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I am a 29 year old American looking to be owned by an Older Man. I am sane, submissive, very skilled in culinary arts. I can maintain a clean household. Provide dinner every night, provide nanny services. I can be a public personal life assistant while secretly being owned and collared and at your service. Serious enquiries only. I have a passport and ready for immediate relocation. Thanks

Hi Sir, I’m Andrew and I’m spending three months in Cape Town starting in December doing a work exchange with WorldPackers. II would love to be able to meet you and see if I’m the right assistant for you and your family. I’m sane, experienced in culinary. Travel lover and experienced in house keeping and caretaking. I’ve been looking for a long time for a good man to serve. I’m 29 and 5’2, Washingtonian. I was involved with a massage therapist and picked up a trick or two as well Daddy. I thrive on spending my time volunteering and submitting to service of Gentleman.

your privacy does not exist on this site at all does anyone even understand this all your data is leaked you can't delete the forum you can't delete a photo why the hell do you need such a site the site is a scam, do you even understand that? No matter how much I write, no one answers, not a single moderator, are you dead there?

There is no privacy on this site, you can't delete the photo, you can't change the text,what fucking you do it?

a very stupid site where you can't even delete your forum fuck do that not a single bastard answers fuck such a site is needed????

Hello? I am eagerly waiting messages, and I’m real. Maybe I should post a verification photo?

Why did they do it this way that the forum can't be deleted, you can't change the text, you can't put a different photo if you made a mistake you can't fix it, it's against the law. I think Whoever thinks so, write

Hi! I am from Pennsylvania, but I currently travel weekly for work. I am looking for a long term role where I can be a houseboy for someone (or someones’) who is very loving but also strict and dominant. I am imagining waking up at 5am (before you), cooking breakfast every day (passion for cooking) kissing you good morning, doing all the chores for most of the day, relaxing a little bit, and then cooking you dinner and pleasuring you in different ways every single night, with no off days. I would wear outfits you chose, follow a schedule and complete tasks that you command, and bend to your every whim in the bedroom. In return, I imagine I get free room (or low cost) and board and hopefully an allowance along with some free time to enjoy sightseeing and activities (non-sexual) outside of the home. I have extremely soft hands as well, tehe. I’m 5’6 140 lbs, Caucasian with blue eyes and brown hair. I am into being praised (“who’s a good boy?”) and generally pleasing however I can. I like a clean and proper environment, one with positivity and a focus on basic healthy activities! I’m very real, just nervous since this involves a lot of commitment, but I am looking around and hopefully you can be the one for me! I can’t add more pictures because of the file limit, but I can give more if needed.

Здравствуйте, может кому-то нужен слуга, может поехать с вами в путешествие, провести время вместе, сделать вам отличный массаж и тд. Все, кто хочет, напишите, я буду очень рад, если какой-то папа напишет, могу путешествовать, могу работать у вас недолго на тестовом сроке, свободе, напишите всем отвечу задайте вопросы, пока никто здесь не нашел и не знает, как работает этот сайт, но было бы очень рад, если бы меня кто-то взял

Is there any dad interested in a house servant, write me, I’ll wait, of course, not for free, ready to work for wealthy rich people, possible for a trial period

I am good and kind with a smooth body, I am looking for a job with an elderly, generous and kind dad, I do everything around the house and also an excellent massage therapist with 20 years of experience working in Europe, who is interested, write everything, we will discuss only the generous ones who are not freeloaders and pay for work

Я хороший и добрый с гладким телом, ищу работу у пожилого, щедрого и доброго папы, делаю все по дому и также отличный массажист с 20 летним стажем работы в Европе, кому интересно, пишите все, обсудим только щедрых, которые не халявщики и платят за работу, пишите, отвечу на ваши вопросы am reality boy )

Older couple looking for a passive houseboy for several months possibly more permanent. Mainly house and yard work. Room and board and allowance.

