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Proving again that I'm talking to an idiot, that "trip" I went on was to be with my family for July 4th. I have a ton of new funny videos and pictures of it online on my sites too. I don't know what kind of family you come from, but where I come from, people don't have sex with family.
Hmm.... wait a second. I have to then ask: If houseboys are just guys that are too lazy to get a job and that you can talk down about, why are you advertising yourself on a houseboy site as an employer looking for a houseboy?
So one sentence to state your logic: You think houseboys are lazy guys that should get real jobs, so you search to hire a houseboy.
Again, your reasoning makes as much sense as Bush's theory about "weapons of mass destruction". I'm sure every houseboy that sees this will just rush to get to know you now. The rest of this response is to all of the many emails I received from houseboys based on "busyman's" last response here.
Look, the point of my responses was to simply show that this guy himself is just a big scam. Instead, I realized that he's real but he's just a very emotionally and mentally unstable guy. In any case, he has stated not one fact (or even one good lie) about "tightdj" and he even erased his comments about the guy after I called him out on it. Everyone seeing this sees just what kind of guy "busyman" is now.
For all of that basically stated that he was right about the shame of making money having sex with older men and not wanting to work, you can't let someone so wrong be the reason you feel shame (or anything). Let's get some facts...
My resume shows everything from janitor, produce department manager, vacation home property management, juvenile detention officer, and houseboy in between all of it. It also shows my education from honors in high school, bachelors in business management, successfully completed police academy training, and more. Why? I liked every position I've had. I'll admit, the first time I did the houseboy thing, I was really looking for sex with an older man. However my first position didn't involve sex but it did involve a great man taking great care to make sure I was happy and could work and go to school full time. That's why I can honestly say that I enjoy the houseboy thing.
The point: be smart. You can't feel shamed about anything as long as you go into it doing only what you feel is okay and is right. Since I happen to be more attracted to older men, sex is like being able to have my cake and eat it too. If that's not your thing, don't do it just because the position calls for it. There are plenty of positions that don't require or even want sex from the houseboy. Also, don't forget that being a houseboy is work. Personally, I'll never enter into a position without an agreement that would allow me to list my houseboy services on my resume. For example, my current position will be on my resume as "personal assistant" which will include the actual services I provide or it will be listed as "professional caddy" for a man that's on the senior pga tour. My houseboy positions are the reason my resume show no gaps in work history. In the middle of the recession, my resume shows that I've worked a few jobs and my rate of pay has only increased thanks to houseboy positions. Be smart about your position and what you're getting from it.
An easy rule I live by as a houseboy: I won't do anything in a positon that I would be ashamed to tell my mom or family about.
I will admit, though, that "busyman" is right about this position being 'lazy'. Lol I went through police academy to be a detention officer fighting young inmates for a living and now I make more money walking golf courses. Even better, he has a full gym at home that's available 24/7 so I don't even have to go far to stay in shape. Haha yeah, even I'd say that's lazy, but really, who would be dumb enough to work harder when he could do more by working smarter?
So you see, it's hard to feel bad about what I do for a living right now. I'm 24, no police record, I don't even smoke cigs, I'm healthy, happy, taken care of, have multiple IRA's, deferred compensation accounts, I have a good resume, a great family, I'm not in the closet, and I get paid to watch a guy play golf basically. I find it very difficult to be ashamed of anything I've ever done for work or in life period. I feel this way because back to the start of this long response: I do what I feel is right or okay and I won't ever just do something that I don't agree with just because the position calls for it.
It's a known fact, "One is what one speaks". Do continue to show us all more of who you are with your malice and bad grammar. Cheers
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So still after all of that, nothing about this "tightdj" guy?
The point I'm making (and the point that you're helping me make) is that you're just some old, bitter, lonely guy that will try to tarnish the name of any houseboy on here just because he decides he doesn't want you. Grow up and learn how to take rejection, become a little bit more stable with yourself, and maybe you wouldn't be so alone. Stop posting lies about houseboys on here that are so obvious that anyone can see right through to your issues.
So in the end, when you write something about someone and then get called out on it for it being false, don't erase the forum entry and try to say you didn't say it. You might be able to erase the forum with periods, but you can't erase the title "tightdj on the loose" especially after a string of your other forums you've posted.
You've put a forum here that is supposed to help others avoid being scammed, but in the end, every sees who the real liar is. Now you're trying to turn your focus on insulting me. Lol I must say nice try, but life is too sweet for me right now to take much of anything personal.
