Collegeboy4work

If you know where these "genuine" employers are, direct them to me because I've yet to find them.

In my time on this website, I've talked to at least 10 "employers" who seemed like they were wholeheartedly serious in hiring me. My profile is extremely clear that I'm looking for a paid houseboy poisition (known commonly as a JOB). However, when the magical moment came to sit down and work out the uncomfortable details (salary payments, how much, job requirements, sex requirements, relocation, plane trips, plane tickets, etc.) that is far too difficult to accomplish. Personal examples: 1.) Guy from San Francisco, I believe, messaged me and initiated contact. He was surprised at my marturity for the tender age of 21, but didn't seem to enthralled by the opportunity to hire another houseboy. A previous houseboy experience to which he tended, went horribly wrong and he wasn't ready to acquire another brat. He literally messaged me telling me he wanted a houseboy, only to decide a day later that he actually didn't. I'm not bitter at him for changing his mind, everyone is entiteld to their opinion. But I AM bitter at him for wasting my time writing email correspondence when I could have been out and about looking for a job. 2.) Guy from my state, was looking for a houseboy position that would eventually turn into a relationship. I made no guarantees, but I told him I would gladly swoop up the houseboy position and keep my heart receptive to love, just on the off chance that a relationship could blossom from the work I do there. He changed his mind the next day and decided he's only looking for a serious relationship. He's not willing to go through the development stage of a relationship. He just wants me to fall in love the second I step off the plane. No thanks, I'll just stick to no strings attached houseboy positions. 3.) Another man also from my state. Successful, intelligent and had a good attitude for the most part. We swap several emails back and forth and I tell him about me, and he tells me about him. I tell him specifics of what I consider an acceptable Salary is for my houseboy services. He felt that I chose an amount that was too high, not based on the fact that it was a high number (I believe the number I recommended was 250-500 weekly, just as an fyi.) The issue #3 had with my Salary, was not the amount. Rather, the issue he had is that apparently he hired a previous houseboy and he did not satisfy #3's expectations. If you want to make friends, let alone a houseboy or relationship, it's probably not the most rational idea to go into said friendship with pre-conceived notions like "YOU WILL DISAPPOINT ME AS THEY JUST LIKE THAT OTHER GUY." Several days later, we lose contact, so I email him once more: "Lost interest?" He emails me with some bullshit about how I can't decide what I want because of a few "Maybes" and "Depends" in my profile. Then he proceeds to tell me: My response: I can't believe an employer honestly believes that every houseboy is willing to be a slave right off the bat. I can't just completely ditch my life here overnight. It requires a small, but significant amount of pre-planning on the part of both the employer and houseboy. My suitor did not want a houseboy - he wanted a boy with no self-esteem or self-respect that he can use how he wants. 4.) This one was interested in a houseboy position ASAP (as in within the next few days. Not a month down the line or anything like that.) I actually admired his willingness to start something serious without any bullshit and in a timely manner. This Employer had the "Salary" Benefit listed on his profile. So I read through and I think "this guy seems like exactly what I want." Then he starts telling me about the position and how I would be a cumdump for his and his partner (he did not mention he has a partner in his profile either, which I found a bit misleading, but I was willing to forgive). His "payment plan" was this: 5.) Was in the fledgling stages of meeting a guy from a few states over in Florida. He was willing to fly me out there, we talked on the phone a few times, laughed and joked around a lot. Got along well. He asked general quesitons, I answered. He answered my questions. He had a beautiful home and he was willing to share it with me. Then the opportunity to visit his state arose. I thought this was great, Guy #5 wouldn't even have to buy me a plane ticket, I could simply visit him while I was in his state. Unfortunately for me, it was Guy #6 that was going to be flying me down to Florida. During that time, I would meet Guy #5 and we could determine if he wanted to hire me. My consideration to NOT have Guy #5 spend an extra $XXX amount of dollars on the plane ticket backfired. He was offended by the fact that I wanted to kill "2 birds with one stone" and was not willing to be "sloppy seconds." I tried to be nice and not have Guy #5 spend money he doesn't have to, but he was more concerned with his ego. What a waste of 4+ hours on the phone. I'll never get that time back. 6.) I have been talking to Guy #6 for a while (2 months at least,) and he has expressed "interest" in hiring me, but to this date has not SHOWN that he's seriously willing to hire me. I'm probably going to stop wasting my time, because I'm not getting anywhere with him. He was the one who was going to fly with me down to Florida, during which time I could also meet #5. There are others, but I don't feel like getting further into it. I think I've demonstrated my point. Perhaps it's a bit more difficult for me to attract the right "employer" because I'm not an escort and I'm not willing to suck dick for money. If I suck your dick, it's because we have some connection and I want to suck. I love treating men well and I make the men I have sex with/date feel like KINGS. But I'm not a pushover, I'm not going to worship you unless you've done something worthy of respect or admiration. Some of you employers on here genuinely believe that you ARE Kings. Having a fat wallet does not a good person make. I'm not impressed by a big bank account, I'm impressed by a guy who has managed to take his money and do something with it, while still maintaining his kindness and compassion. I'm not going to blow someone out of the goodness of my heart, nor will I spend time crafting a web of lies to establish some false "emotional connection" - I am not willing to pretend to love someone. If the houseboy position takes a turn away from a Personal Assistance-type job and moves towards a relationship, that works for me. However, most houseboys are probably not looking for a relationship because one of the most basic facets of a long-lasting relationship is financial stability (something that most houseboys have not achieved yet.)