I was very fortunate when I was a youngster in my early 20's. I was not rich financially but I did have a great job and a fantastic boss who was also my boyfriend at the time. We had a county house and a studio flat in town walking distance to our office. this was the first time I was able to have a houseboy. we were the same age, well he might have been just a year or two younger than me.... but at 20 whos counting in our early 20's. He had it pretty good as well since All I ever had him do was clean up or tiny flat, shop, cook and work with me on some small projects. Did I mention that it was a studio so the sleeping arrangement was together in a king size bed? The sex was out of this world fun!!! I don't expect to find the same dynamic since now I'm older and single. I'm not what anyone would call a Dom but I can be a tiny bit aggressive in needed or wanted. Anyway, I'd Love to hear about others experiences and see where this post goes.