Very successful and very good looking 41yo big bro daddy type 5’10 150 lbs wear diapers to bed nightly and on weekends seeking other young 21+ athletic diaper wearing boys for live in here in nyc for long term only. Send a message here or text directly to 917 331 0430 USA based only with legit us cell phone number only thanks. Jon here

A good person would look at a profile, see the person is asking the wrong things, and move on. When a guy looks at a profile and realizes he can’t live up to what is being asked, if that makes him then decide that’s a reason to scam someone, that only happens if the guy simply is a scammer. In dating, when looking for (real) jobs, even when shopping, life will present you with things that don’t line up with what you want. If you’re a halfway decent person, that will prompt you to move on. It’s only if you’re a scamming piece of trash when your response to something you don’t like is to be trash. Remember, the word “boy” in houseboy doesn’t mean you’re a child. You’re a grown man that needs another man to provide for you in a way you can’t. Keep justifying the scammers and wonder why suddenly being young and cute isn’t good enough to even be a houseboy anymore… blame this on the men that are trying to give you a free ride, because that’s going to make men want to support you. No wonder more and more employers are seeking past houseboys my age and up.

You guys are being scammed and there's less HB's because your expectations for us are ridiculous and not satisfactory to our talents.

Looking for a athletic house guy to be with an athletic exec. cooking helping maintain multiple properties. Also looking for a travel companion location is north of Boston email for details. Slapsh5@ aol.com

I didn't think of it that way but that's a fair point? I don't have proper stats to make this a fact but here's my theory: 1. Big chunk of the baby boomers are straight and they are looking for women (whether that's sugar arrangement, marriage, gf, maid with benefits, etc) 2. Older gen may be more conservative in nature as being gay was considered taboo for much of their lives in the past and they prefer to be as low profile as possible preferring for short-term and discrete arrangement in nature. 3. Volatile economy and inflation is a bitch. Not all baby boomers managed to lock down a place they own (or managed to secure a low interest mortgage that is almost paid off) and their buying power are declining (perhaps not as bad as the next gens but still). This may make it harder to all-paid accommodation longterm if not lifetime. That's a bit of a commitment you don't take lightly like having a child. 4. Seems like this website isn't very active unfortunately. I imagine many found someone by now or got discouraged from spams/bots and exited the market. 5. I imagine for a lot of older gens who are established, they have been successful because they surround themselves with people who made it in life and avoiding people with liabilities (for drama-free sanity, financial protection, etc). Typically houseboys are looking for an arrangement (not everyone ofc but many I imagine) because they haven't figured out their lives yet and it may give them "pick me up" vibe rather than someone who may compliment them and provide them with solid synergetic relationship. Plus many of these people I imagine have the option to just find someone on a dating market who have their lives figured out rather than going into smaller niche market of houseboys. 6. Seems like a lot of houseboys tend to be entitled or too unstable to have a meaningful arrangement longterm. Not all ofc and bad news spread faster than good news, but they do scare them off I imagine. Food for thought. Rooting for you regardless because I'm on a similar boat welp lol.

