bacha
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also, currently my profile shows to me correctly. but publically it shows a town in the neighboring state i visited last week but i never changed my profile to that city.
chatted with another user today who complained he is repeatedly unable to correct his city.
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similarly when i click on VIEWED/VISITORS, i get the wheel and usually a SCRIPT RUNNING error message
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when i search with criteria in chrome, i get a spinning wheel that never resolves
in firefox, i'm getting results close to instantly
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yesterday i chatted with a guy who said i was still showing as maine
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i have twice updated my town and it says SAVED
but other users keep telling me i am listed in the wrong state.
what's the status on fixing the town/location glitch from the upgrade?
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when i share photos, it often fails
or just says SAVING but never completes
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i keep getting notifications with other people's usernames
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personal comments should be its own category but they have put as the second the last section under MY ACCOUNT/INTERESTS
it is also hard to read since you can only see one or two lines at a time.
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it seems like you've further separated the forums from the main site so now i have two inboxes but there's no way to navigate back to the main site.
also, as has always been the case, if i see someone's username in the forum and want to search them, i get their forum profile which is useless and they can't be contacted. and i can't find anymore how to search their regular profile where i can email them
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it's a shame you guys don't have the money to make the site more functional.
editing our profiles now is really hard since the window is only a line or two tall.
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this is kind of irrelevant in terms of how little hookup traffic happens on CL these days but this is super dangerous in terms of censorship https://www.wired.com/story/craigslist-shuts-personal-ads-for-fear-of-new-internet-law/
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i'm looking for a new room & board situation this summer since my current masters are leaving the state & can't take me with them. i have 3 years of 24/7 experience
i am not a twink but that has not kept me from satisfying anyone i served. i can be as assertive with vendors as necessary but happy to be docile & obedient in the house and/or bedroom.
i have a wide range of skills: massage, household (cooking/cleaning) as well as admin, tech & languages
would love to phone/video chat a couple times and then set up an in person meet followed by a trial service period. i can provide references, info for a background check and STI documentation.
i am currently in Oregon but willing to relocate almost anywhere for the right situation (passport ready)
Please check out my profile https://www.houseboy.com/houseboy-profile/bacha/ & let me know what other info you need
Thank you Sirs and good luck to everyone
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i'm happy to mentor houseboy who are young or new, from the houseboy side
especially if you are in a difficult situation and not sure how to get past it
i have a little over 3 years of 24/7 experience
maybe other folks who are looking to give or receiving mentoring/coaching can post in this thread as well.
good luck to all
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if you're down for platonic, you could also try helpx.net. good luck
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if i were you, i would say something positive in my profile & remove all the negative aspects. i'm not trying to harsh on you, but you asked & i'm trying to be frank. good luck
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this site is relatively low traffic & has the usual flakes. but i have connected with and served some folks who were for real.
good luck, handsome
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lots of people on this site are flakes and don't even read our initial emails or responses. like all dating & hookup sites.
i usually find that by being clear & serious. and setting reasonable but firm expectations like texting, then phone chatting then video chatting, most of the flakes get weeded out quickly.
some employers are gonna fly a boy out so it's not a wild expectation. most guys in a position to be a houseboy can't afford to fly across the country on their own steam. so if you make it clear, you're not gonna buy the ticket and they don't read your profile, ignore them. don't be tempted by the possibility--that's when they have you to be scammed.
and even though it's the majority experience, it doesn't make us look good to complain publically about the flakes. luckily no one reads these forums. most of the site is moribund & unmoderated.
i have met good people here that were real, that i served in person. so with persistence, there are worthwhile guys on here. good luck
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you're very handsome, Sir, good luck
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yes, it is likely a good idea not to publically show your face for privacy reasons
you can make any photo but your primary profile photo private
if you have other questions, you can PM me, i'm not likely to see replies here.
good luck
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That is a sad & scary scam
There is no contract that could be signed that mentions sex that would be recognized in a court of law
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Sadly like most dating sites, there lots of Stale profiles here and people who are too flaky to respond. Idealy the administrators would delete people who haven't logged in in more than a year or two but there are unwilling to reduce their numbers that way. I try to look at when someone created their profile and the last time they logged in before I will write them. So with a fair bit of patience and persistence I've had some decent luck. Good luck to you
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it's pretty wide open and based on who you're serving and what you negotiate. usually room & board, sometimes more if you're lucky or your master is wealthy. i've been given spending money, car access, gas money, airline tickets, entertainment, etc. some very generous only expecting me to work 20 hours a week and some less so expecting me to work well past 50.
PS these forums are close to moribund so you may not get too many responses. i'm happy to chat offline if you have other questions or want help. good luck.
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reality check: i am reluctant to respond as there seems to have been no response to my & others' suggestions in the feedback forum
message notifications don't resolve
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every couple of days, i continue to have the red circle number for a message i already read, no matter how many times i click thru it or other recent messages
there is currently one in my box for a message i read this morning or yesterday