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It's amazing how many boys live at 68-29 Main Street in Flushing NY

Hi! I am from Pennsylvania, but I currently travel weekly for work. I am looking for a long term role where I can be a houseboy for someone (or someones’) who is very loving but also strict and dominant. I am imagining waking up at 5am (before you), cooking breakfast every day (passion for cooking) kissing you good morning, doing all the chores for most of the day, relaxing a little bit, and then cooking you dinner and pleasuring you in different ways every single night, with no off days. I would wear outfits you chose, follow a schedule and complete tasks that you command, and bend to your every whim in the bedroom. In return, I imagine I get free room (or low cost) and board and hopefully an allowance along with some free time to enjoy sightseeing and activities (non-sexual) outside of the home. I have extremely soft hands as well, tehe. I’m 5’6 140 lbs, Caucasian with blue eyes and brown hair. I am into being praised (“who’s a good boy?”) and generally pleasing however I can. I like a clean and proper environment, one with positivity and a focus on basic healthy activities! I’m very real, just nervous since this involves a lot of commitment, but I am looking around and hopefully you can be the one for me! I can’t add more pictures because of the file limit, but I can give more if needed.

More scam profiles.

Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.

We have had 3 long successful term Houseboys and while every situation and agreement is different I pay what the national average is listed for an Au Pair. Here in the US it's roughly $200 per week, then give them room/board and cover any travel that they do with us or meals out. We do not cover phone expenses or auto expenses. Any food request we are usually happy to accommodate. When meeting someone for the first time we will not pay any money up front but we will reimburse them for travel to us. We do this because of all of the scammers. ABSOLUTELY NO MONEY BEFORE WE MEET THEM! I tell everyone one of them this upfront and at some point most of them ask for money. They love to ask to pay for a ticket then send them money for incidentals like meals even when they are only an hour away. It's all a big scam and this site in particular has gotten very very bad. There is a lack of Moderation. Good Luck

Seeking a houseboy who will relocate too Knoxville, Tennessee. You must be age 18 to 30 & in shape & athletic. Prefer smooth bods. You will do all grunt household cleaning chores totally nude. This is for someone who is naturally masculine but obedient & is great at giving oral service & into being dominated & disciplined. You will be required to have a job outside the home, preferably nights & weekends, or that you can do remotely from home, to bring in income to pay for your room & board, but also do all household chores weekdays regularly longterm as a true longterm lifestyle as a choreboy servantboy. This is not just a mere game or roleplay or hookup or fantasy. You must be honest, truthful, trustworthy, faithful, loyal, dependable, & reliable, never flaky or sketchy. Any race considered. Prefer you have a cleancut haircut & no facial hair & shaved or waxed pubes, with no tats or piercings. Absolutely no smoking of anything & no drugs of any kind allowed. Moderate drinking ok, but never to excess. Present or former college athletes or fratboys encouraged to apply. I'm a naturally dominant man, bi, deep in closet, totally discreet, & completely downlow. You will call me Sir at all times out of absolute respect & will do all chores totally naked as well as providing sexual service & worship. You must be dedicated to pleasing me in every way. You will be totally responsible for the maintenance of a large home in a nice country club setting. One of the perks will be use of a home gym & hot tub & sauna you will set up. You might recruit others to help you with regular deep cleaning that will be necessary. You must be good at all indoor & outdoor chores & be open to being punished if you don''t do them to my satisfaction. Send me a private message with your name, email address, cell number, location, age, height, weight, current face closeup, & full frontal & full rear full length full nudes if you are interested & ready to eagerly begin this opportunity as soon as possible, & tell me all about yourself & why you should be who I should select. Include your political views & religious beliefs, as well as what family you have & where, & what education you have & from where, as well as what experience you have & what kinks turn you on & off. True Dom Dad Sir here who is ready to bond with a young & enthusiastic adult houseboy that will appreciate having a safe, secure place to life & thrive.

Gay couple. Central California. Age 45/55. Looking for a permanent arrangement for a HouseBoy. One that is more of a jock/twunk. I’m the alpha of the house and we need assistance from a jock’ish beta young man that would become part of the family and enjoy the benefits of a nice, comfortable and stable life.

