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I mean don't the site owners care that so many people are getting conned or blackmailed frequently. The fake profiles on here are just obvious as there full bad English and blatantly inaccurate info that anyone with a brain can fish out unless your not trying of course. What gives?

A simple solution is to require all profiles to verify with a photo. Many other sites do this. Yes the staff here is already taxed out, so verification and admittance woukd take extended time. But I believe the end result would be a much better experience for all. Let's suggest this.

I'd not mind it the other way around. A houseboy who's a trucker. Where he's gone for months at a time. Having fun adventures on the road and working. Then when he comes home ill have a nice mess for him, and as the say "absence makes the heart grow fonder".

all sites are subject to the spam bot wars. bigger sites like grindr have more staff & time to keep it looking cleaner. this site has always been a backwater and they don't have the resources to spend on the nonporn part of the site. the 'dating/houseboy' part of the site isn't really bringing them any revenue. to cut the admin some slack, it's hard and the spam bots are constantly getting better. search "why dating apps full of spambots"? and you will see many links answering different aspects of your question. many people are chatting with bots & don't realize it. most of the response above i would agree with but it's only relevant for the small number of human scammers. the majority are AIs set up automatically by trolls there's no point in posting about scam profiles. either you know how to weed spam bots & human scammers out or you don't. it would be impossible to list all the fake, abandoned or spambot profiles here. there are real people here worth finding but it's harder than years ago and fewer real & decent people are active on the site.

Why report them in the forums then? Why not just go directly to the staff with evidence of a potential scam and have the staff deal with discreetly? Idk sounds this site and whole system are irredeemably broken. Are there better sites or places for guys interested in this beyond this? You did say there were others even if the scammers are there too.

I’d like you guy’s opinion on having everyone wanting to set up a profile on the website be REQUIRED to verify a photo to the site management. I just think it would eliminate a WHOLE lot of the fakes on here. It’s already an option than many use. And it doesn’t require your face to be made public on the site. Comments? Suggestions?