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There's no doubt the photos are real. But who do they really belong to? https://www.pinterest.com/goalkeeper025/sexy-beasts/
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Attention guys.... new houseboy user "tomhas " is using a pic taken from a porn site: themenofgayporn.com/sean-cody-matt/
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Not unlike many other potential employers on this site I too have my share of potential houseboys writing me and sending me their e-mail address. But in most cases I never receive a message back once I have contacted them via e-mail. here's the latest one from "Toolegit"
Good Afternoon,
Hope you're doing good today. Thank you for the wink. My name is ***** i am 21 years young. I'm looking for a houseboy, dad/son type relationship. I'm pretty much open to any race. In general he has to be respectful and willing. I always keep it 100% legit. Im goal oriented and ambitious. Im very well matured for my age. Long term will be great, but sometimes things just don't work out. My Interest include working out, shopping, traveling, swimming, and working. I read what you were looking for and i feel like i meet much of the qualifications you provided. btw, you're a very attractive man. I would enjoy hearing back from you! Have a safe weekend. my e-mail is ( ************@yahoo.com ) HAVE A GREAT WEEKEND!My first attempt to contact this individual via e-mail:Thank you for writing me ******.
As for sending you the wink, it was my pleasure as I happen
to like what I saw/see. Thank you for the compliment.
Though a persons pics are what initially catches my
attention, it takes more than that to keep my attention and
interest.
In your message you sent: In general he has to be
respectful and willing. I have much self-respect thus easy
to give respect.. Care to clarify what you meant/mean with
the word "willing"?
You also typed: I read what you were looking for and i
feel like i meet much of the qualifications you
provided. Care to share with me the qualifications you
believe you have in regard to my ad/profile as well as the
qualifications you do not have in regard to my ad/profile?
I want a matured person, prefer long term and am equally
aware things do not always work out as to why I have
presented the aforementioned questions.
I hope your weekend is going well ******. I look
forward hearing back from you.
with anticipation,
My nameNear a week passed without a return reply before I sent the following message: I believe I'm safe to presume what appeared to be an interest from you was not that of a genuine nature. Good luck in your search.I discovered today Monday 8-12-2013 when I attempted to send a morning greet via houseboy.com, this individual thought enough about me to block me on houseboy.com
So... why the games? and why do so many guys on this site insist on wasting the potential employers time?
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Have had several concerned replies from potential employers concerning a topic I posted in the forum several months ago concerning a user ksur89. Take time to read it and do be cautious in regards to this individual.
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Have had a real time..one on one bad encounter with ksur89. Feel free to message me as I won't go into it here in the forum.
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Have had a real time..one on one bad encounter with ksur89. Feel free to message me as I won't go into it here in the forum.
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Keep in mind potential employers, with the shape of the economy there are scammers who are eager to play the game of Take Your Money. Do not wire nor send a check nor cash via mail when someone claims they wish to relocate to you but need gas money. Much safer to purchase a plane or bus ticket.
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Well said
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You asked here, so I'll respond here. I don't "know" the answers but, as a "potential employer", I'll offer these comments for whatever they're worth - if anything.
The part of your profile which most needs work is the "what do you expect of a houseboy". I don't understand why the site asks this of houseboys but you should understand this to be where you say what you expect to and/or can do for the employer. Yours says "model, musician, entrepreneur". I doubt there are many employers looking for that "help" ...
especially, at the price of "salary, room/board, travel and health benefits". That's a lot of benefits, which cost a lot of money. For a houseboy, few/no employers can deduct those costs on their tax returns, so they must pay you after paying their own income-based taxes. Its much easier than you might imagine for his federal, state and local income taxes, plus self-employment taxes, to be near or above 50% - especially for a "single" taxpayer, which most of us are. [28% federal tax starts at 82,400 - can currently go to 35% - add 5% or more state/local income taxes and about 14.1% (net) self-employment tax.] That means the employer needs to earn about $50,000 (or more) to pay $25,000 (or more) of those taxes and have $25,000 (or less) left to fund your benefits.
If he owns a business, part of your costs to him might be deductible on his tax returns, saving him a bunch of taxes. But the personal part of your services are not deductible - unless he's willing to committ federal, state and local tax fraud. Also, most businessmen want to separate personal from business, not combine them.
You are dealing with a small population. Gay/bi men with incomes very far above average, who look at this site and who do not already have the business and/or personal help they need (or are looking to replace the existing help).
Sex seems important to many here. You say "if chemistry is right" and you're bottom only. Okay but both of those reduce the potential employer group even more.
Also, you "party". I'm not sure what that means but it conjures notions of substantial use of very potent drugs. Very few employers trusting you in their homes and/or businesses will want that.
Probably not what you wanted to hear but its real, accurate and sincere. Good luck!
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Well said
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Another "red flag" always sexually available 24/7 365 day.
