hello I just wonder if there is anyone in here have relationship with the houseboy or employer, I am sure some of the houseboy are very nice and polite, and interest employer friendship not his money,  because I always want to have houseboy for me to keep for life, would like spend time and money on him if he is the one, and willing walk into my life and not leave. thanks

I personally have not had such a relationship. It would be nice if that were to happen, for sure. And who knows? Best advise I’ve got is to just keep on searching.  I think the right one for everyone is out there just waiting to be found. Best of luck to you all all the rest of us searching for “the right one” be it houseboy or employer. Honestly I’d settle for just a good, honest, friendly, open living arrangement where both our needs are met.