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We have had 3 long successful term Houseboys and while every situation and agreement is different I pay what the national average is listed for an Au Pair. Here in the US it's roughly $200 per week, then give them room/board and cover any travel that they do with us or meals out. We do not cover phone expenses or auto expenses. Any food request we are usually happy to accommodate. When meeting someone for the first time we will not pay any money up front but we will reimburse them for travel to us. We do this because of all of the scammers. ABSOLUTELY NO MONEY BEFORE WE MEET THEM! I tell everyone one of them this upfront and at some point most of them ask for money. They love to ask to pay for a ticket then send them money for incidentals like meals even when they are only an hour away. It's all a big scam and this site in particular has gotten very very bad. There is a lack of Moderation. Good Luck

Hey, thanks for the reply. I am somewhat new to this, so perhaps you can enlighten me a bit. Do real houseboys ask for money before they come to stay with you? You mentioned compensation. And I agree. But if you are providing room and board and all that goes with living in a place, what do houseboys expect in addition. There was a boy I was talking to that said his current master paid him $100 per month. There was also another that wanted $6000 to pay off bills, before he could come. SInce you are a legit houseboy, what is a fair offering for a houseboy, in addition to room and board. You can give me a weekly, monthly, or annual figure. At least then I would know if I can afford to keep looking for a boy. I cannot afford a lot, or I would pay a lot. Does a houseboy expect the new employer or person hiring to get him there, or should a real houseboy be able to get to the location on his own? Thanks, Mike

Yes me for example but I’m busy already . Yall want a house boy till it’s time to talk about compensation .

Any top or vers top houseboys out there? I'm about to split with my partner of seven years. I'm not looking for a relationship but a regular top would be great, plus someone to chill with and help around the apartment. I have a nice place in the west of England. I would also be open to being someone's houseboy.

Hello I am a 29yo houseboy, living in Spokane Washington. I am looking for something new preferably to start next year. But willing to reduce the time frame if everything is prepared. I am looking for salary or allowance, and preferably a master with a big dick, as I am 8 inches myself, and I find it hot to be dominated by someone with close to the same size as myself or larger. I am looking to relocate as well. Preferably anywhere but midwestern US. I can cook, clean, do some/or assist with yardwork, and willing to learn with things I dont know. Im an artist as well. Would love to get to know my new Sir!

Just be very careful with the lads here AND on the Silver Daddies website. I have a line in my profile that states thet while I can be generous to friends, any "generosity" before a face to face meet is a non-starter. Ditto for reddit r/GayYoungOldDating & r/houseboypersonals

Recent college graduate who is back in the valley and is seeking gay jobs. I can cook, clean, and take care of any other requests! Open to lots and I am comfortable going above and beyond for you and your guests. Slim muscular latino here!

I am beginning to wonder if any of the houseboys on this or any other site are real. I have contacted a few, and they all wanted money in advance without verification of any sort. They say exactly what they know you want to hear, but then it becomes clear that is it a money grab scam. I would really like to find a houseboy that needed a place to stay and did not want money in advance. There is only one that I thought may have been legit, but then he stopped talking to me. Some say they want a salary. I have never had a houseboy and I do not know what to expect to pay a houseboy.

I agree with needing cooking skills! Seen and chatted with many houseboys who can't or don't like to cook. I enjoy cooking and would rather have my houseboy assist with the cooking and cleanup!

Thanks for your question. No, I was not thinking of "chef" type cooking skills. I try to eat healthily,but I don't always do so because I don't like to make the effort to cook for just myself. I like to try new simple to prepare recipes. So, no I wasn't expecting houseboy to be chefs. Just willing to prepare simple meals and have a willingness to learn new recipes. Thanks again for your question.

Just curious - what kind of dishes would you regularly want? I cook for myself but I’m not sure if it would be considered “good enough” (chef style). I’m no stranger to following recipes but would a learning curve be an immediate No in your opinion? Thank you.

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Hey miami here where are you located?

So I am a weird combination of submissive, bottom, but also, pretty successful professional, able to take care of a lot of what someone might need. I'm great at my job, but suck at general life skills and haven't topped in 20 years. How can I find someone who would benefit from a free space, but also wanna top frequently, and also kinda know how to help change light bulbs and negotiate with car dealerships? (Of note, I've solved this problem in general, but my very special partner is away for more than six months)

Been lookin for a fella to join our little family, help me out around the farm. It’s a fruit orchard now but would like to expand it. We’re building a drag bar & restaurant here in Birmingham, Alabama and I just can’t keep up with everything. You’d be cared for, provided for and go/do what we go/do. You could work at the restaurant if ya want but certainly don’t have to. Plenty of free time to do what ya want. Sex is on the table but not top priority by any means, I need someone worth their weight!! This has been more difficult than expected for sure lol

Everyone of those I've contacted have been totally different than their profile. Like they'll tell you they have blonde hair, but profile says black! Ask to do a video chat! Some will refuse....red flag. Eventually they will ask for money. That's when you hit block. This site is totally useless. Even when you report them, they reappear.

Get real dude. This person should removed from this website. You are the reason for all the dishonesty on this website site because of poor creeps like you who can’t afford a houseboy and has.no societal social skills to attract a man and keep him for more than one night stand. Houseboys stay away this guy gives me the creeps and I’m a vgl professional employer looking for good looking in shape houseboy but with the one distinction all expenses within reason including rent and food are included and implied

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Texasguy09 is using pictures of British Olympic diver Jack Laugher. Just be careful.

I totally agree. I have noticed the same photo on several different profiles and with different names and different locations. A US location is usually given but the person is actually in another country, usually and Eastern European country. I know this from contacting the person who eventually stated he was not really in California or Texas or New York. Yes, do your due diligence, or you wil be wasting your time or worse.

While I am well aware that sex is a major part of this website and for the persons who use this website, it would be nice if there were some real guys on here who wanted friendship and companionship first and not simply want to jump in bed. And if a "houseboy" is meant to be one who offers his services to another that ought to include basic household skills such as cleaning, cooking, etc. Yet, I am seeing that many of the profiles state that they do not cook much or at all, unless it is to heat something in a microwave. Maybe the houseboys should improve their cooking skills before posting on a website such as this one.

If you’re in better shape and have updated body pics I’d love to see and discuss further. But def need to be gym fit for me. Not into avg bodies sexually hope you got some replies most likely my comments are not the first of their type that you’ve seen so take the advice and work on your body it shows commitment work ethic and ability to set and achieve goals but as is it shown laziness and the opposite of committed

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