for a fresh start. Submissive loyal boy here, looking to service and please with any work/chore duties in the house as well any sexual duties in the bed.
    2 points
  13. The best travel supplies right now would be sense enough not to travel. The idea of using public transportation to go to another state, to risk infection for the sake of calling someone daddy for a "job" that has to be paid under the table since paying for sex isn't legal in most places... right now, that just seems a bit selfish and idiotic. If a guy is close enough to drive to, that would make more sense though I could see that resulting in even more men falling for fake sad stories and sending boys gas money. In any case, some basic common sense would be the best resource to have when
    2 points
  14. Three new scam artists with fake profiles houseboys.Steer clear, don’t waste your time. 1. HonestMentor 2. Pukky021 3. blowngerick If you wish details then pm me on the main website and I can email you what I discovered. Dont let a few rotten apples spoil the barrel. Good luck to you all.
    2 points
  15. Hi, I'm tired of messaging to profiles just to find they are fakes or they are wanting just a body, then I see in the forum that they complain that they are deceived. What did you expect? I am not the most handsome, muscular or fit but I will be a hard worker and I will be there to please and make happy my employer. I'm spaniard, I don't speak english very well but I can learn and I will travel to anywhere for the right person and by my own. Sexually I'm bottom and I will be happy giving blowjobs to my tired employer when he comes home after a hard day of work. If anyone is
    2 points
  16. Two houseboys we recently wrote to indicated after a while that they were not in the locations they listed. One listed Florida but is actually in Iowa. In addition to this, a lot of houseboys don't update other items in their profiles. No one can force them to enter the correct information, but we just wanted to blow off a little steam. Best wishes to all you employers out there!
    2 points
  17. Retired single gay man seeking a live-in houseboy - young 18-30 ONLY - Dad/Son type situation -
    2 points
  18. This isn't the most glamorous offer...it's not like in the movies where you'll summer on a yacht in the Mediterranean and fly away with me every weekend to some exotic locale. Hardly. I'm just a guy who can offer you free rent in NYC in exchange for housekeeping and dogwalking. Sex would be great, but not required. My dog is old and has a bladder condition and she needs to be walked during the day while I'm at work. Walk the dog and tidy up the apartment and you'll have nights and weekends to yourself. The current houseboy (straight) leaves in August. He works nights and weekends (a cash job)
    2 points
  19. Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.
    2 points
  20. Totally agree, a scammer. His lease is up, truck is packed, needs gas money, shames you if you balk, then knows you were just bs! Remember the number O N E RULE. DO NOT SEND MONEY. !!!! REGARDLESS WHAT iS SAID. He is good, he is convincing, he is good at shaming, he is a. S C A M M E R !!!!!!
    2 points
  21. Sorry for Crappy image quality but the file size limitations on here are ridiculous
    2 points
  22. I usually refer to "employers" here as hosts. There are several obvious reasons an employer shouldn't stipulate sexual activities as a requirement for employment, but a man that hosts a houseboy can provide certain amenities to a houseboy staying with him in exchange for certain benefits offered by the houseboy in return. The details are, of course, between the host and the houseboy, but there isn't really anything wrong with hosting a houseboy that happens to enjoy willingly being sexual as well.
    2 points
  23. I am due to move pretty soon from my current location. Hoping to find a genuine "employer". I am looking for someone who expects to create a closer bond than an employer/houseboy thing. Message me so we can get things going! I am ambitious and driven. Be the same isaacnerdton@gmail.com Willing to relocate anywhere for the right guy.
    2 points
  24. I ama 21yr old, 5'10, 130 lbs., slim, hungry verse bottom boy. I currently live in SLC, Utah and am looking to relocate. I am real, can talk on the phone and send time-stamped pictures if you're interested. Feel free to ask me anything.
