kstalwart

I am sure that you will find someone who is looking for just what you have to offer. Call me an optimist, but with billions of people in the world, I am convinced that everyone has to have a right "fit" out there somewhere if they are patient enough to find them. With that said, it does seem that on Houseboy there is actually more competition for the the straight-acting types than for the more effeminate ones. Personally, that is my preference (if I am looking for a guy rather than a girl, it is specifically because I am turned off by effeminacy in either gender - that is not a criticism of you at all - we are all who we are, and that is beautiful) and the "supply" of more clearly gay guys (if not flamboyant as you) on the forum seems to be higher than the demand for them. Even if you just look at the top / bottom ratio, it seems pretty imbalanced - not that many available top houseboys, especially amongst the young, sweet, innocent boy-next-door types I find attractive. So, anyway, the numbers may be against you a bit here, as they seem to be against me. Good luck in your search, anyway.

A couple of days ago, there was a new member who appeared briefly, using a handle something like "Utrecht Boy" but slightly misspelled (I seem to recall it left out the 't' for a handle of Urechtboi or something of that nature). His profile indicated that he was a Brit named Pete, but living at least temporarily in Utrecht, Netherlands. He seemed to absolutely fit the bill for what I was looking for, so I saved that profile with the intent of making contact with him the next day. But when I went to do that, I found that his profile appeared to have been deleted overnight. I should probably just let it go, but since he did seem to be so perfect, I am still intrigued. By any chance, did anyone save any alternative contact information for that user (email, instant messenger address, etc.?) or have any knowledge of where he went to? Thanks for your help.