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  1. https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/119859.Gay_Romance_with_a_side_of_Kink
  2. media goes for extremes as in "if it bleeds it leads" and some people have argued for centuries that it is typical of empires in decline to get more decadent as people are wealthy, bored & disassociated from reality, cf caligula and no,it's not just you noticing, here are some metrics https://news.yahoo.com/why-millennials-love-faux-incest-221000452.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAANV8CfEMvKlMaM2Lp5vzkKwJgk3OJ9dTdow9ekdJ2qIdjpBebvcyiUzHuj5A-XSf0lhaI1id80O0rrb5KExJ5T757TPq1hPJKnXdetKB4bER4dlv350CEXgJPzAMODfJeHBmqX7T4SEekxQ3y-e9RdEkJRcS5K3eWtVWSq0c83RO
  3. https://www.quora.com/Where-can-a-guy-find-a-job-doing-gay-porn
  4. I was talking to a buddy about a roadtrip this summer so I was doing a little research. I'm not getting on a plan anytime soon. Thought some of you might find these useful as well. Here a list of US travel restrictions. Some states are increasing restrictions particularly for states still experiencing exponential COVID growth. https://ballotpedia.org/Travel_restrictions_issued_by_states_in_response_to_the_coronavirus_%28COVID-19%29_pandemic,_2020 International borders https://www.kayak.com/travel-restrictions Hard to blame EU and east asia for not allowing US entry. Considerations for travel https://www.vox.com/the-goods/2020/7/1/21309810/travel-covid-19-summer-road-trip Stay safe, bacha
  5. I have been serving 24/7 for six of the last 10 years in a number of households starting my late 40s. while a lot of doms want a young pretty pliable sub with a nice body. many of them open up their demographic focus after some pursuit & experience. about a third of my masters have been younger than me. what doms report to me that they don't like about some younger guys: they're flaky and often disappear for no reason while they're getting to know each other they don't know what they want they are inexperienced in sex & kink & D/s they have poor judgment & impulse control they spent most or all of their time on their phone or gaming, hide in their room they need nagging to do any chores they do drugs & steal their profile is blank/hard to evaluate and/or they didn't read our profile they have more STIs than guys over 30 obviously none of those things are true of all young men or can't be true of older guys what masters have told me they enjoyed about me or other older experienced subs: we're trained we are motivated & know that we want to serve we're very skilled at bottoming, cock sucking, massage etc we know how to take care of a household/dungeon/car etc we often have useful life skills or input when there's a problem we do obvious chores without having to be told or threatened we're more interesting to be around, make conversation, introduce to friends we can be trusted to follow thru on a project and have good independent judgment we're more hairy, chunky, mature, masculine, better tops we don't need constant supervision or entertainment most of the doms i've met who were serious about finding a houseboy have been ripped off by a young pretty drug addict who seduced them to the point where they got off balance & did things against their own better judgment some doms who can handle more than one sub, keep a young guy as a boytoy & an older guy as a manwife or majordomo what's your experience of looking for guys of different ages & being served by them?
  6. best performance prize to the dishwasher https://www.facebook.com/MagicMenAustralia/videos/1026287934428526/?t=0
  7. i am reposting my reponse to a question in Fetlife about what were my favorite tasks as a houseboy i am very service oriented and driven now so anything that he enjoys or gets him hard, is very satisfying but my favorite tasks over the years have been: coming into their bedroom to snuggle between them & maybe blow one when the other went into the shower, taking piss from the tap in the middle of the night, master standing up & unzipping his pants wordlessiy knowing that i would scoot over from scrubbing the floor on hands & knees to take his piss while he continued with his conference call, making him lunch and then blowing him under the table while he enjoys his sandwich, having him rest his feet on my belly while he watches TV giving him a foot rub, staying up all night fucking him the first time he wanted me to top him, bottoming for a young dom in training he was mentoring, regularly massaging both of them and bringing them to orgasm in their preferred manner, cooking naked for a dinner party no eye contact , urinal service in public, servicing his master buddy while he was on the other side of the dungeon with the sub WOOF what are you favorite 'chores'?
  8. in preparation for going abroad for a year with a previous master from my home country, i chatted with a handfull of guys who had found a houseboy but that was usually limited by 3 months or whatever the local tourist visa limit was. Or however long they were willing & able to push it past that illegally. it just requires the usual reasonable vigilance & vetting since i heard of lots of the usual scamming as well. i heard rumor of one couple that did work out getting status for the boy thru marriage to a female relative in east asia. I think it's difficult and improbable but possible if your practical and persistent and easier if you have more disposable income. there seemed to be more couples with at least wealthy partner that were traveling with, rather than permanently relocating the boy to their home country. good luck.
  9. some guesses: maybe they got tired of being fetishized & racist BS on dating sites https://www.thetaskforce.org/wonky-wednesday-racism-in-gay-online-dating/ black households statistically don't have as much money to spare for luxuries like a houseboy when they're helping out their bloodkin https://thesocietypages.org/socimages/2013/02/18/family-members-in-need/ they're in demand enough, they don't need to be on a dating sites. the very successful black dom i served was beating boys off with a stick for good reason if you wish to serve a black man, you might need to go to black clubs or check out groups like https://www.onyxmen.com good luck
  10. there are some domestic service sites like this https://www.helpx.net/ that dont have ant sexual component. good luck
  11. doublelist.com is a reasonable but not not perfect craigslist replacement, so far US only
  12. This is a survey for people currently in a kinky power exchange relationship in the US. Estimated to take 45 minutes to fill out but it only took me 20, with a gift card lottery incentive. https://wright.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_cPlSKDa1UX1LKdL
  13. bacha

