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  1. I do hear you. I myself have noticed that the younger men nowadays don't know what it means to be a houseboy. It isn't just the houseboy crowd either. It's like the entire generation is full of flakes who keep running off to something new before they've given anything a fair chance. I'm just saying that nearly all the young men these days are fools that need education. This particular fool, BamaBoy94, may need a visit from "the board of education" but he isn't any worse than what's typical for his age.
  2. I've got an idea of what I'm looking for but I'm still working out the details. I'm going to post my ideas and questions here. Feel free to comment, advise, or answer. I currently have three roommates and although I have the authority over the house, they are roommates, not houseboys. My authority is limited and I get frustrated with their carelessness. One of my pet peeves is dishes left in the sink. I'm not a perfectionist or control freak. I don't have a problem with seeing rinsed dishes stacked on the counter waiting to be washed but when I can't use the sink because it is overflowing with dishes full of greasy, slimy water that makes a perfect breeding ground for mold and other health hazards, I feel more like I'm playing daddy to a bunch of little kids instead of sharing my space with men. I also expect things to be put away. Everything has a place. I hate not being able to find the scissors because a roommate left the scissors in the pile on the floor of his car. I hate finding dishes that have grown crusty from sitting in the car for a month. One roommate kind of acts like a houseboy in that he's eager to cook, clean and help, but he's horrible at it. He decided to help me in the garden when I wasn't home. He went out to pull weeds but he also pulled the carrots, cucumbers, tomatoes, and peppers. I'm not looking for someone to do everything for me. I'm more interested in someone willing to obey, willing to learn how to do the job right. I'm willing to teach if you don't already have the skill but I'm getting frustrated by these guy's unwillingness to learn. As for physical intimacy, I find that most people fall into one of two categories: they are either uncomfortable with physical intimacy and will not hug or they want to skip the hug and go straight to sex. I want to hug, I want to shower together, I want to massage and receive massages, I want to cuddle, but I don't have a desire for sex. Maybe that makes me asexual but why should being asexual force me to live without affection? I'm rambling a bit. I'll write more when my thoughts become clearer.
  3. I think yngdom4older may have overreacted. I can agree that bamaboy94's choice of wording may have been disrespectful but I think he was feeling frustrated and he vented his frustration through disrespectful words. In other words, I don't think he was maliciously being disrespectful but merely being careless about his word choices. I think he truly wanted to be a houseboy but kept attracting those who didn't want a houseboy (just wanted sex). I think he needed education but not harsh sarcasm or labeling.
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