I agree for the most part,
Why my employer has listed me as a success story:
I can get my ass out of bed at 6am to help start mine/his day
I have a positive attitude with NO attitude
I am not a slut or whore and really am doing this because I enjoy giving not taking
I do not drink, smoke, or do drugs - which they LOVE (come on guys who wants a drunk ass roommate coming home at 2am stumbling around and/or doing stupid things and waking up your boss who pays your bills and needs his sleep)
I actually WORK...we both look at this as a job and he is my boss, but he doesnt want to have to act like a boss...get it?....have a little motivation to do the unexpected and go above and beyond...they tip you
Dont do something stupid just because your horny, bored, or lonely. If they say no one over when they are out of town they mean it. If they say no drugs they mean it.
My current employer has gone through 6 houseboys in the last year and he is so happy he found me. He pays 1200/mos as an employee of his office plus medical and dental, plus paid trips to southern decadence in a few weeks and other trips (and i've only been here 3 mos), and he tips me money for gas, phone, etc all the time. I am banking money, doing a great job, mutually loving it...and NO sex required because he is a muscle guy and so is his younger bf so I pretty much do nothing. He has a maid, a pool guy, lawn guy, landscaper. I seriously manage the house and make lunch, coffee, and house sit and thats about it. They pay for gym membership and are helping me get really tone and bigger...
Honestly I think I lucked out because he does make alot of money and is generous but he is also demanding and i try to be avail 24/7.
Find a situation that works for YOU. If you dont need money and want sex...be realistic about the situation. Make sure its not just something temporary along the way and if it is you need to have a BACKUP PLAN...
It helped alot that we chatted for a month before I drove my truck all the way to texas from idaho. It also helped to cam 2 cam to see them and they gave me a tour of the house/yard/my room. I did not even VISIT before I took this job...i just had a good feeling about it. But i had been looking for a position for 2 years...so it took me a while to find this. Sad thing is its in Laredo, tx on the mexican border and i do want to date/get fucked/etc...so i still keep looking for other houseboy positions in bigger cities but gonna be hard to beat this one...