danandallan

This message is not really a question, but rather a comment on a former houseboy. The information that we are sharing with you might be helpful. We would appreciate a reply to this message. In June of 2015, we found a houseboy on this site. He was with us until January 10, 2016. While he was with us, he didn't do anything illegal but was unethical. He may in the future use this site to find another position One can only go by the information stated on a profile, so you learn things as you go along in a given situation. He left us on January 10, 2016. His leaving was not the issue, but rather the way in which he left. He departed while we were asleep not telling us of his intention to leave. The last week or so prior to his leaving, he told us via emails a series of stories that turned out to be half truths and outright lies while he was arranging for his departure. We had no knowledge that he was not satisfied with us or unhappy living here. None of his actions indicated otherwise. A couple of days prior to his departure he accessed our computers to find a flight map and ticket information from our exact address in Chicago to Boca Raton, Florida., he deleted computer files unbeknowns to us, he left most of his belongings behind for us to liquidate, he was dishonest in his leading us to believe through a series of deceptions that all was well when in reality all was not well from his point of view and he has a cellphone from t-mobile which currently has an arears bill which t=mobile keeps calling us about to get payment from him. We were taken in by his profession of considering us to be his adopted dads and we felt the same as he would be like an adopted son. So he played on our emotions which is the unethical part of this message. Our relationship was thus very close. His unexpected departure was not only a surprise but hurtful. We know, through a search, that he is most likely currently living in Boca Raton, FL employed by a couple there. Their profile text for was a dream come true for him. So in essence, he found a better situation in which to live. In retrospect, we supported him through one semester of college with free room and board, providing a stable and comfortable home environment filled with respect, inclusion and love. Our trust was broken. We are commenting to you that we would not want anything to happen to another couple like what happened to us. We realize there is probably nothing that can be done, but given human nature things like this do happen. We are certain that you have heard of many situations such as ours before. That's life and we suppose the nature of the site in some cases. We do appreciate what the site has to offer.

Dan and Allan We live in Chicago and are looking for a houseboy who must be employed outside the home. We offer room and board and a lot of love. We are two older gents, I myself is handicapped but only require assistance when doing some projects around our condo. One can say we are the "Daddy type" looking for honest sons. Love, Dan and Allan