    2 points
  25. in addition to paying for their air fare , that they require BTA... Internet Financial Scams - US Embassy in London london.usembassy.gov/.../internet_... Embassy of the United States, London Beware of anyone who requests funds for a BTA, or Basic Travel Allowance, as a requirement to depart another country for the United States. There is no such thing as a BTA. In other cases, your Internet friend will claim to need a travel allowance, or travel money, to be able to travel to the United States. "Second only to flight money, the Basic Travel Allowance (BTA) is the scammers highest payin
    2 points
  26. hey guy ! i live in France (if you re not in france, U can learn french after there s not a problem if you re relocatable) 100% top, hiv- , and have needs : a 100% bottom real houseboy man who s naked at home i don't seek a money slave, but i m "hyper" top needs fuck my boy many times by days every days for real lifestyle i ll prefere young man beacause not pollued by anothers masters needs but s not a problem if your mind is clean i ll prefere an europeen guy (no need papers or card) i ll seek real owned slave for 1 to 1 for a permanent 24/7/365 and exclusive with 2 options (have or
    2 points
  27. What do you all think of a section that lists types of food liked and more importantly disliked. I take food, both eating and preparing as an important social aspect of living together. We will need to eat daily, while our sexual needs are important, they are not needed as frequent. Lol maybe wanted though! I have met a few guys that could have passed muster but their incredibly picky eating habits made me wonder how I could cook for both of us and enjoy a nice home cooked meal. I love eating out but that gets old and expensive.
    2 points
  28. My time as a houseboy (particularly the 3 years in Key West) introduced me to my current field of law enforcement which I currently work, so I will always be grateful for this site and all the men that gave me a chance to better myself. Recently, I was able to move back here to my hometown and I now proudly wear the sheriff's department emblem and shield of my hometown. I'm well on my way to finding and settling down on a nice piece of land out here in the country to spend my days doing those country things I love (cooking, raising a few animals, playing with the dogs, watching the deer eat th
    2 points
  29. Bswim99 Fraud - has created a number of profiles before using the same pictures and narrative - chats with you a while and then says he actually performing a social experiment here to get guys to "healthly relationships" , his pictures can be found using google imagines and are created to several years old Russian pronography.
    2 points
  30. it's pretty wide open and based on who you're serving and what you negotiate. usually room & board, sometimes more if you're lucky or your master is wealthy. i've been given spending money, car access, gas money, airline tickets, entertainment, etc. some very generous only expecting me to work 20 hours a week and some less so expecting me to work well past 50. PS these forums are close to moribund so you may not get too many responses. i'm happy to chat offline if you have other questions or want help. good luck.
    2 points
  31. Last night, tinder14u called me with a sob story (hasn't eaten in days, living in car, etc.) and wanted me to send him money right away via Western Union so he could drive to my place. I said I would think about it and call him back. I Googled the name he gave me, Derrick Odear, and it came back with a link to a Houseboy forum from a few years ago where someone reported that name as a scammer. When I called him back and told him what I found, I was surprised when he didn't try to deny that he was the person in question. Instead he said, "Are you going to believe those guys?". When I said "yes"
    2 points
  32. juicybootee is also Derrick O(full name removed). He emailed that he is living in his car and needs money to come to me now. I quickly deleted him. Stay on the look out for this guy. He's been doing this for years.
    2 points
  33. I’m looking for a houseboy/personal assistant to help me in my enterprise in Central France. I’m starting a new life and a new business after working in IT for the last twenty five years. This is a serious job offer (see my profile) which could be a great opportunity for an inexperienced guy who wants to start a new life, to learn and to be mentored. I’ve had some interest from guys outside Europe but there is a problem with their stay being limited to the 90-day tourist visa. Has anyone found a solution to this restriction?
    2 points
  34. Hi we are a long term married couple looking for a house boy. This is a non sexual position and we are not looking for a sex kitten. My partner and I both are college educated, have very good jobs, and do well financially. My partner has ADHD and works a very high stress job as a market manager in retail. He struggles with keeping organized, making deadlines, and staying on top of things at home. Our lives can be a lot easier if we had someone competent to manage the house and keep him on track. We can work out all the details but your primary focus will be to manage our house and manage my
    2 points
  35. He gave me the same story two days ago. When I said my partner and I would drive to him to put gas in his car and that my partner would ride back in his car while I drove mine, he immediately hung up.
    2 points
  36. I know this is an old post but I think this is a great idea but it needs to be a list for BOTH HOUSEBOYS AND EMPLOYER scams.