The only thing I can compare your responses to is Bush's theory of "weapons of mass destruction". In other words, it's obvious that I'm chatting with an idiot so I'm done here. I've called you out for liar that you are and whoever "tightdj" is will be so very happy he decided to avoid you.
Now I have a trip to get ready for. You have a good life and please continue to write forums like this so houseboys can see it and decide not to meet you.
LOL... You are a pitiful and sorry excuse for a man. Too lazy to get a real job. But I suppose throwing your legs up and attempting too look intelligent in this forum is the best you can do. Perhaps a few more
attempts with your legs up in the air will find you with another "trip". ENJOY !!
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Yes, call you out on your bullshit. So again...
Name just ONE thing this guy did wrong that justifies you trying to blast on here that he's some kind of scam. You can keep trying to change the subject into whatever you want, but again... name one thing this "tightdj" did to give you the write to blast him with a forum called "tightdj on the loose" as if he's some kind of bad person.
I'll once again point out that after I called you out on your nonsense here, you deleted the original posting you wrote about this guy and you're yet to put it back up. So, what did tightdj do that was so wrong?
LOL.. Are you so insecure that you really believe I owe you an explanation? Go ahead and flatter yourself
as it appears you are in dire need of it. I say again, check your dictionary for the definition and the difference
between scam and player. My bad, it's apparent you can't read so it won't do you any good.
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Wow, what a response.
I guess with all your postings, you forgot to post the most important one. Let me help you with the title:
"Busyman on the loose"
I think ALL of these guys you've written about on here are due an apology. Even if you don't do that, I think my responses here have done enough to call you out.
Call me out? LOL
Go head, flatter yourself. It's quite obvious you seek attention. It stands to reason your ignorance prefers like company. -
Haha yes, because posting on the forums here will get me soooo much attention!
In the end, I respond to posting like this only when I see people bad mouthing others just because they were rejected. The truth of the matter is this:
You couldn't prove what you wrote about him, I called you out on it, and you deleted it (by replacing the text with a few periods). So, everyone reading these forums can see that you're just full of bullshit. I hope you find the right houseboy, but I hope that houseboy does his homework to find out just who you are so he'll know what he's getting himself into.
I'm in the perfect position now only after kissing a few frogs. I get to basically do what I want and I have plenty of free time. I chat with quite a few houseboys still and I'll give any houseboy as much information and tips that's asked from me. I'll even post replies to forums like this and encourage them to read them to get a clue about how some guys can be.
When you write a forum with the title "Tightdj on the loose", "New Name Same Game", and "Seeking Attention? A player or just a Scammer? " it's hard to assume you're not calling someone a scammer. Then you follow the title up with a forum that simply states that someone wasn't interested in you. If this is how you handle rejection online, there aren't many houseboys that want to see how you react to rejection in person. Stop going off on guys in public forums like you've ended some 5 year relationship or something and move on. The only thing you're showing people is that you're a very emotionally unstable person.
After having read your tripe, it's obvious the only thing that out weighs your lack of proper grammar is your ignorance. As we all know, there is a vast difference between "rejection" and "dishonesty". But it's apparent you need to stroke your ego.
So say what you want, but you still haven't proven this guy did anything wrong. So back to square one, show this guy did just ONE thing wrong or quit writing such untrue crap on here.
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This is a reply directly to your original posting, which is now just periods. Call me crazy, but is there text there that I'm missing. First you "X"ed everything out, now you just put a few periods. Perhaps you can't delete a main posting, but you can edit out all of the content as you've done.
So again, when did I actually say you "deleted" your post? You can't even respond properly to what's written in black and white. No wonder you take simple rejection as someone trying to scam you. You obviously have a problem reading what is right in front of you.
Plus the point of me posting responses to these is so you can't go around trying to discredit these houseboys for no good reason other than the fact that they weren't interested in you. My responses simply ask you to show some proof of being scammed and then I'd stop responding. However, all you can say is "he scammed me because he said he would call back and he didn't". That's not a scam. That's just them rejecting you because they don't want you.
Now, you have actually edited out your original posting with just "x"s (periods now) and now no one can see what you said about this particular houseboy. So the results of me annoying you with my responses:
1) The houseboy doesn't have any untrue slander going on about him because you edited out your post
2) No only can you not provide a fact about being scammed, you've edited out your entire original post because you know you have nothing to prove other than admitting that I'm right and you were rejected, not scammed.
