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Buck52

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  1. I’ve had same issues a good long while now but I’ve also engaged with potential houseboys who I felt were legit but for several different reasons were not willing to commit with me. Many want to remain in the same are. Many are city boys who don’t think they’d be comfortable in a rural environment. Some have outrageous expectations of being paid a lot of $ to sit around and look pretty. Some we just don’t click. Some have way too much baggage like for instance outstanding warrants or excessive drug use. One of the first things that give me pause is the answer to the question, willing to relocate, “maybe”. MAYBE?! If they haven't settled it in their mind yet that relocating is Preeminent then I have no interest. Yes I know some wish you find a position close to where they live and some wish the same but not “live in house”. Which is fine. But if they aren’t disclosing that in their profile then I immediately see that as not being serious right off the bat. Just my two bits worth. 

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  2. How about have new members do a verified photo same as required to verify profiles now? Won’t stop con artists completely but will stop those using stolen photos. Catfish I think is the going term for them. I lump them in with scumbags. Just my two- bits worth.

  3. I’m sorry that you had to experience that with someone right out the chute, you bring new to the site and all. Don’t let it deter you from your search. There are good boys out there. Just gotta play it smart. Hard lesson learned I know. 

  4. There are a vast number of profiles on here of people who only want the fantasy and have no real intention of following through. Like commented earlier they get off to the anonymity and the fantasy. I call them fantasy boys. I’ve not had that particular issue that you have described except for ones who have blocked me. 

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  5. ones like this crack me up they are so obvious. First red flag, his address is Flushing, NY, the default address when one isn’t entered. The laughable red flag are his stats, 5’ tall, 320 pounds, average. Compared to his profile photo? Lol! Then to top it off four of his answers to profile questions states “I like this app”. And he’s had a profile a good while. Long enough to correct if there were errors. Just another fake!

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  6. That’s one of the BIG RED FLAGS, excuses as to why they cannot either video call or send a verified photo. Close your door immediately to scum like that. 

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