Advice Needed

Hi everyone,

We are an older couple looking for a live-in houseboy. Our main goal is companionship—someone to be around, help out with daily life, and provide support as we age. We want someone who can be here if one of us becomes sick or when the time comes that one of us is gone.

Yes, sex may be a fantasy for some, but that is not the primary reason we are looking for someone. Our focus is on someone who is reliable, caring, and willing to live with us to provide company and practical help.

We are new to this site and are unsure how typical this arrangement is. We would love to hear from others about their experiences—both positive and negative.

A few notes for transparency:

• We are not sending money to anyone.
• We are very skeptical of scams.
• We want to understand if this kind of situation realistically exists and how others have navigated it safely.

Should we continue trying to find someone here, or is this the wrong platform for this kind of arrangement?

Thanks in advance for your advice and guidance.