Tru2youboi

Goodmorning Guys, Gals, and those who aren't certain what gender they are... So I have been browsing the site, and read some very detailed, and some not so detailed profiles from employers who all state "Want someone who can work in a professional atmosphere" ... Now I am all for opportunity and advancement through working, learning, and mentor-ship but what confuses me about this situation is that, there are a few of us "houseboys" on this website that are College Graduates, Currently work in Professional Career(s), so we have the set of skills it takes to either increase the opportunity of proficiency and productivity in a Employers Company, which in turn allocates into savings or revenue generation, yet the Employers ALWAYS go for the 18 -20 year olds, who have nothing to do in life but work out, or tan, so they have rock hard bodies, but are dumb as a ROCK. So... My little rant of the day...... #confused.

Good Morning Everyone! I read over some of the houseboy profiles, and It honestly is extremely discouraging. I would say 95% of the houseboys on this site focus on nothing but their looks and their body. Now.. Of course it is great to keep your body in shape and look good (as I keep myself maintained) .. but I do not let all of my potential go into how big of muscles I can have, or how Tan I can get... I focus on making myself a complete package. I am well educated, work in a high end professional environment, have my own house and land.... what happend to the individuals who want to work hard to reap the rewards instead of having an attitude of "You OWE Me", and expect everything handed to them on a platter. People often ask why do I list myself on the site if I am in a very stable environment on my own... and well .. I met my ex partner off of this site, and was the best relationship, he was goal oriented and professional minded, just as I am. He was ready to experience life with me, and we had a wonderful relationship. So, I just want to encourage all my fellow houseboys, stop with the "you will give me this and that attitude" and show and prove how much you are worth, and let your employer determine how or if they want to spoil you. BETTER YOUR SELF! GET AN EDUCATION so that you can be independent and have something UPSTAIRS to match whats DOWNSTAIRS ;-) if you get my drift. xoxoxoxo Jaiden

Okay Guys: Couple of things I have noticed, that really just gets my giggle box going... From the "Houseboy" and "Employer" side. I will start with the Houseboys: 1. No one wants to take over your thousands of dollars of credit card debt. If you need financial debt assitance, please message me.. there are tons of great programs that will help you eliminate your credit card debts. 2. If you smoke and drink like a whore on 4th street... odds are... Your not going to last very long in any situation of life. Be reasonable, have a little respect, dignity, and stop with the "DIVA" or "Princess" attitude... cause it isn't cute. 3. Dont sit and say how "Professional" you are.. when your pics are of nothing but your cock and ass. I mean .. I can appreciate a nice cock and ass..(who can't) ... But be sure the image you are presenting matches what it is you are looking for... 4. DONT GET INTO ANY SITUATION WITHOUT KNOWING THE FULL PICTURE FIRST! I hear so many horror stories (and I have some I could share) .. about boys who dont take the time to ask questions, and find out who is who.. and what is what... DONT be afraid to utilize your resources ... CHAT ON SKYPE! It is a great way for you to get to know the "Employer" and see if they are real. 5. Don't ruin a perfectly good situation... If the credit card of your "Employer" is given to you to use responsibly.. DO SO! Jesus.. stop ruining it for all of us out there that actually have common sense and appreciate the value of a dollar. 6. Beauty fades boys... make sure you have something UPSTAIRS to match what is DOWNSTAIRS .. otherwise you will have to rely on others for the rest of your life. For the Employers: 1. I know we all have personal Preferences on what we like and don' like.. But some of you ABSOLUTLEY crack me up saying "Oh I like guys who are 6 foot... your 6 foot 2 inches.. your too tall " ... really ? I mean come on... 2 inches ? You will pass up a quality individual for 2 inches... well .. I could think of 2 inches we could probably put as preference in other areas.. and I dont mean your height! Be realistic.. not superficial. 2. Dont Be a bullshitter.. Honey if your broke, and struggling, and just need a helping hand cause you have to work 3 jobs to pay the bills.. THATS FINE .. just be honest about it. Nothing worse than spending weeks talking via email .. phone.. skype.. etc.. and come to find out.. your living in mommas basement, and hitching a ride with her to work... Just be honest... 3. Be respectful and reply... Look I know time Is precious to all of us during our day.. But at least if someone sends you a message, have the common decency to reply.. even if its "Thanks but not interested" . See now that took a whole 10 seconds of your time. And makes you look like much less of a douchebag.. since we have the ability to see when you read the message. (And this goes for the Houseboys too) 4. Don't always expect every houseboy to be a "house wife" .. I mean .. nothing wrong with keeping the house in order, but dont discourage the boys from furthering their education. Its like if you dont keep them locked in the house ball and chain, that they may see sunlight.. and realize there is more to life than washing your underwear and being your sex pig... 5. BE OPEN.. dont be afraid to test the waters a little bit, but dont assume EVERY SINGLE houseboy is the same as you may have read about or had bad experiences with. Dont sterotype in otherwords... be open to possibilities, and be willing to grow with us, cause I promise you.. there are good boys out there. 6. DONT fall for beauty, big dicks, and 6 pack abs.. Not saying theres anything wrong with them.. But DONT get so entranced by the superficial things, that you loose the BIG PICTURE.. Cause there will ALWAYS be someone more attractive.. always someone with a bigger dick, and always someone a little more "jockish" ... Well... thats whats been ruffling my tail feathers ;-) ... Have a great day guys!

