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yeah, that's been an issue for a decade. this is s porn site and the houseboy section is an afterthought and becoming increasingly neglected most of the profiles are stale sadly

its a glitchbut n you are showing as an employer now good luck

that's a longstanding glitch that has never been addressed. try again in a couple of days or weeks

Sadly this site is pretty quiet but you may have luck approaching indivuals. Just make sure to check their last visited metric. There aren t many good similar sites. Fetlife if you re kinky but most pansexuals. Theres is houseboi.com and seekingarrangement.com.

Hello, i am an experienced houseman with a decade plus of experience with references. Late 50s GWM. I'll be driving up the west coast starting in San Diego, next week, Palm Springs, LA, Santa Cruz, SF, Oakland, Sonoma, Mendocino in March. And will be in Eugene, Portland & Seattle in April and points in between. i'm a good & versatile cook. I'm used to pet sitting, eldercare, pool care, errands, shopping, deep cleaning, clutter cleansing, party/orgy planning, lawn care, basic computer & phone tech, mail management & dealing with repair people. NB i'm not a handyman or a mechanic. i'm open to just giving you a massage during my travels or having you test drive my holes or giving you a service staycation for a few days or a week. Or auditioning open ended for longer term service. i'm fluent in Spanish & French and happy to learn your native language for long term service i'm very comfortable with open or poly relationships. i'm mostly a bottom but a good service top and skilled in tantra so I generally can keep my masters well entertained in the dungeon or bedroom. please check out my profile and message me directly with any questions i'm happy to provide references after we chat. Please be patient with my responses while i'm on the road. thank you, sir bacha

this site spends the absolute minimum on the hb portion, they re making money only on the porn part of the site. spam wars on dating sites have been making some sites unusable for years and it is much worse now with AI. sometimes just bots, sometimes with a human bot manager. most of you posting here fail to understand, we are no longer in the 20th century. literally every single master i have served got ripped off by some young hot thing, many of them savvy enough i was shocked they fell for it. so yes, you have to have clear boundaries, not send money, quickly do video calls no excuses, do background checks before committing etc. this is a micro niche and the only other sites are just as shitty in other ways--houseboi, seekingarrangement etc. networking thru trusted friends is better if you can find guys with similar leaninfs. good luck

categorically a scam

unfortunately the website is only partially maintained on autopilot but is really just a front for the porn site which is the moneymaker it's definitely been getting worse in the last 5 years. it's been years? since michael the sysop posted

all sites are subject to the spam bot wars. bigger sites like grindr have more staff & time to keep it looking cleaner. this site has always been a backwater and they don't have the resources to spend on the nonporn part of the site. the 'dating/houseboy' part of the site isn't really bringing them any revenue. to cut the admin some slack, it's hard and the spam bots are constantly getting better. search "why dating apps full of spambots"? and you will see many links answering different aspects of your question. many people are chatting with bots & don't realize it. most of the response above i would agree with but it's only relevant for the small number of human scammers. the majority are AIs set up automatically by trolls there's no point in posting about scam profiles. either you know how to weed spam bots & human scammers out or you don't. it would be impossible to list all the fake, abandoned or spambot profiles here. there are real people here worth finding but it's harder than years ago and fewer real & decent people are active on the site.

hey there, usually what i do is blank out my profile, delete pics and remove and identifying info and leave it up for a couple weeks so even their backups have only the blank version and then i delete both profiles. they used to be more linked but they're increasingly divorced. i think that's worth doing even on sites that have more funding & a better interface than this. i haven't seen any posts from the admin in a long time. best to play it conservative.

he'll eventually reply but if you look thru the history of the other forums, they're clearly focused on the main porn site and this is just a backwater that doesn't bring in much money and they don't pay much attention. don't hold your breath and not really worth giving them money since much of the site is moribund. it's much less active than it was before lockdown as well. .

Howdy i’m looking for a new live-in situation starting in the fall preferably as a submissive kinky houseman. My current master is downsizing and selling the house after 4 years. Here are some highlights from letters of reference: “cleaned my entire three-bedroom condo in a week… I enjoyed his massage and would welcome him back. " “He brought us lots of laughter. He's the consummate dinner guest… able to find common ground with almost anybody.” “He is an expert at fellatio and could give classes. He was able to make me come with his mouth without having to touch myself which is very rare for me.“ “We both regularly pay for sessions with multiple masseurs monthly and were very pleased with his skills.” “He's an excellent masseur and a responsive vocal bottom in the dungeon. He also served in the kitchen during one of our play parties and was extremely helpful and gracious with the guests. He has a good sense of humor and is quite socially adept. I recommend him without hesitation. Use him well.” Please PM me if you might be interested in a phone or video chat prior to an in person audition so you can test drive my mouth, massage & cooking skills. I’m happy to answer any other questions you might have, Sir. i’m in my 50s so i’m not the typical boy toy but if you need someone who is more mature, you will likely be at least as pleased as my recent masters. i can share a functional resume and will provide credit & background check, STD info. I have my own vehicle and will be debt free by the fall. Thank you Sir, blaise

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