[Tightdj on the loose]

You want me to get the facts straight about what you wrote, but you've mysteriously "x"ed everything out. Lol okay.

And yes, anyone that uses this site knows that it's a great place for houseboys to meet houseboys in their area to hang out with. Since you don't know my situation, let me help YOU get some facts right:

My "employer" knows I'm on this site and any other site I'm on. I use the same screen name on every site, so there is nothing to hide. I'm allowed (and encouraged) to meet people. My profile says nothing more than I'm in a position (and a note to some old friends from the previous position) and that's that. So yes, I'm on this site relatively often simply because I can be. This site makes meeting guys my age pretty easy, and any other houseboy would tell you the same thing.

You want some facts, there you go. Don't tell me I put words in your mouth and then "x" out what you wrote hiding the truth.

You make an excellent point actually..now that I read this statement from you to this guy thats about all this site is good for is for houseboys to make friends with OTHER houseboys. The sad thing is you have employers like this who are usually the cause of all the drama. They get pissed because of rejection and get so angry that they cannot go on with their lives...its really sad..but obviously whomever he is referring to has moved on with his life...why cant he do the same?

[Success Stories?]

I've been a houseboy 3 times now, and I can tell you that there is no text book answer that can tell you what you should or shouldn't do that you don't already know.

Now don't get me wrong, I've tried more than 3 positions, but I only stay where the situation is right for us both. It's not about knowing what to do to satisfy your host. As a houseboy (and many forget this), you just have to stay 100% true to yourself and don't just say "yeah, I could try doing that" if you're not really into it. No matter how great you think the offered position is, there is always a better one on the next page. Never try to change yourself to fit a houseboy position.

Meeting the right host and finding the right houseboy position (and for hosts to find the perfect houseboy) is like a puzzle. No matter how close some pieces come to fitting in more than one position, you'll never have a complete result unless every single piece is in the right spot. Anything less than that and there will always be that pieces left out and even if you don't miss it, someone will.

I guess if there was a text book answer, the text book itself should be your own heart.

I have been very fortunate. I have worked for both lesbian and gay couples and started in Miami Lakes florida which is my hometown. I didnot start on this site but from a local newpaper ad. Since then I held three temp jobs by word of mouth from my first employers which allowed me to move to San Francsico on my own at an very early age. I lived there with some other friends that I met on this site later on down the line and things were going well until the economy forced us all to move back home..Since then we have all been seeking a new start as a houseboy but as for finding that on this site its seems difficult because there are alot of scammers/liars and extremely dishonest guys. sometimes I dont log on. I have found only two temp jobs from this site with sort of ok guys who were honest but only wanted temp jobs such as watching pets/home while they were on vacation. But unfotunately this site doesnt seem to offer honest genuine guys so In my opinion you will rarely find a success story on this site.

[Scammer, fake or flake?]

Yes I will post a houseboys name when without a doubt I believe they are in here playing games. I seek to prevent potential stress and wasted time for other employers whom may be considering investing of themselves with this individual.

this is exactly the type of negative feedback that the site owners need to be aware of...I always read these forums and always see pissed off employers who cannot accept rejection...THAT is what needs to end. If someone isnt intrested in you just move on. IF you feel as though you have been scammed how about instead of wasting time bashing a profile , but instead spending that time on taking.learning steps to ensure that it doesnt happen again. Because if you allow it to happen its your own fault. I have had people send me money numerous amounts of time and there are certain steps that can be taken to ensure that the person thats recieving funds isnt a scammer. All and All in the end if you dont want to send money then dont and move on