I was lucky, l guess, I joined the site and a week or two later a local recommendation came my way and I was able to employ a very good houseboi who satisfies me. However, he is at college and only has a year (currently) until he completes his degree. He wants to travel and move somewhere warmer (Indianapolis is way too cold for his latin blood) and when he is ready I am happy to send him off into the big wide world. He can always count on my support however.
So, do I stay a member and keep abreast of the current boiz looking ... or is that too creepy?