3) Anyone reading these will be able to get good information from others, but will know that anything your write on here is just a bunch of bullshit.
By not being able to stand behind your own words, you've done a great job discrediting yourself. Instead of giving a good response, you edited out your forum because there's no truth to back it up.
To make it worse, your strongest reply (the one posted May 26 2010, 05:42 PM) sounds really good until everyone realizes that you're literally responding to something I never wrote. At all.
So all of the nonsense aside, you were the one that first starting saying there needs to be facts. Well, how about you come up with one fact about this guy scamming you. Just one. If you do, I will delete (or edit it out with just a few periods) every single response I've written on any forum of yours.
Your lack of intelligence clearly seen in your lack of proper english combined with your desperate need for attention is pitiful.
As I previously pointed out, you can fool some of the people some of the time but never all the people all of the time. The only
person you're fooling at this time is yourself. Without being involved in phone conversations with previous mentioned individuals
you have been quick to make assumptions. It is indeed a "fact" when one makes an assumption/s they make an ass of themself.
Keep up the good work.
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You want me to get the facts straight about what you wrote, but you've mysteriously "x"ed everything out. Lol okay.
And yes, anyone that uses this site knows that it's a great place for houseboys to meet houseboys in their area to hang out with. Since you don't know my situation, let me help YOU get some facts right:
My "employer" knows I'm on this site and any other site I'm on. I use the same screen name on every site, so there is nothing to hide. I'm allowed (and encouraged) to meet people. My profile says nothing more than I'm in a position (and a note to some old friends from the previous position) and that's that. So yes, I'm on this site relatively often simply because I can be. This site makes meeting guys my age pretty easy, and any other houseboy would tell you the same thing.
You want some facts, there you go. Don't tell me I put words in your mouth and then "x" out what you wrote hiding the truth.
You made it quite clear you are on this site relatively often. You also make it quite clear this site makes meeting guys your age pretty easy.
Perhaps if you were to spend a fraction of your time reading information for houseboy forums you would know a posting can not be completely deleted. But it appears flattering yourself is necessary and much easier. I was beginning to think you were an intelligent individual, thanks for sitting me straight my apologies. As we all know, you can fool some of the people some of the time, but you can never fool all the people all the time.
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You want me to get the facts straight about what you wrote, but you've mysteriously "x"ed everything out. Lol okay.
And yes, anyone that uses this site knows that it's a great place for houseboys to meet houseboys in their area to hang out with. Since you don't know my situation, let me help YOU get some facts right:
My "employer" knows I'm on this site and any other site I'm on. I use the same screen name on every site, so there is nothing to hide. I'm allowed (and encouraged) to meet people. My profile says nothing more than I'm in a position (and a note to some old friends from the previous position) and that's that. So yes, I'm on this site relatively often simply because I can be. This site makes meeting guys my age pretty easy, and any other houseboy would tell you the same thing.
You want some facts, there you go. Don't tell me I put words in your mouth and then "x" out what you wrote hiding the truth.
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Since you find it necessary to comment on my post, I would like to see you get your facts straight. I never used the word "scam"; yet the word "scam" is mentioned numerous times throughout your response, nor have I mentioned anything about any cost I incurred. You defend these players by simplifying things with saying they have a change of heart? If one indeed has a change of heart then one ought to have the consideration and the respect to say as much. Curious isn't it, you have a position as a houseboy and yet here you are, on this site quite frequently.
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Since you find it necessary to comment on my post, I would like to see you get your facts straight. I never used the word "scam"; yet the word "scam" is mentioned numerous times throughout your response, nor have I mentioned anything about any cost I incurred. You defend these players by simplifying things with saying they have a change of heart? If one indeed has a change of heart then one ought to have the consideration and the respect to say as much. Curious isn't it, you have a position as a houseboy and yet here you are, on this site quite frequently.
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I have recently been contacted by a houseboy going by the user name of antonio123.
Made it quite clear I am not interested. My decision is based on facts and experiences
from those living overseas. First of all the time involved for one to go through their embassy
to find out if they can get a visitors visa can take any where from 6months up to a year and more
not to mention the cost which will be on your shoulder. On the other hand if one is willing to be a
sponsor it not only takes more time but a great deal of $$. Keep in mind, the person coming for a
visit can take off and live illegally in the States and or simply choose to live elsewhere once their
visa is granted and you pay their air fare. If citizenship is required for an individual to permanently
live in the United States then you are looking at a minimum of $5000.00 in addition to your already
invested investment. Keep in mind there is no guarantee the individual you're investing in will stay
with you. If you're wanting to gamble, it's likely your luck would be best served up in Vegas.
