I have to agree and I wish I had learned my lesson earlier in time. And that is true with Silver Daddies as well. If someone has the money to hire a houseboy, I would suggest that you fly out to interview them if they are serious. And since so many of them are in NY or California, I would suggest setting up interviews with them and give them a couple hundred dollars for their time, it's the right thing to do, and I mean ONLY for an interview, not a road test!!!!!!! Treat people with respect from the start and hopefully they show you the same respect and trust. Then you know you have found a gem.