When I open the tab to message someone the bar to type only appears for a split second then disappears. Has anyone else had this problem?

This sometimes happens to me only when I try to access this site on a mobile device. Make sure your browser is full screen and make sure you're viewing the desktop version of this site. This site can be... wonky at best sometimes. Just click the message icon once and wait. It sometimes takes a while for things to load on this site when you click on it. Even on a desktop, this happens sometimes, so I have found it best to come into this site in inPrivate or Incognito mode. It's kind of an old school site, so you just have to be gentle and patient with her and she'll work.