I've had my profile up for a few days, and I've sent a few messages.  I've noticed that a number of houseboys read messages and do not respond.  What's been the experience of other employers?  How quickly do you typically get responses and what's normal (average?) until you find a houseboy who is willing to come work?

A few other details:  I'm one half of a couple, not a single man, and we're seeking a houseboy primarily for housework, not for sexual exploitation.

Sadly like most dating sites, there lots of Stale profiles here and people who are too flaky to respond. Idealy the administrators would delete people who haven't logged in in more than a year or two but there are unwilling to reduce their numbers that way. I try to look at when someone created their profile and the last time they logged in before I will write them.  So with a fair bit of patience and persistence I've had some decent luck. Good luck to you

I have had the same problem.  How hard is it for someone to write back and say they are not interested or you live too far?  I'm getting discourage with this site already.  But I will hold on a while longer.