A bit of a long shot but life can be an interesting absurdity sometimes for better or for worse, so why not I figure? Currently in Kansas City MO helping out a local business owned by a friend of mine but it's getting harder to scale and I am hoping to find a new fresh change of scenery and have a life a bit more fulfilling and meaningful than just bartering time for a step little closer to future like a pyramid scheme welp lol. Used to have some light few experiences working in IT field (nothing fancy just tier 2 and some tier 3 roles). My eventual dream is to restart a boutique hedge fund I used to run with my parents' capital that helped them retire early. It's a shame they quit while they were ahead and if I had more years at it I would have made enough for me to start on my own but c'est la vie :/ So right now, the goal is to hustle as hard as possible to expand the cleaning business (and hopefully get more leads and increase revenue... scale better) and either have it automated or flip it to move onto higher margin business till I have enough cash flow to be free to set myself up and be able to focus on growing asset and investment firm without worrying about surviving or feel like I am leveraged between a rock and a hard place. I'm quite attracted to to those who is already living a truly free life and bravely or shamelessly embrace who they truly are and live a fulfilling and happy life they can truly claim as their own. Someone who has mad hedonistic chemistry to the point where we can unleash ourselves and have nothing holding us back behind the curtains, but also have the genuine sentimental bond found in closest friends who love and care. In the world where we are often judged for our shortcomings, the relationship I am hoping for will be judged on how much we love instead. Someone with an aspiration/dream and know where you're open-minded but also know what foundation is determined and rigid enough to define who you are. Be able to trust enough to show your vulnerable side (personality, sex, etc) but also know when to bare your fangs when our interest is endangered. Someone who genuinely understands my craving and actually wants me to be around. And vice versa ofc. People like that mean a world to me, and I'd like to go at great length to show that I'm here both good and challenging times. Hope to have dynamics where we can manage the volatility of life and make something meaningful with happy ending. I could say more, but I feel if we can connect with vibe and sentiment like this... that's basically half the battle and the rest are less trivial elements that can be worked out. If any of these intrigues you, I'd love to dm further and see how deep the rabbit hole can go Few details about me: - 5”4 and about 160-165 lbs but have every intention and motivation to workout more regularly given available time as I have done in the past. I used to do once every 2 days muscle workout and cardio once or twice every weekdays and I'd love to do it again. Being closer to the ocean breeze, better diet and positive ecosystem would also hopefully help me manage my atopical eczema better as well. Apart from that, fairly healthy and has no illnesses/STDs. I do not do drugs nor do I smoke. - I'm fairly honest, friendly and try to appreciate the context of few people I learn to care about and look out for their interests with good intention. Fairly independent and require little supervision but also don’t mind being managed especially in areas that I may need work on. Tolerant and respect tough love so long as it’s good and not malicious intention based. - Not shy from having good hard work ethic, so long as it’s physically doable. I’m not a Schwarzenegger with Energizer battery so doing heavy labor level seen in heavy construction field may not be feasible. When trust is earned and if potential is shown, I’d be open to taking more roles/errands that require more skills and experience as part of growing as an asset (I haven’t finished college but I had IT/compsci background and I also have high interest in financial/business world and hope to develop a good acumen and potentially building something for myself in the future if opportunity surfaces). - Enjoy cooking and if the standard is very high, totally open to be taking lessons to become more professional. - Cautious driver with relatively clean abstract and should be able to do errands that require a car. Only have driven automatic but open to learn how to drive manual if applicable. What I'm hoping for (and hopefully something you find intriguing): Meet someone who has mad hedonistic chemistry to the point where we can unleash ourselves and have nothing holding us back behind the curtains, but also have the genuine sentimental bond found in closest friends who love and care. In the world where we are often judged for our shortcomings, the relationship I am hoping for will be judged on how much we love instead. Someone with an aspiration/dream and know where you're open-minded but also know what foundation is determined and rigid enough to define who you are. Be able to trust enough to show your vulnerable side (personality, sex, etc) but also know when to bare your fangs when our interest is endangered. Someone who can see that I'm serious about life and might mentor/assist me in building something of my own by establishing platforms that can generate good cash flow and raise capital. Have some good times with cherishing memories and pick up some wisdom along the way. Apart from relationship wise... hmmm... to be free, truly be free and be unleashed from the world so I can truly make choices in life that matters to me. Meet like-minded souls who share many values that are aligned with mine, but have enough differences that would spice up and enrich life. Someone with aspirations and passions and genuine interest that they are willing to dedicate on. Someone who is not afraid of thinking outside the box but also appreciate the box when it serves the interest. Personal aspirational context: I do have a modest ulterior motive which I hope isn't going to be a conflict of interest (ideally aligned interest if we hit it off to be close enough but that's tbc). A big motivation of mine is to be free... truly be free. Financially at first but eventually becoming a better version of myself physically, mentally, financially and experience wise. Seeing that you've made great accomplishments with solid business acumen, I'm cautiously curious about potentially and eventually having the opportunity to learn from you to perhaps one day build something of my own. And at that point I think the connection would be far more genuine and meaningful as well knowing that I am free as a bird capable of going anywhere with options but choosing to stay/visit anyway. I wised up and matured late instead of having this determined mindset after high school, but I hope to at least escape from corporate slavery with opposing interest and be able to build options where I have greater say on my fate in life. As such I hope to have a more meaningful and lasting relationship rather than strictly just being a houseboy over time if possible. If this possibility intrigues you, I'd love to have more discussions on exploring this matter and breaking more ice between us sufficiently enough to want us to make something happen that would enrich both of us. P.S. I realize my account is fairly new and scams/bots/flakes are rampant here (though I'd like to hope bots don't write as much as me welp lol) but for the right person I'm happy to verify myself (video chat with valid ID, meeting in person, etc). I'm real and I'm quite serious and committed for the right person and I am fiercely loyal to few people who manage to get into my shell.

