Ive been on here for a while. i desire to be an employer. 

however due to reasons beyond my control I can not be. 

i've thought about deleting my profile at times

but it's hard to reclaim your info on here when that's done.

for now i search the adds and see who is here.

not sure when i can take on a houseboy.

i hope to in future.

yet i fear some may think me a fake or a scamer.

not sure what to do. 

 

I would just explain that you are looking around right now and learning the site. I haven't had any issues with that so far, I'm looking in the next few months, but I would just let people know up front and be honest. Honesty really does go a long way.

thanks