busyman

LOL.... It's apparent you have a deep need for attention and your self worth is in dire need of confirmation if you actually believe I owe you an explanation! *pst*

It's a known fact, "One is what one speaks". Do continue to show us all more of who you are with your malice and bad grammar. Cheers

LOL... You are a pitiful and sorry excuse for a man. Too lazy to get a real job. But I suppose throwing your legs up and attempting too look intelligent in this forum is the best you can do. Perhaps a few more attempts with your legs up in the air will find you with another "trip". ENJOY !!

LOL.. Are you so insecure that you really believe I owe you an explanation? Go ahead and flatter yourself as it appears you are in dire need of it. I say again, check your dictionary for the definition and the difference between scam and player. My bad, it's apparent you can't read so it won't do you any good.

Call me out? LOL Go head, flatter yourself. It's quite obvious you seek attention. It stands to reason your ignorance prefers like company.

Your lack of intelligence clearly seen in your lack of proper english combined with your desperate need for attention is pitiful. As I previously pointed out, you can fool some of the people some of the time but never all the people all of the time. The only person you're fooling at this time is yourself. Without being involved in phone conversations with previous mentioned individuals you have been quick to make assumptions. It is indeed a "fact" when one makes an assumption/s they make an ass of themself. Keep up the good work.

You made it quite clear you are on this site relatively often. You also make it quite clear this site makes meeting guys your age pretty easy. Perhaps if you were to spend a fraction of your time reading information for houseboy forums you would know a posting can not be completely deleted. But it appears flattering yourself is necessary and much easier. I was beginning to think you were an intelligent individual, thanks for sitting me straight my apologies. As we all know, you can fool some of the people some of the time, but you can never fool all the people all the time.

Since you find it necessary to comment on my post, I would like to see you get your facts straight. I never used the word "scam"; yet the word "scam" is mentioned numerous times throughout your response, nor have I mentioned anything about any cost I incurred. You defend these players by simplifying things with saying they have a change of heart? If one indeed has a change of heart then one ought to have the consideration and the respect to say as much. Curious isn't it, you have a position as a houseboy and yet here you are, on this site quite frequently.

Since you find it necessary to comment on my post, I would like to see you get your facts straight. I never used the word "scam"; yet the word "scam" is mentioned numerous times throughout your response, nor have I mentioned anything about any cost I incurred. You defend these players by simplifying things with saying they have a change of heart? If one indeed has a change of heart then one ought to have the consideration and the respect to say as much. Curious isn't it, you have a position as a houseboy and yet here you are, on this site quite frequently.

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I have recently been contacted by a houseboy going by the user name of antonio123. Made it quite clear I am not interested. My decision is based on facts and experiences from those living overseas. First of all the time involved for one to go through their embassy to find out if they can get a visitors visa can take any where from 6months up to a year and more not to mention the cost which will be on your shoulder. On the other hand if one is willing to be a sponsor it not only takes more time but a great deal of $$. Keep in mind, the person coming for a visit can take off and live illegally in the States and or simply choose to live elsewhere once their visa is granted and you pay their air fare. If citizenship is required for an individual to permanently live in the United States then you are looking at a minimum of $5000.00 in addition to your already invested investment. Keep in mind there is no guarantee the individual you're investing in will stay with you. If you're wanting to gamble, it's likely your luck would be best served up in Vegas.

I spent 2 hours on the phone with this person in one evening. Additional days and time was spent on the telephone with this person. When he or others claim they are ready and willing to move to be my houseboy then stops calling and or not returning phone calls then yes, I call him out. Rather one calls it a scam, being dishonest, a player, a liar, disception it all means the same. Redsoccer claims to be serious and not like the others when it comes to playing games. Watch out, he's not what he claims to be. Face it guys what serious person actually puts their phone number out on the internet?

Yes I will post a houseboys name when without a doubt I believe they are in here playing games. I seek to prevent potential stress and wasted time for other employers whom may be considering investing of themselves with this individual.

Appears BlackPaw has felt the heat from those viewing the topic I created in the houseboy forum. Changing his user name to catofspades certainly does not change his ever-changing, prowling and cunning nature. Remember when you lye with a cat you get up with fleas.