The defiance of reality is a condition of extreme measure. The inability to put defining factors on reality and fairy-tales can lead to a road of despair, disappointment, and more so…. Self destruction. Knowing thyself, and staying true are words that bring thought to many being, yet as a human race we fail to embrace this virtue. The every day questions of , “Why me?” , “What next?”, “Did I deserve this?” are all questions that embrace the balance of the reality, and the spirit. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason, and NO, I would never wish harm or bad things to ANYONE! However, many times we must be broken down to be rebuild as a stronger, and move successful individual. We have all walked our paths, we have ran, we have skipped, we have tripped, and hell, even fallen flat on our face… but you know what? Look at us now! Look at how we took that moment, and now have learned, we have changed, for the better you ask? That is still to be determined. Rationality of Life and Love will always be in the back of our minds. Do I? Don’t I? Should I? Could I? The truth is… until you really come to the understanding of WHOM you are, and what happiness and success are for you, I am afraid you will be caught in this “defiance of reality”. Its as if being in a whirlpool, you see the things come, but then they go, and the return upon your next pass… WHAT is it that you want? Do you seek for Temporary Fixes? Or are you reaching for that HIGH GOAL? Are you reaching for what everyone around you tells you is “impossible”? WHAT are you embracing? I pray you embrace your love, your spirit, your mind, and when you falter, and things aren’t always what they seem.. know my dear friends… I am here. I WILL listen, I WILL catch you, and if possible… Allow the sincerity of my words and actions to be the healing salve upon your wounds, no matter how complicated or how difficult it may seem.. The World preaches that “TIME” will heal all wounds, this has influenced our generation to run from issues, and struggles instead of facing them with Open minds, Open hearts, and it will continue to Blind us from the path of happiness and success, until we make a stand. WHO is the world to put limitations on love? WHO wrote the rule book stating you must be together for years before living together? WHY can’t individuals fall in love at first sight? Logic you say? HA! Love is anything but Logical… Love is spiritual.. Love is mental… Love is emotional … TRUE love is all of these things! Lust is the worlds Logical answer to spontaneity in love … To be guided by The Logical Lust is a foundation of the Defiance of Reality. Sometimes, when things can’t be explained… it is for a reason…. When you are speechless, stay that way! When you are captivated, don’t analyze it.. embrace it for what it is.. and put faith in yourself, knowing that you WILL make the correct decisions…. Life is not always going to be a Dance underneath the stars, do you have enough passion, faith, and spirit to see things through? Just when Is enough, enough? Your heart will NEVER lie to you… If you are truly in tune with who you are as an individual, your heart will never lead you astray. I leave everyone with these last thoughts. My Life experiences I cherish, The bad experiences have made me stronger… the Good Experiences I embrace as a gift everyday, and thank the Highest for them …. Many may disagree with what I have expressed in this writing… and that’s okay… The day will come, when what I express you may personally understand. As an individual I choose to live my life outside the “Defiance of Reality” … I choose to stand, be strong, to LOVE.. and to LOVE DEEP, LONG, and HARD! No matter what life throws at me, I will love you, as my friends, my family, or one day, Hopefully for someone more significant in my life. Until that day… Blessed be … -Tru2youboi

So Guys, Here goes... I am a guy, who honestly Isn't homeless, Isn't struggling financially, I pay my own bills, and still have a savings account. I spent approximatley 1 month with this couple. I am not even sure how to categorize this. One is a Medical doctor for a Federal Prison the other a student. Both are really cool guys, until they decide to intentionally push you out of the circle and make you feel as if you dont belong. DO NOT FALL for the "Oh how are you doing, or WHAT are you feeling line?" because after the entice you into their lives, and make you feel somewhat comfortable, they STOMP ALL OVER YOU. The older of the two, will TWIST every single word and sentence you say to make you seem like a bad guy, and then kick you out of his house when you call him on it. Thankfully, I am able to financially support my own, otherwise it could have been more intrusive. The younger of the two is very sweet, very kind, very caring, but very stuck up his daddies ass. Even if daddy is wrong and acting a fool, the younger partner will side with him so be for warned. NO I a no some psycho, I actually started falling in love with both of these guys... and my heart was ripped from my chest. After spending over 2 grand of my own money on Christmas, New Years, and other endeavors with this couple... the end result was "oh your crazy and need to go home".... after I told the older of the two, that he was lying and wrong for stretching and twisting my words with a negative meaning.. BE CAREFUL guys.. DO NOT get your Heart Broke, and DO NOT waste your time and money on a dis functional relationship. The minute you attempt to discuss a situation with either of the two, you will be told you are psycho, or wrong, or stupid, even if you are not.

I can confirm.. He is a flake.. The same situation. He is probably another Fat Old Troll looking to try to sink a young boy trying to make the best of theirself! The Admins should do something about him.

Hey Bois & Men, I must say it is amazing to me to see all of these "Young" "Muscular" "Hung" dominate top employers popping up on the site. Ofcourse they ask all kinds of information about you, ask you to send pictures, nudes, etc.. But then after your hour long questionnare over the phone or by Instant Messenger, you happen to ask "oh well do you happen to have any face pictures, or anything to share" these "Young Employers" seem to never respond to after that ... WHAT is up with Employers today? I was raised to respond to someone when I was spoken to, and to treat others with respect and dignity... where have all the REAL men gone?? Yours Truly, Jaydon