I've been a member on and off for 7 years now. I've made new profiles and deleted them because it's always the same thing. I notice that most of the profiles from the same people have the SAME EXACT PICTURES and SAME EXACT TEXT in their profiles. Don't any of you change at all? Don't any of you grow and learn new things and perhaps maybe take on new perspectives and change things around in your lives and profiles?? Or are most of you the same pathetic people you were 7+ years ago? Nothing has changed on here! And the same people always ignore me and never want to talk. I get it, technology has taken over everyone's lives. Nobody has time for anything anymore.

And here I am...I've learned a lot of things about myself and the world in the last 7 years. I know most of you gossip about me. There's always 2 sides to every story and who is to judge other than God on judgement day? Pretty much the same exact things I experience while looking for a job, I experience on houseboy.com with all you wannabe "employers." You all ignore me (like what happens when anyone sends a resume or job application out), you have too high of expectations (like expecting 5 y ears experience for an entry level job, or expecting people to be your personal sex slave with no regard for anything other than your own selfish needs), and you don't give people a chance to prove themselves. And you wonder why the world is getting crazier and crazier? You wonder why the younger generation is so messed up?? It's the OLDER generation that screwed up the stock market, the housing market, and the job market. Good job. We have nothing now.

Anyway, I'm looking for a non sexual situation. I need to better my life and flourish. I know there are people on here who don't care about sex and really honestly want to help and mentor someone. I really want to stay in San Diego because that is where I am from.

You are so charming and engaging, I can't understand how it could possibly be taking so long for you to find a suitable position.

I didn't say anything about the length of time it takes for someone to find me. The OP was in regards to people who have never updated their pictures or profiles in YEARS. Get back on topic.

I just landed a great job at a resort as a massage therapist.