Professional in mid forties looking for a house boy. You need to have a drivers license, be computer literate. I am a single father and need assistance with the kids upbringing, homework. Looking for a well educated/ well mannered guy, who is not just a pretty face. Ideal candidate also cooks. We have a house keeper who helps out with cleaning, laundry and some cooking too. The House Boy is mostly dedicated to daddies needs. A nice massage here and there, a work out together, foot rub or help with a stretch, grocery shopping, car washing. Personal Assistant with benefits is the best way to describe the job. You must fit into our lives and schedules and enjoy being told what to do. We live a very vibrant life with a lot of travel, you should also have a good passport as you will sometimes travel internationally with me. The right guy is passionate about life, curious about the world, interested in a family : healthy life style. get in touch and let's figure out if we are a match.

Hey there I am looking for a houseboy, Would include room and board use of an automobile, and a nice salary. Duties will include light cleaning companionship and travel

Hello! I’m looking for a live in either permanent or part time work position. I can cook and clean. Prefer someone who is more of a dominant master than just an employer. If you are real feel free to message me I can FaceTime and have more photos.

Hello, 28 yo in San Diego, CA seeking to become a houseboy. Ideally looking for a long-term role with someone who is clean and trustworthy. I am ok with couples. I am looking to come to you (room & board) and am open for allowance also. I enjoy a wide range of activities both in-home and outdoors (hiking, movies, sightseeing) and consider myself friendly and respectful. For room and board I am open to help you around the home and experienced in gardening and pool/house maintenance. I am good looking, fun, charismatic, and health oriented, and prefer similar personalities. My stats are 5'10 150# asian/blk/wht mix. I am open to intimacy if chemistry is right. Feel free to message me for cell/email for photos and further details. Thanks

I am a 29 year old American looking to be owned by an Older Man. I am sane, submissive, very skilled in culinary arts. I can maintain a clean household. Provide dinner every night, provide nanny services. I can be a public personal life assistant while secretly being owned and collared and at your service. Serious enquiries only. I have a passport and ready for immediate relocation. Thanks

Hi Sir, I’m Andrew and I’m spending three months in Cape Town starting in December doing a work exchange with WorldPackers. II would love to be able to meet you and see if I’m the right assistant for you and your family. I’m sane, experienced in culinary. Travel lover and experienced in house keeping and caretaking. I’ve been looking for a long time for a good man to serve. I’m 29 and 5’2, Washingtonian. I was involved with a massage therapist and picked up a trick or two as well Daddy. I thrive on spending my time volunteering and submitting to service of Gentleman.

You guys are being scammed and there's less HB's because your expectations for us are ridiculous and not satisfactory to our talents.

Houseboy by the name Devid contacted me and fleeced me out of $1000 US. He issued me offers to come to this location for 1 month trial. Lives in Khazicstan. Don't fall for it. Luckiky I taped everything so Feds don't have to work to hard.

The server is failing here. the ability to get in to log in has corrupted boot in instructions. I found you can get in this way you will get an email from HB saying MEMBERS VIEWED YOUR PROFILE open that click on one of the names that should get you in it seems to work from there.

Hey guys, haven't been online for quite some time. I'm looking to relocate to the UK on a semi permanent or permanent basis. Looking for a live in employer. Also don't mind couples (certainly have the libido for it). Can do most types of work and can learn the remaining ones. I'm a bottom and more than open to experimenting. If I have a choice I'd have sex a few times a day lol. Don't hesitate to message if interested. I'm very communicative and have never turned down the chance to chat with someone.

It loads with Safari but often takes a while. I find that if I search photos first for a few minutes, other functions like visitor profiles and messages work faster. Searching photos always comes up immediately. Searching for houseboys loads quickly. Viewing messages takes time to load and viewing profile visits takes a long time to load (like do something else and come back to see if it's loaded).

Another scam profile is ElijahFeguson All of his pictures have been taken from a German Models page https://www.pixwox.com/de/profile/fr_ost_y/ He won't do any video or phone and will only use google chats. Took him a day to ask for me to send him money.

And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York

He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.

i am an older employer in masssachusets looking for a younger houseboi. i may be older but young at heart. u can call me at 508 264-4170. looking to hearing from u soon.