    Francais

    Il y a tres peu de gens qui lise les annonces. Pour rencontrer les francophones, il faudra chercher par pays dans le CITY MAP et repondre a chacun qui t'interesse. Bonne chance
  14. i've met several good men or couples thru the site, some that i've stayed in touch with even when things didn't work out between us. the site is very haphazardly administered, as an afterthought to the webcam porn portion of the site. and it's like most dating sites in the modern era, has lots of flakes, bots and picture collectors. but if you fill out your profile, chat with people, vet them, ask them practical questions, video chat them, get a background check etc, it's pretty obvious who is actually leaning into meeting and checking each other out. it's possible to meet good guys if the math of your competing but reasonable expectations works out. but it's a long shot. good luck.
  15. wow, anything older than 10 days is gone. That's ridiculously draconian. hopefully some of them will be restored but i'm not gonna hold my breath. that's a drag though, since we lost any history. ouch. thanks for the heads up.
  16. bacha

    Fakes

    https://www.quora.com/Why-do-dating-sites-have-bots
  17. bacha

    Dual listing

    there could be real versatile/switch guys but all the dual prifiles ive seen so far have clearly been bots
  18. here is an article on daddy/boy dynamics that many of you will enjoy https://www.menbodiedinstitute.org/single-post/2019/06/09/On-Daddy?fbclid=IwAR3uTfWR4Z9IXetZcmp-eQvNJ7kGNqtL7CFdbKAL1g3DJEK2VH4cqqc18X8
  19. of course not, most of use arent kinky or looking for more intense power eclxchange, although some of us are. but it helps if you show us a photo. good luck
  20. lo siento que a veces parece dificil como en todos sitios. pero hay gente decente por aca si tengas paciencia. buena suerte y ponte en contacto, si pudiera ayudate de cualquiera manera
  21. ha, that's awesome, it finally works again after a couple years. you seem to have the magic touch. previous requests about it were ignored. thanks
  22. they have known about this bug for a long time as i reported it when they last made changes, so i'm guessing they're not going to fix it at least anytime soon. it's a tiny outfit and they're focused on the paid webcam portion of the website.
  23. https://www.houseboy.com/#houseboy-profile/Michaelgatt if you search from this page, you'll get no result becuase the forum profiles are automatically generated but separate from the main profiles and not synchronized. that is, if you move and update your main profile, your forum profile also needs updating. (crappy website design--they're getting money from the cams, the forums & profiles are an afterthought)
  24. i have also fallen into using HOST. MASTER only makes sense for kinky folks. some kinky people say SIR. no one ever says SPONSOR. i call people BOSS but it rarely gets used in the third person.
  25. you can find NDAs and contracts for domestic servants online but you can't add anything about sex or kink. any language of that type is 'metricious consideration" and invalidates the rest of the contract. generally i think it's good to negotiate what you want and write it down to be clear but it's not something either of you would ever want to risk taking to court. so it's just for clarity of communication & can be a hot way to negotiate.
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