Greetings fellow housebois in search of a position. I would kindly like to remind you that respect should be upheld when it comes to possible future employers. If at anytime you decide that it will not work out, or if you are having doubts, be communicative! There is no sense in burning unnecessary bridges on this site.
That being said, i shall give you a perfect example of why. There are some men online here that have a bit of a vindictive nature about them. My most recent experience was with Busyman. I had spoken with him, and was very intrigued and turned on by him. We had a lot of commonalities, and i very much wanted to pursue the idea of moving in with him. He offered to buy me a ticket for wednesday, april 17. For me, seeing as i had only spoke with him last night (april 15th) that sent up a red flag. Later on i called him and said that i had a few questions i wanted to ask him, which at the time was true. However, there were other things that came to me the more i thought about relocating t north carolina. The most important one being the fact that he told me about a forum he had started about flakes.... basically calling them out by name when they, for whatever the reason, decided against relocating. After discussing my concerns with someone very special to me, shom had served and still serves as a mentor to me; i decided to call david after i was finished with a moving job that i got earlier. i had told him that i would call him in an hour, and the moving job turned out to be a bit bigger than i anticipated. as i was bidding farewell to the people i helped, my phone began to ring. It was Busyman, and i was not able to pick up the phone at the time, so i let it go to voicemail. i called him back as soon as i got away from the couple, without listening to the voicemail, and told him simply that i decided that it would be better for me to stay closer to california, and/or wait for a new opportunity where i could have the resources i need closer to me and at my disposal. i offered to stay in touch with him, and stay friends which i really did want for i thought to myself, if he is willing to stay in touch, perhaps in the future i would be willing to relocate to him. Unfortunately, however, such was not the case. he told me he thought it be better if we just stopped.
So, here at the end of this novel, i leave you with this. Be curtiousand respectful of those you pursue, even if in the end you feel it is a lost match. I anticipate that he may try to post a message in his forum trying to make me out as some flake, and that cannot be helped. Just know that if he encounters you, be wary of his eager attempts, and see what you think for yourself.