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Though sorry to hear of your unfortunate plight I am glad to see these postings. I too have had a bad
experience. Hopefully postings such as yours and the one I have will steer others clear of such pitfalls.
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As we all know, mmm...perhaps I should say most. There is a vast difference between a drug test and a drug report. Most are aware ones age, weight and social security number is documented at the time of the test.
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Amazing the information a drug test report, a police report and a resume consists of.
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To those whom have requested copies of this persons birth date, you now know. Thanks guys. Keep the word going.
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The driver license you gave to the state trooper shows your age as being 27 and your weight as being 180.
If being 23 here and 150 pounds makes you feel better about yourself, then good for you. If anyone wishes to have a copy of his birth date feel free to leave me your e-mail address and I'll be glad to e-mail you a copy. There's a saying we all have heard. "You can fool some of the people some of the time, but you can't fool all the people all the time".
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After having chatted with someone on yahoo instant messenger not houseboy.com), they moved here. They had lived here for two months until a few days ago.
You see, he had gone into my office and removed my cell phone bill, opened it and had hidden it in his belongings. My store manager HAD not opened this bill nor knew of it's existence. The same day I found it ( by accident )and bought it up to his attention was the day he really showed his true self. He had called a friend of his in New York and told him the same story that encouraged me to bring him here in the first place. His friend in New York and myself had been told he was living with drug addicts involved in cocaine and how he was being beaten and feared for his life.
He had been out drinking alcohol and tried his best to back me into a confrontation with his loud and obnoxious behavior. Realizing the consequences, I ended up calling the police to have him removed from my home. Harassment to him? Don't be fooled, it's just the opposite. It feels like living through the movie..Fatal attraction. Since he left he managed to hack into my computer and closed out many of my accounts. Since he has left I have called the numbers he had programed into the cell phone which I and my company entrusted with him during his job search. Ahhh the stories these people have shared with me about this person.
Along with the encouragement of the local authorities and post master I have agreed to file Federal charges against this individual for stealing, opening and withholding my mail. The Federal Postal Department out of Washington DC is currently filing Federal charges against this individual.
I have just discovered this same person(puertoricanboi) ( now a new name )is seeking a houseboy position. Though we all realize there is always two sides to a story, be very weary and be very careful when dealing with this person.
Though I suspect this person will attempt to tell a different story here, you'll have to decide for yourself. By the way.. this persons birth date is 9/17/1983.... So..if this person is willing to mislead potential employers with stating 23 as his age in his profile, just how much can you believe of him?
I suppose this can appear to come across as being petty to some. And I know we all go through life learning lessons. Is it wrong of me to want to help others avoid such a lesson? Perhaps
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By the way puertoricanboi has just changed his user name on this site to takewhatugive. Same person guys
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After having chatted with someone on yahoo instant messenger, they moved here. They had lived here for two months until a few days ago.
You see, he had gone into my office and removed my cell phone bill, opened it and had hidden it in his belongings. The same day I found it ( by accident )and bought it up to his attention was the day he really showed his true self. He had called a friend of his in New York and told him the same story that encouraged me to bring him here in the first place. His friend in New York and myself had been told he was living with drug addicts involved in cocaine and how he was being beaten and feared for his life.
He had been out drinking alcohol and tried his best to back me into a confrontation with his loud and obnoxious behavior. Realizing the consequences, I ended up calling the police to have him removed from my home. Since he left he managed to hack into my computer and closed out many accounts. Since he has left I have called the numbers he had programed into the cell phone which I and my company entrusted with him during his job search. Ahhh the stories these people have shared with me about this person.
Along with the encouragement of the local authorities and post master I have agreed to file a complaint against this individual for stealing and opening my mail. The Federal Postal Department out of Washington DC is currently filing Federal charges against this individual.
I have just discovered this same person(puertoricanboi) is seeking a houseboy position. Though we all realize there is always two sides to a story, be very weary and be very careful when dealing with this person.
Though I suspect this person will attempt to tell a different story here, you'll have to decide for yourself.
Houseboy txboy4u is in much need of an attitude adjustment
in Houseboy
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Since my profile has a face photo posted and what I'm looking for is very clear and specific, I can only speculate this 30 year old houseboy wannabe has a vision problem and can not read.
I had replied back to txboy4u after having received his initial message.
The moral to this story: One never knows what disguise a wolf may be wearing.
Good luck to you all
From: txboy4u
Recived Date: October 4, 2016 03:08 PM
You have no pictures either, so therefore you're a fucking douchebag. Touche Assmunch!
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To: txboy4u
Sent: 01/10/2016 05:29:18 AM
Subject: Re: Re: Re: hi
You have no face pic posted, therefore there will be no further communication.
To: nowdoingmything
Sent: 30/09/2016 13:38:45 PM
Subject: Re: Re: hi
So, what is your ideal situation? what are your qualifications and requirements? do you have any particular fetishes or fantasies? what are your sexual needs and how do you see someone fitting into your lifestyle currently? what's your living situation?