I mean, I’m real

I'm real. I'm willing to video chat. I've met with a guy on here, aquaman78 for reference. He can tell you I'm trustworthy. I've known him for a few years. We first met in 2019 when I was homeless in san diego, ca and living out of my older car I had at the time. He got me out of that situation and I was basically a live-in helper for his 85 year old friend with dementia in Riverside county. I stayed in his house for 2 years helping him, the last 6 months were spent with me by myself since the old man was in hospice at that time and passed away. I had a part time job on the side (I'm a licensed massage therapist but I've been doing it 10 years now and I'm a little burned out on it.) and I helped him with house and yard work. I'm pretty good at trimming palm trees by the way. I'm not looking to be anyone's sex slave. I just want to be someplace emotionally stable I can call "home" because I haven't really felt at home in a real long time.

I’m surprised the site admins let you post that you’re using their site to find clients looking for houseboys. Most guys know the reason sites like this are falling behind is because being a houseboy or looking for that dad/son relationship is mainstream now, so there is little need for sites like this. They just go on regular dating sites and apps, state in their profile they’re looking to be a houseboy or looking to have a houseboy, and they meet from there. You can even go on social media groups to find houseboys. Those sites are better monitored than old school outdated sites like this which have to make their money from ad revenue rather than actual usage. Most of the people that truly use sites like this now are us that have been here from the early days that just want to hold on to the memory of what sites like this used to be. Also, how would you get paid? Who would pay you after finding a guy? What will you do if they don’t pay, repossess a boy? How much are these boys paying you to be placed? What systems do you have and what background checks are you doing to know these boys are legit? How exactly do you have a supply of boys to sell? You’d have to have some sort of website to take legit secure payments, or are you using one of those person to person apps? What country is your business registered, or do you just sell boys as a side hustle? How would anyone know the boy you send won’t just be in on this (or just be you) who will show up just long enough to get the money transferred and then disappear? Seems fishy at best.

Greetings to all employers of the site. I have noticed that there are so many scammers and cheaters here. I would like to offer you the opportunity to find the truth that you want, if you contact me I will find you a guy living not in another country but in your country who will agree to the conditions that you specify. For the search of such a boy I would like to receive compensation in the amount of 500$ All who agree write payment occurs only after your boy flies to you personally. No cheating no other country no money in advance or sending money until you are together. If anyone is interested leave your contact or any message under this post I will write you myself.

Yep. Its 0. Adios folks.

When you think about it, the same can be said about employers. A man that has it all that come on a site like this to find a mate; there’s a reason a guy with so much to offer can’t find that match on a regular dating app. However, you just have to be honest about it. Do you really want to deal with an addict or recovering addict? Not all houseboys have issues like that. There are plenty on here like me that have never even touched a cigarette and have never burned bridges to the point that I had to be homeless. Again, it might just be someone that truly enjoys being of service to a deserving and hardworking man. I still miss that part about being a houseboy so much so that I visit one of my past employers every time a twink leaves him high and dry so I can enjoy a week or two of being there for him. So, don’t settle for the idea that a guy is a houseboy only because he has issues. Put in the effort to say no to that cute guy that comes with issues that you’d rather not deal with so you’ll have room for that amazing guy that just wants to be there for someone. He’s out there, just don’t settle.