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  1. I really have to agree with those who say NO to sponsoring travel to meet you. the fact is, part of demonstrating that a houseboy is serious is the willingness to step out into the unknown at HIS cost, because, basically, it's an investment in yourself, and a pretty good sign as to whether, in the long run, they will be dependable, stable, and adventurous enough to be able to make that leap of faith. My situation began in college, when I began dating a guy who actually needed me because his growing up homelife was, well, it sucked! Parents that forced him into gymnastics, at age 5, which had a good outcome, he won a full-ride sccholarship to the Midwestern college I attended. At the age of 25, when he STOPPED daily training, he went from 5'2" to 5'7" in less than a year, which his doctor said was mostly due to allowing his body a chance to heal and acheive a normal metabolism. In all, I feel like I benefitted as much from being with him, as he did with me, since it was good for me to be a bit of a mentor, and bring out the best in both of us. later on, I made the error of taking on three other boys, full-time, two, on call, when it got extreme, in managing a gay resort Inn,... a fun period, but stressful, as was also working an eight-hour shift at a college. Had it not been for my boyfriend's drive, loyalty and willingness to make things work, it's doubtful we would have had an eight-year successful run at it! Of course, we self-recruited out of the gay community, and also mainly students, who needed a break, anyway, but with the flexible hours and inconvenience of five men living in a 3 -ring circus of guests, tours, and keeping a place open 24 hours a day, Would I do it again? No, definitely not, but we all benefitted financially, and grew almost to the point of being family over that eight years. how many times one of us went down to the desk at 3AM in jeans, shirtless and barefoot sounds sexy, but the average amount of sleep a day was more likee 5 hours than 8. Part of the reason I would not do it again, is that it really has changed for the worst. Where it used to be a tiny whisper of an opening brought in curious young men, today, most of the people in the age group I was dealing with, have neither interest, nor aptitude to deal with an actual person-to-person communication job, and their expectations are more in the Hollywood lifestyle than "Hold on, we'll get through this." attitude.
  2. As a Native American by decent, I do not see the attraction of white boys, and find Asian men both attractive and exotic. The unfortunate thing is, despite being near a good school, I am NOT in Southern California, and I am also glad of it. In the past, I had associations with California boys and found they complain a great deal about the weather, the lack of gay locals and entertainment, and, what affects me most, the lack of decent Asian markets.
  3. But no details, experiences, or strengths???
  4. trent

    New Houseboy

    Hope you find local, if not, I am in the Midwest and seeking skilled hospitality freaks.
  5. I hope you realize raw is something generally reserved for the people in your immediate association, and not the local pizza delivery boy?
  6. Not only serious, but knowledgeable about what a real houseboy is presenting. It's usually someone who can't find something else to do, and that's the primary problem why no one has hired them or taken them on.
  7. I used to have a staff of 8 boys for a gay resort, that only allowed the property owner to build the place up and sell it as a successful bed and breakfast. Prefer a handyman-type, 20-34, who is either a veteran, or experienced being a submissive houseboy. The first person who says "I want to serve naked all the time," will be ignored, it's neither practical, and the reality is more wearing shorts or jeans, and no shirt is required. There is the possibility of doing what my other boys did, which is figure model for local schools and art studios, which isn't unpleasant work once you get used to it. licensed, or experienced in massage is a must, as is the usual amount of travel, cleaning, and obedience. I am NOT into pain or ridiculous and fantastic porn fantasies, being sensible, imaginative, and masculine, vanilla if you must be, and OUT. the position includes cleaning about three rooms a day for gay Airbnb, , picking up guests and assisting in hosting tours openly as a houseboy. Definitely not for everyone, and that's why suggest STRONGLY have experience or a heavy desire to learn the position for long-term. Prefer a contract, leading to permanent position, and the only reason I do not still have some of my original boys is they wanted a chance to be rent boys in Europe, and were recruited by an agency, with my permission. Looking to spend a minimum of one year training before start hospitality positions, someone who is just applying out of despair or lack of something to do, probably won't be a good fit. What is a good fit, is someone with a bit of musical talent, the ability to cook more than boiled eggs, and who enjoys the idea of a varied and interesting schedule, decent people, and keeping your tips. One requirement is, must maintain a checking account of at least $2,500, as we all need that emergency "escape" fund.
  8. I used to have a staff of 8 boys for a gay resort, that only allowed the property owner to build the place up and sell it as a successful bed and breakfast. Prefer a handyman-type, 20-34, who is either a veteran, or experienced being a submissive houseboy. The first person who says "I want to serve naked all the time," will be ignored, it's neither practical, and the reality is more wearing shorts or jeans, and no shirt is required. There is the possibility of doing what my other boys did, which is figure model for local schools and art studios, which isn't unpleasant work once you get used to it. licensed, or experienced in massage is a must, as is the usual amount of travel, cleaning, and obedience. I am NOT into pain or ridiculous and fantastic porn fantasies, being sensible, imaginative, and masculine, vanilla if you must be, and OUT. the position includes cleaning about three rooms a day for gay Airbnb, , picking up guests and assisting in hosting tours openly as a houseboy. Definitely not for everyone, and that's why suggest STRONGLY have experience or a heavy desire to learn the position for long-term. Prefer a contract, leading to permanent position, and the only reason I do not still have some of my original boys is they wanted a chance to be rent boys in Europe, and were recruited by an agency, with my permission. Looking to spend a minimum of one year training before start hospitality positions, someone who is just applying out of despair or lack of something to do, probably won't be a good fit. What is a good fit, is someone with a bit of musical talent, the ability to cook more than boiled eggs, and who enjoys the idea of a varied and interesting schedule, decent people, and keeping your tips. One requirement is, must maintain a checking account of at least $2,500, as we all need that emergency "escape" fund.
  9. Also Indiana, used to manage a gay bed and breakfast, Texas, and liked it, wanting to teach the ropes to one or two boys who like cleaning, and are open to submission as needed.
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