As to my brief encounter with the houseboy known as blackpaw I had no desire let alone intentions to write about it in this forum. However I feel I must come to my own defense since this individual has found a need to portray himself as a victim along with expressing his vindictiveness towards me. Take note blackpaw speaks of not burning bridges, showing respect and not being vindictive yet he is after all the one who opted to post his post less than 4 hours after we spoke on the telephone. Can it be his own words are but a mere double edged sword? Let it be known this individual contacted me via telephone. Upon sharing my concerns, disappointments and frustrations concerning my previous encounters with other houseboys from this site, this individual spent better than two hours assuring me of his sincere intentions, his desire to be my houseboy, agreeing to discussed terms and going above and beyond the point with stated sexual, romantic comments of flattery and then agreeing to flying out two days later. The fact remains, this individual knew of my location and aware of my clear mention of relocating ASAP in my ad well before he took the initiative to call and make the aforementioned comments and promises. Less than 24 hours later this individual informs me the distance is too far and has decided that it would be best for him to stay closer to California and or wait for a new opportunity where he could have the resources he needed closer at his disposal. Are the aforementioned requirements and needs not something a potential houseboy would or should take into consideration prior to contacting a potential employer with empty promises and wasting better than two hours of valuable time? As a successful business owner I make decisions on a regular basis based largely on given information and trust. This individual claims a red flag went up and to beware of me? Beware of me because as a potential employer on this site I offered to pay to relocate a self acclaimed sincere and serious houseboy within a short time span of speaking with them? My decision was based on this individuals unquestionable spoken words at the time, this is referred to as trust. I was taught you trust someone until they give you a reason to believe otherwise. This person has clearly given me reason to question their integrity. Though blackpaw asked if we could be friends and stay in touch how could I even consider such? After all isn't the foundation for friendship based on trust, honesty and respect?

As to my brief encounter with the houseboy known as blackpaw I had no desire let alone intentions to write about it in this forum. However I feel I must come to my own defense since this individual has found a need to portray himself as a victim along with expressing his vindictiveness towards me. Take note blackpaw speaks of not burning bridges, showing respect and not being vindictive yet he is after all the one who opted to post his post less than 4 hours after we spoke on the telephone. Can it be his own words are but a mere double edged sword? Let it be known this individual contacted me via telephone. Upon sharing my concerns, disappointments and frustrations concerning my previous encounters with other houseboys from this site, this individual spent better than two hours assuring me of his sincere intentions, his desire to be my houseboy, agreeing to discussed terms and going above and beyond the point with stated sexual, romantic comments of flattery and then agreeing to flying out two days later. The fact remains, this individual knew of my location and aware of my clear mention of relocating ASAP in my ad well before he took the initiative to call and make the aforementioned comments and promises. Less than 24 hours later this individual informs me the distance is too far and has decided that it would be best for him to stay closer to California and or wait for a new opportunity where he could have the resources he needed closer at his disposal. Are the aforementioned requirements and needs not something a potential houseboy would or should take into consideration prior to contacting a potential employer with empty promises and wasting better than two hours of valuable time? As a successful business owner I make decisions on a regular basis based largely on given information and trust. This individual claims a red flag went up and to beware of me? Beware of me because as a potential employer on this site I offered to pay to relocate a self acclaimed sincere and serious houseboy within a short time span of speaking with them? My decision was based on this individuals unquestionable spoken words at the time, this is referred to as trust. I was taught you trust someone until they give you a reason to believe otherwise. This person has clearly given me reason to question their integrity. Though blackpaw asked if we could be friends and stay in touch how could I even consider such? After all isn't the foundation for friendship based on trust, honesty and respect?

Had redsoccer to contact me. Though he claims in his ad "I just want to let you know that I am serious about being a houseboy". Appears he has pulled this game with several others on this sight. Spent several days talking via telephone. Claimed he was going to give notice to his employer to move and relocate into North Carolina. Claimed he needed to be sure I was as serious about having him as my houseboy as he was serious as having me as his employer. On the Day he stated he would call with date of arrival, no call. This is just a small fraction of what I have been exposed to. Spoke with another member here who had same encounter with redsoccer. Guys claiming they want to be a houseboy, claiming to want to relocate, claiming to call and or not returning calls. I wish there was a public chat room available so we could share our encounter with others as a precautionary measure. Check back as I plan to keep others up to date with future game players.

Spoke by phone with ATLBOY claiming to want to be a houseboy. By the way, this person contacted me by phone. Spent better than 2 hours on the telephone hearing compliment after compliment from this person. Before ending the calling the last words spoken to me was "you're exactly what I'm looking for" "I'll call you tomorrow. Guess what people? You're right, no return phone call to this date. Just another person passing on compliments, empty promises and to add something to their otherwise boring life. Such a shame. Though I suspect it will go on and on and on. Same deceptions same games just different faces and different names.

Due to my hectic schedule as a business owner and operator I have sought out houseboy.com as a solution to my never ending hectic schedule. It appears many of those claiming to be interested in a houseboy position is merely seeking attention, being a player and or simply out to scam. Over the past year and a half, while I have been seeking a houseboy, I have received many messages claiming to be very interested in the position I have available. I have suggested a telephone interview in each case as I believe this gives both parties the opportunity to ask questions important in determining compatibility. Here are the various results in each case. (1) Either a wrong number is given me. (2) The individual never calls (3) The individual allows my call to go to voice mail and never returns the call (4) Informs me they are not seeking a houseboy position but seeking a long term relationship (5) Will not be available for six months or longer. (6) Informs me they need money sent to them for relocating even with my ad specifically stating I will reimburse for relocating cost after 30 days upon arriving. Though I would like to believe there are those who have been successful filling their listed position, I have been less than impressed. I do believe having online chat would allow all to be made more aware of those with less than serious interest and eliminate unnecessary wasted time.