Notahouseboy

To Mr.pipatatl and Mr. Busyman: You are both missing the concept of this website, now both of you have good points(no matter how misguided this has become, it has become a way for two grown men to attack each other). I came to this site because a good friend of mine is a houseboy he has been one for a few years and has traveled far and has become a better man for it. Pipatatl it seems you too have grown and become a strong man and good for you. I understand your frustrations after reading what busyman has posted (I know I'm late to this game but I felt it nessesary to say something) but it seems that you are going out of your way to argue with him in most of these be a better person. Mr. Busyman, I understand your frustrations and sometimes people play others. The internet isn't a very good way to meet good people(most people on here aren't who they say they are) People lie, love the attention or just plain lose interest(pipatatl is right about this) do not hold it against them. If someone tells you in a few short hours they are ready to move in 9 out of 10 it really isn't true. I understand your attentions are aimed in the right way by point out these flakes but people will see who they are shortly as you did. To truely find what you are searching for it will take more then two conversations. As I said a friend of mine uses this website and he met two very wonderful guys who love him and he loves them back. They talked for months before either met( on the phone,emails etc) so looking for someone quick only seems to attract the wrong type of attention it takes time and patience just like in real life. Also by saying that Pipatatl is uneducated was wrong and as an educated individual looking down on others is wrong, as an educated person you should never look down on others or be little others that you feel as beneath you. In history there were people who did that and what were they called? Oh yes Nazi's do not make the same mistakes and do not think you are better then anyone(thats how it comes off). You are no better then the guy next to you just luckier: to be alive, to benefit from a good eduation, and to be able to live freely. The point is you are both missing the point and just being plain rude to each other pipatatl your intentions were true and you are right but you shouldn't attack him. Busyman you were wronged a few times and its understandable that you were mad. You are right to express this. My point is after reading this argument no matter how good it worked out for my friend you guys have really not helped this website by arguing the way you have. I will never be interested in being a houseboy because of this and I'm sure I'm not the only one who was detered by your words. Guys try to change it around and its not all bad I have seen guys who have done well from this men who have been happy with who they got but the bad to me outweighs the good. My buddy is proof to this. I understand who am I to be saying a word. I'm 19 a young guy and was deeply interested after I saw how much it affected my buddy. Not anymore but best wishes to both of you hate only breeds more hate and as gay guys don't we have enough people hating us being gay or bi men? Have a good day gentlemen (irregardless of what you say we are all gentlemen so act like it), -JJ