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Again and as I've responded to some of your other posts... what you write about him doesn't mean he's a game player. It just means he wasn't interested in you after all and he probably found a better position elsewhere.
You keep saying in these that you "did your research" as if you have proof that these guys have been scamming on other sites.
Hmm okay. So name one site or one other screen name that he's used to scam someone.
Him not calling you back is not a scam. It's called "you got stood up". That's not nice to do to a person and shame on him for doing it, but would you quit calling guys scams because they don't want you.
Like I said in a response to another one of your forum posts, do you get what I'm saying? Don't you realize that people get stood up all the time:
Sometimes people don't show up for interviews. Sometimes people don't show up for dates. Sometimes houseboys don't show up for a position. That's not "a scam". That's part of "life". The sooner you step into reality and realize that, the better you'll be.
The rules are simple here... take the time to get to know someone, don't be so blinded by some twink's cute picture, and use the other head to be able to spot someone that really isn't that interested. Of course, the biggest rule: NEVER send anyone money.
In the end, I'll say it again: being stood up is not a scam. You didn't lose anything but time, which obviously isn't that bad of a deal because you had the time to post this forum. I'm really starting to think you're the scam... if a guy doesn't come to meet you, you just up and call him a scam.
Do you wonder why no one comes to meet you?
I spent 2 hours on the phone with this person in one evening. Additional days and time was spent on the telephone with this person. When he or others claim they are ready and willing to move to be my houseboy then stops calling and or not returning phone calls then yes, I call him out. Rather one calls it a scam, being dishonest, a player, a liar, disception it all means the same. Redsoccer claims to be serious and not like the others when it comes to playing games. Watch out, he's not what he claims to be. Face it guys what serious person actually puts their phone number out on the internet?
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Funny, I've responded to something else you wrong. don't let this hurt your feelings, but him not calling back doesn't mean he's not interested in being a houseboy.
Just means he's not interested in you.
I mean you're really going to post his name and everything because he didn't call you back?
Yes I will post a houseboys name when without a doubt I believe they are in here playing games. I seek to prevent potential stress and wasted time for other employers whom may be considering investing of themselves with this individual.
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Appears BlackPaw has felt the heat from those viewing the topic I created in the houseboy forum.
Changing his user name to catofspades certainly does not change his ever-changing, prowling and
cunning nature. Remember when you lye with a cat you get up with fleas.
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As to my brief encounter with the houseboy known as blackpaw I had no desire let alone intentions to write about it in this forum. However I feel I must come to my own defense since this individual has found a need to portray himself as a victim along with expressing his vindictiveness towards me. Take note blackpaw speaks of not burning bridges, showing respect and not being vindictive yet he is after all the one who opted to post his post less than 4 hours after we spoke on the telephone. Can it be his own words are but a mere double edged sword?
Let it be known this individual contacted me via telephone. Upon sharing my concerns, disappointments and frustrations concerning my previous encounters with other houseboys from this site, this individual spent better than two hours assuring me of his sincere intentions, his desire to be my houseboy, agreeing to discussed terms and going above and beyond the point with stated sexual, romantic comments of flattery and then agreeing to flying out two days later. The fact remains, this individual knew of my location and aware of my clear mention of relocating ASAP in my ad well before he took the initiative to call and make the aforementioned comments and promises. Less than 24 hours later this individual informs me the distance is too far and has decided that it would be best for him to stay closer to California and or wait for a new opportunity where he could have the resources he needed closer at his disposal. Are the aforementioned requirements and needs not something a potential houseboy would or should take into consideration prior to contacting a potential employer with empty promises and wasting better than two hours of valuable time? As a successful business owner I make decisions on a regular basis based largely on given information and trust. This individual claims a red flag went up and to beware of me? Beware of me because as a potential employer on this site I offered to pay to relocate a self acclaimed sincere and serious houseboy within a short time span of speaking with them? My decision was based on this individuals unquestionable spoken words at the time, this is referred to as trust. I was taught you trust someone until they give you a reason to believe otherwise. This person has clearly given me reason to question their integrity. Though blackpaw asked if we could be friends and stay in touch how could I even consider such? After all isn't the foundation for friendship based on trust, honesty and respect?