    2 points
  37. Hi. Great site. Lots to like including how much proactivity there is in protecting the site from abuse. Im new here (4 days now). Employer looking for a houseboy. One thing that would help in the search is an easily accessible button on the search results that makes it possible to hide a profile. The idea is that when you run across a profile that wouldn't work, for example, distant state and not willing to lreocate, you could just click off that one and reduce the results to profiles you havn't looked at yet. Its complementary to the existing "save profile" feature. When I look at
    2 points
  38. I just wanted to comment on a couple of the suggestions here so far... One is where an employer has been a member of the site for a while and it not taking more than 60 days to find a houseboy if they are serious. What about those of us who have actually found houseboys either through this site (or others), but may be looking for a new houseboy? Sometimes house boys don't work out and sometimes they move on to other things. Admittedly all but one that I have had worked out great, but I'm not going to close my account each time. There is also the suggestion of having employers pay $100 a m
    2 points
  39. A red flag for me as a houseboy, is when an employer has been a member of the site for several months and years, yet is still looking for a houseboy. It shouldnt take longer than 60 days to find a houseboy... if they are serious. Employers should have to pay a premium for membership. If they can afford the lifestyle of having a houseboy, then they can afford a membership fee. A serious fee like $100 a month. Only a serious member will pay a premium fee. It makes no sense for an employer to be on here 4 years and never had a houseboy because that tells me, they are flakey, not serious or some
    2 points
  40. Is it just me, or has anyone else grown tired of the growing gay porn sites and videos featuring fantasy incest and pedophilia? When that Austin guy first did that one scene, that was... odd, but kind of cute if you fast forward to the sex. Now, there are entire websites and fully acted out series of people pretending to be getting fucked by daddy or uncle or grandad with sites like "Family Dick" flooding most gay porn search results. On the flip side, that same actor was also one of the stars of the "boys for sale movement". Yeah, I'm glad slavery for you little white boys is something you al
    1 point
  41. See it and use it as a learning experience young man. Yes it’s something that feels like a kick in the gut. But that will pass. Hold your head up high in knowing that you now see him/her/it for what it truly is, a low life scum bag. My first question to him would’ve been “why do you list Oklahoma as your home then say you live and have an office in Florida?” Regardless, you did well so pst yourself on the back. Forget that person and keep on searching.
    1 point
  42. While I’ve read through the HB site for several years, this late summer and fall marks my first serious search to find a houseboy to live with me. I've had mixed results but no successful engagement of a houseboy. First off, I pass by profile with a lot of “ask me,” “maybe,” and “it depends” responses. I figure they are either window shopping, or will answer my question the way they perceive I would view favorably. Then I have a pretty good eye for fakes. The Ghana and Nigeria operators often give clues in their language usage. Nonetheless, I did lose several hundred dollars to one guy, in a
    1 point
  43. danny1112 : Another low life scammer to stay clear of. One of those that master wants to relocate his slave houseboy (for a fee of course) to make room for a new trainee. Yes, wants my email to send his photos (NOT). Says his master won’t allow him to use Kik or Skype. Gee, what a surprise (NOT). Any notion you want to live video chat, even by a very discreet means such as Kik or Skype, the scammers disappear on you. Reporting one like this is a waste of time here since they technically have broken no rule. So all I can do is post this warning here fellas. I think most of us realize any of the
    1 point
  44. I’m pushing for all potential houseboys AND employers to get their profile verified on the website. It’s simple, quick and discreet. And it doesn’t mean your face photo will appear on your profile unless you want it to. There are simple, easy to follow steps when either initially setting up your profile or afterwards. So everyone take advantage of it. It would definitely lower the numbers of scammers here if it was required too. That’s my opinion of course. Added bonus, you get unlimited messaging FREE if you do. How about that!
    1 point
  45. It would be helpful if we could identify in hind site what tipped us off to the scammers, hopefully before sending them money or tickets (of course you didn’t send money, did you?) But a gut feel, or hunch, or a flag waving, would be great if you could pass on the tip that helped you uncover the scam artist In my case while he had lots of photos, I asked him for some recent photos of himself with clothes on. He only sent repeated photos. I did ask him for a passport, but next time I will ask that he could take a photo of it as I need it for the ship’s documents. Also another photo wi
    1 point
  46. Who just sends anyone money? A fool and his money...soon part ways.
    1 point
  47. Hi everyone I am looking for an employer in Europe, however I have a U.S. tourist visa so I am keeping my options opened. Feel free to contact me Hug
    1 point
  48. i'm looking for an older man who wants a younger man to do chores and sex things. room and board would be appreciated. i would like for the relationship to turn in to something more than just me being your employee. though, i would be fine with just being an employee. if you're curious about me then please message me
    1 point
  49. I have to agree with jagjet, it is really how you present yourself and what potential employers are looking for. You should really spruce up your profile and make it clear what you are offering, Not only stress that you are chubby but lso what you can all do for an employer.
    1 point
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