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Wonder why he deleted his profile? Ask him and see what kind of an answer you get from him. He had noted he was a virgin, yet his screen name was DJ4Fun. That alone made me suspicious.

I'd rather not influence your thinking about this boy, but if you get to a point where things sound too good to be true, then chances are that it is too good to be true. One big red flag for us about a fake or as Buck52 describes 'fantasy boy' is when they are the first one to initiate talk about sex, and then get really into the topic. That's a sure sign that they just want to get their jollies and then they'll move on. We look at this houseboy thing as we are the employer and the houseboy is the employee. While we have always been on a friendly level with our previous houseboys, there has to be that separation to some degree. When speaking with potential houseboys who begin to be the ones to set demands, we politely bow out with a 'no thank you' and move on. BTW...to answer your question about no being able to see the messages and then you could, I'd bet he blocked you but then unblocked you. I don't think it happens by accident. Best of luck in your search.

It doesn't have to be a scam. There are profiles on here of people who are just here for kicks. They like toying with people out of boredom. We were in contact with this boy too, but after some chatting, we stopped communication with him as we felt he was a fake, not necessarily a scammer, but a fake profile just to toy with people.

What is the boy's screen name and I'll try to access him and see if that happens to me. I've not had that problem before, only when I've blocked people.

UPDATE again: now he's MuscledBoy4U. Pretty soon he'll run out of screen names!

Today, he kept his same new screen name, but changed his profile pic.

And yet another new name today...very similar to his original name...now he's MuscledBoy4You. You have to give him credit for trying fool people. I just hope lots of people read these forums and avoid this jerk like The Plague. I can't report him as he has me blocked. I hope someone does report him though.

And today, yet another name change, he is HandsomeMuscle.

...and now, for yet another name change, he's going by FriendlyMuscle as of today.

If you want someone to be interested in you, you should answer people within a reasonable amount of time. And when you DO happen to find the time to respond, you SHOULD strike up a nice conversation, not just one word answers.

Well you certainly posted a great profile and handsome pic. You should not have any trouble starting up a conversation with any number of potential employers. To about how many people per day do you write?

If you are seriously seeking an employer, you really do need to find a way to respond to people.

Hope you find a way to get access to the site soon!

Yesterday he was Lookin4Love but he must have seen my other post in the Forum and changed his screen name today to MuscleBoy4You. Either way, this same pic pops up under a new name every month or so. He immediately blocks me from viewing his profile, so he must be a scammer from the past trying yet another way to scam innocent employers - BEWARE!

This brand new profile pic sure looks familiar on this site. It seems to pop up monthly. The boy already has me blocked, so I think it's safe to say he is a repeat scammer, one of whom I've reported before.

Everything is great...thank you!

Thank you for the note Michael. I'm just glad to know it's not something I'm doing incorrectly.

I found our conversations and sent you a message from there. I cannot find your profile on search, but when I'm in our conversations, I click on your pic and your profile does appear then.

Okay, this is weird. I searched for our profile, it never came up in search, however our profile is #11 on the logon page. I searched for Buck52, then just buck, then just 52, but your profile never appeared. I also cannot find our conversations listed on our communications page. By any chance, did you have any other profiles blocked and the system just happened to block everyone from your profile? I'm going to try logging off, then back on in a few hours and see where that goes.

Thanks for the response. I'm glad it's not on my end. I've been in close contact with two prospective candidates just through this site for the time being, but it also seems as though the communications are slow and the time stamps are way off as well. Maybe it's a sign for me!

Ever since I created our profile in 2012 on this wonderful site, ours was always the first ad we saw and everyone else's ad showed their proper distance away from ours. But since Tuesday, ours is no longer first, and we are showing that we are 52 miles away from our current location. Is this happening to anyone else? Again, this only started Tuesday (election day). Thank you!

Buck, Haven't seen nor heard from you in a while. Are you doing okay? Rich

Whenever we get an inquiry from anyone, we always try to respond within a 24 hour period. Over the last two weeks, we have taken the time to write to 6 different boys on this site. To date, none have responded...not even a thank you, but not interested. We knew that common sense was a rarity nowadays, but when did common courtesy go out the window? Also, a number of boys specifically note they want to be in a warmer climate. What better place than Key West? Tourists spend thousands of dollars to visit Key West, and a potential houseboy has the opportunity to live here for free PLUS get paid for it! Yet, no one on this site is interested in even chatting about that possibility? We are almost at the point of just giving up the search. We wish each and every one of you employers the best of luck in your search for the perfect match.

We may be interested but can't find your profile on the site. Have you created an ad yet? Thanks!

Well, we guess that this boy can also be added to the scammers/flakes/fakes list.