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As to my brief encounter with the houseboy known as blackpaw I had no desire let alone intentions to write about it in this forum. However I feel I must come to my own defense since this individual has found a need to portray himself as a victim along with expressing his vindictiveness towards me. Take note blackpaw speaks of not burning bridges, showing respect and not being vindictive yet he is after all the one who opted to post his post less than 4 hours after we spoke on the telephone. Can it be his own words are but a mere double edged sword?
Let it be known this individual contacted me via telephone. Upon sharing my concerns, disappointments and frustrations concerning my previous encounters with other houseboys from this site, this individual spent better than two hours assuring me of his sincere intentions, his desire to be my houseboy, agreeing to discussed terms and going above and beyond the point with stated sexual, romantic comments of flattery and then agreeing to flying out two days later. The fact remains, this individual knew of my location and aware of my clear mention of relocating ASAP in my ad well before he took the initiative to call and make the aforementioned comments and promises. Less than 24 hours later this individual informs me the distance is too far and has decided that it would be best for him to stay closer to California and or wait for a new opportunity where he could have the resources he needed closer at his disposal. Are the aforementioned requirements and needs not something a potential houseboy would or should take into consideration prior to contacting a potential employer with empty promises and wasting better than two hours of valuable time? As a successful business owner I make decisions on a regular basis based largely on given information and trust. This individual claims a red flag went up and to beware of me? Beware of me because as a potential employer on this site I offered to pay to relocate a self acclaimed sincere and serious houseboy within a short time span of speaking with them? My decision was based on this individuals unquestionable spoken words at the time, this is referred to as trust. I was taught you trust someone until they give you a reason to believe otherwise. This person has clearly given me reason to question their integrity. Though blackpaw asked if we could be friends and stay in touch how could I even consider such? After all isn't the foundation for friendship based on trust, honesty and respect?
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Had redsoccer to contact me. Though he claims in his ad "I just want to let you know that I am serious about being a houseboy". Appears he has pulled this game with several others on this sight. Spent several days talking via telephone. Claimed he was going to give notice to his employer to move and relocate into North Carolina. Claimed he needed to be sure I was as serious about having him as my houseboy as he was serious as having me as his employer. On the Day he stated he would call with date of arrival, no call. This is just a small fraction of what I have been exposed to. Spoke with another member here who had same encounter with redsoccer. Guys claiming they want to be a houseboy, claiming to want to relocate, claiming to call and or not returning calls. I wish there was a public chat room available so we could share our encounter with others as a precautionary measure. Check back as I plan to keep others up to date with future game players.
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Spoke by phone with ATLBOY claiming to want to be a houseboy. By the way, this person contacted me by phone. Spent better than 2 hours on the telephone hearing compliment after
compliment from this person. Before ending the calling the last words spoken to me was "you're exactly what I'm looking for" "I'll call you tomorrow. Guess what people? You're right, no return phone call to this date. Just another person passing on compliments, empty promises and to add something to their otherwise boring life. Such a shame. Though I suspect it will go on and on and on. Same deceptions same games
just different faces and different names.
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Due to my hectic schedule as a business owner and operator I have sought out houseboy.com as a solution to my never ending hectic schedule. It appears many of those claiming to be interested in a houseboy position is merely seeking attention, being a player and or simply out to scam.
Over the past year and a half, while I have been seeking a houseboy, I have received many messages claiming to be very interested in the position I have available. I have suggested a telephone interview in each case as I believe this gives both parties the opportunity to ask questions important in determining compatibility. Here are the various results in each case.
(1) Either a wrong number is given me. (2) The individual never calls (3) The individual allows my call to go to voice mail and never returns the call (4) Informs me they are not seeking a houseboy position but seeking a long term relationship (5) Will not be available for six months or longer. (6) Informs me they need money sent to them for relocating even with my ad specifically stating I will reimburse for relocating cost after 30 days upon arriving.
Though I would like to believe there are those who have been successful filling their listed position, I have been less than impressed.
I do believe having online chat would allow all to be made more aware of those with less than serious interest and eliminate unnecessary wasted time.
Tightdj on the loose
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LOL.... It's apparent you have a deep need for attention and your self worth is in dire need of confirmation if you actually believe I owe you an explanation! *pst*