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to "roger1988" please listen to this forum post. This guy is correct. You shouldn't give up in your search. I almost gave up. I bet we were probably even contacted by some of the same men lol. I took my time and weeded out the bad ones and I eventually found who I was looking for. You just have to be patient and PLEASE PLEASE use common sense when someone sends you a message. Remember if someone is actually wanting to hire you they will make every effort to meet!! Trust me on that :-) If you encounter employers who only want you to send them pics..and more pics..and talk and talk and talk then I would immediately "x" them off my list. Also be careful about when you choose to send an employer your personal info. I read your other post and I am sorry to hear about what happened to you but Im glad you were able to find your way back home. Its things like that I am glad I don't have to deal with anymore. Even though I have found an employer and we are doing great, my goal is to continue to visit the site and offering a helping hand and hope that my words as well as guys like the author of this post..can help at least one or two houseboys prevent from falling into traps of the "bad employers"

there are alot of us on here who are FRIENDS just like some of the EMPLOYERS are working together...WE dont like being lied about...You made a false post about (jbatemore) who has many friends and is a newbee on this site so his friends (myself included) are reviewing the posts to show people that YOU are a liar!!

YOU are a prime example of a pissed off queen who is a LIAR. Jbatemore made a post that wasnt about YOU and you made up a lie that he was helping the guy who this post was made about.

dont know if this will help you but I have learned that most memebers on this site are scammers (the employer) the good honest houseboys are starting to see that and are getting worried for their saftey. I asked alot of the houseboys when I joined about the site and the things they told me werent true. Some of them had been raped..traveled to employers and had been stranded in the middle of no where..and ALOT are victims of identity theft. So if you arent getting any responses it might be either because some of the profiles that you are sending messages to are fake (have been created as a dumy user to obtain members) or the person you are messaging isnt intrested after reading your profile or lastly they might not use the site anymore.

I believe you. More houseboys need to pay attention to the forums. Alot of employers work together on here. When you reject them they come on here and write lies about houseboys so that no one will hire them.

yes thanks for posting this. They also scammed me as well asking me for personal information to obtain a background check as well as photos and then I never heard from them again.

This is just a general message to all houseboys. NEVER send your personal information to an employer no matter how irresistable the position seems. Alot of employers on here seem to work together and just want to obtain photos to post on their porn sites of young guys. I have only had my profile on the site for a short time and have already been contacted by people on the site who just want you to send them nude photos and other personal information for identity fraud!! Please pay attention to other houseboys when they write forum posts about the bad employers on this site. There are some good employers but it doesnt seem as though there are alot sadly. Also be careful of the people who promise you alot and then want you to pay to come and be their houseboy. This is also another red flag to be aware of. Do NOT ever put yourself in a position where you travel to someone and run the risk of being stranded in the middle of no where. If you are in desperate need to find a houseboy position just because of your current situation just make sure you always let someone know where you are going and also make sure you have a way to leave if something bad were to happen. Some of us are genuine housebsoys who actually do work and arent lazy and are honest about what we are seeking. Just take your time when chatting with an employer and look for red flags when you communicate with them that may indicate that they might be a potential scammer. I recently was scammed by two users on the site (two profiles that are the same guy). They promised me a sign on bonus and much more and the position seemed like a perfect fit for me. They told me that before they paid for my travel to them that they needed my phone number/ full name/birthdate/ and drivers license number to obtain a background check. After providing them with the information they requested I never heard fromthem again. Just please be careful and be safe :-) and always communicate and ask questions with other houseboys if an employer seems suspicous.

YES they contacted me also . Thanks for warning us about him !!

Users "tlcote" and "funkywabit" are scammers. Houseboys be aware of these two profiles asking you to send them photos and personal information to their offsite web address. They offer a typical irresistable offer but once you send them the information they request and other photos you don hear from them again. Please report them to the site administrator if they contact you and copy and paste their email message.