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The server is failing here. the ability to get in to log in has corrupted boot in instructions. I found you can get in this way you will get an email from HB saying MEMBERS VIEWED YOUR PROFILE open that click on one of the names that should get you in it seems to work from there.

Here I am, an incredibly qualified well preserved man in my 50s who has been looking for a suitable live in gig in Southern California for YEARS.... And despite the legions of older single gay men in this region, many of which I am certain have large homes that they either do not wish to leave, or faced with modern ironic yet endemic financial infeasibility of leaving, but are overwhelmed with trying to take care of the place themselves, I am still unable to find anyone willing to even interview me! I have been a private meal service chef and an events producer in the city of Los Angeles for over 20 years. I own my own vehicle free and clear. I have no debt. I am in a long term stable living situation but I want to trade up. I am not financially destitute. I have never been a drinker or a drug user. Most importantly, I keep an amazing home. There simply HAS to be at least ONE man in Southern California who sees exponentially more value in considering a live in gig with someone like me, who is literally bursting with marketable skills, then in some dopey cum fountain who reads at a seventh grade level who will do nothing for them but satisfy their dwindling sex drive, be high all the time, and possibly foist an endless panoply of drama upon them. I have literally been on this site for over ten years. I knew my value then, and I still know it (and in many ways it has increased). Are there ANY California dwelling independent critical thinkers on here born between 1947 and 1965 who have taken ten minutes to consider what it might mean for them to grow older in place without anyone to share their household responsibilities with? If that is you, I would consider dropping me a message. Bill

What's wrong with the site? It's been down for several days now. Is it going extinct? This is what I'm seeing. Anybody else? (ps. no updates, no corrupt files, all other sites working perfectly, no video games even played lately! Don't suggest them!)

unfortunately the website is only partially maintained on autopilot but is really just a front for the porn site which is the moneymaker it's definitely been getting worse in the last 5 years. it's been years? since michael the sysop posted

As of last night (Sunday night) it was suddenly working again and then this morning...not! I'm surprised the forum still works.

I have found MOST of these guys are after your money. One fast way to check is to do a picture search. Most of the ones I turn up are Russian models. when you look at the pics, look at the clothes he is wearing. if they look too new, start thinking MODEL look at the room he is in or the back ground outside, if it looks like a set for pics, if it looks too perfect, start thinking MODEL one immediate stop go is to have him take a picture of himself holding something with a date, news paper, and or driver license with pic and address. THIS WILL IMMEDIATELY STOP COMMUNICATIONS normally because they can't do it. ALSO put up your guard if they start talking about family passing away, family being really sick or anything out of country. INSTANT RED FLAGS. Some of the scams have pretty good, believable scripts, they will try to drag you along with believeable lifes adventures. again start paying close attention to the pics, what he is wearing, his surroundings. What the little scammer is up to is to get you to fall for him heart and soul, then he got you and he knows you would be willing to take a chance, DONT The rule is DONT send any money. If you think you have the one, have HIM pay for the trip to you. You can reinburse him after arrival if you need to but dont pay for transportation to anywhere. If this is a money scam, they don't care how small the amount is that you send as long as they can get you to send. And trust me when I say they have incredibly believable stories to make you fall in the trap.

I haven't been here for a few days, just logged in and it looks dead to me. The site has been slowly breaking down for awhile and now needs life support stat. Retrieving mail was getting super slow and checking to see who looked at my profile had completely stopped months ago. It is too bad because we need a HB.