So glad to see the above message because I was contacted by the guy listed at the top of this post, and his profile sounds perfect, maybe that should have told me something. I love close to where he says he lives, in Baltimore, and have been trying for 4 days to connect with him just via the phone, and each time he seems to want to hold it off because of his friends, etc. You are correct he sounds like a very nice and willing person, who I really wished to help- but now I am suspicious after reading the above post. I am new to the site and would love to find a real houseboy who is real, why does it have to be this hard??? I want someone to prove me wrong- do good guys exist?