having to deal with consistent harrasment by user nowdoingmything I decided to change my username.
it's always challenging to confront especially being as young as my age. nowdoingmything has decided to post a very interesting topic about an experience he says we went through while he took me in.
This person i have chatted with on an occassion in houseboy.com and gave him my yahoo id to discuss more on the offer he had to give.
Passing several months I had a situation with irresposible roomates who were into drugs, excessive drinking and partying and seeing how nowdoingmything appeared to be a trusting and helpful person i decided to travel overstate and experience a possible relationship with him.
Things were very good at first however, it appeared that the details he was describing about his daily life was not what I had expected.
While on the phone he sounded very nice and aristocrat like, in person I felt like he was extremely rude to customers of his small business which consists of flea market like products which is now in thin air because the store has to shut down for loss of business due to lack of customers having interest in coming to a place to shop where they are treated extremely poorly. With a displeasing character that nowdoingmything had I decided to take on a role as just being a friend but yet working somewhere else to better protect myself from any future decisions.
I got hired at a job and only lasting in training since founded that the job was going to have me work during the weekends and everywhere he went, I would go since I didn't have a car being with him. Nowdoingmything didnt want me to move out and felt like he wanted me to stay with him, which at first was difficult but he certainly convinced me to actualy work for his small company.
One day after coming back from jogging he called my attention and showed me an opened letter with a bill inside claiming I had opened the letter and had it hidden. Having another non employee who does his bills was the strong possibility of having to have opened the bill and trying to exlain to him that I was unaware he had a very choleric and irritated behavior the whole time and when I got home, I was eager to explain to him about why his attitude towards me and Falsey accuse me, but with no response and a impuse he decided to call the police on me and have me removed from his house, claiming i opened an envelope and didnt feel safe around me, inside I was very scared and intimidated with this horrible cold person.
Houseboys can be an easy target to be blamed for many things that can go wrong because of our lack of experience and age. I urge you just like employers to take a further step and investigate the person you are deciding to move in with since you are also putting your life at risk.
my post isn't just to prove the other person wrong but also to share an experience that may happen to you.
Having to start a new job soon and possibly going to school soon next year this will help aid the frightning moment i experienced.
But also because of this abhorrent experience, it doesn't discourage me to continue to find a possible employer with the need of a caring loving houseboy.
nowdoingmything might flood this topic with horrible comments and disagree completely but this is no competition, match or contest.
everyone have a good day and happy searching!