Currently living in the Midwest and have been in a successful HB situation for about five years. Started off as friends and developed into a long-standing relationship. I’ve played the role as housekeeper as well as private nurse having helped my dad friend through two heavy surgeries. Upon a recent move to a house that helps my friend live an easier life and in much better health in years I’m feeling a bit underutilized. I am a very social person and my support character side comes out easily. I appreciate my independence but truly feel better when I’m of service to others. Restaurant industry most of my life so I know how to work hard. I’m looking for a temporary arrangement that might turn into something stable. I truly do care for my current arrangement and I would do anything for him, but given his better health I just don’t feel I’m as useful as I once was. So if anyone is looking to chat please get in touch. I am genuine and I will not ask for anything other than a call to verify ourselves with complete transparency. If you are interested please reach out. Cordially- Cornfed

Hey I’m looking to have someone move in 11/1 I have a studio in Rochester ny. 203-424-0755

I've been on and off here for a decade. I had one houseboy situation work out for about 8 years. He didn't have legal status and thats why he went the HB route. He did turn out to have some serous mental health issues but we were able to make it work for that time. It looks like a lot of the longtime fakes and prostitutes have been deleted from this site, and thats great. I know two HBs on this site who are who they say they are, but both are here for fantasy play. Now when I examine HB profiles I don't see a single one that does not raise red flags. Flushing NY address (default if you dont specify an address) Age hasn't changed for years (keeps rolling back his age every year) Nonsensical body dimensions. (Weight listed as 500 lbs, and photo shows a skinny guy) Obvious lies in profile. "I'm not a paid member so I can't respond to you here". (thats not a limitation that exists on this site) TGTBT (too good to be true), Hot young underwear model body boy who wants nothing more than to please an old troll and wants nothing in return. I wish every employer would add to their profile "there is nothing you can say that will convince me to send you money". It might chase away some of the fakes. I've seen posts about fake employers but they are hilarious. Paraphrasing "This employer is fake, he wouldn't send me money before meeting me", HA! Anyone having different results?

Me TOO !

You arent the only one! I just though someone should reply to your post and let you know its not a problem at your end. Ive tried different browsers etc as well.

Hey my name is Jake. I am 39 and work in the space industry. I have a condo on the beach in cape canaveral with an extra room and bathroom in its own wing. I'm new to the area and don't know anyone so i'm looking for a companion. . I'm looking to make a mutually beneficial arrangement of sex, meal prep and cleaning for free room and board and a small allowance. lmk if this interests you. My preference in the houseboy would be a top or versatile in mid 20s-mid 30s but open to to other age ranges if they're mature and good looking. I'm not looking to own anyone like a sex slave, my kinks are pretty vanilla. I'm naturally a caring and nurturing person. The arrangement is ideal for someone looking to save money while they work part time or full time outside the house. If you want to be a sex worker on Rentmen or chaturbate or a creator on social media and onlyfans, this would be an ideal arrangement. if you're not in the space coast area, i'm open to flying you out here anywhere from the continental US

I'm 31 and live in the Portland metro area. I'm ideally looking for a long term, live in houseboy for a power exchange type of relationship. You would ideally be my best friend/boyfriend/houseboy/emotional support twink. My non-sexual interests include reading, hiking, boardgames, travel, and languages. My kinks include obedience and control, collars, uniform/outfit control, domestic service, chastity, freeuse. I am able to provide room and board if we are a good fit.

I’m interested in the position.

Here I am, an incredibly qualified well preserved man in my 50s who has been looking for a suitable live in gig in Southern California for YEARS.... And despite the legions of older single gay men in this region, many of which I am certain have large homes that they either do not wish to leave, or faced with modern ironic yet endemic financial infeasibility of leaving, but are overwhelmed with trying to take care of the place themselves, I am still unable to find anyone willing to even interview me! I have been a private meal service chef and an events producer in the city of Los Angeles for over 20 years. I own my own vehicle free and clear. I have no debt. I am in a long term stable living situation but I want to trade up. I am not financially destitute. I have never been a drinker or a drug user. Most importantly, I keep an amazing home. There simply HAS to be at least ONE man in Southern California who sees exponentially more value in considering a live in gig with someone like me, who is literally bursting with marketable skills, then in some dopey cum fountain who reads at a seventh grade level who will do nothing for them but satisfy their dwindling sex drive, be high all the time, and possibly foist an endless panoply of drama upon them. I have literally been on this site for over ten years. I knew my value then, and I still know it (and in many ways it has increased). Are there ANY California dwelling independent critical thinkers on here born between 1947 and 1965 who have taken ten minutes to consider what it might mean for them to grow older in place without anyone to share their household responsibilities with? If that is you, I would consider dropping me a message. Bill

I didn't think of it that way but that's a fair point? I don't have proper stats to make this a fact but here's my theory: 1. Big chunk of the baby boomers are straight and they are looking for women (whether that's sugar arrangement, marriage, gf, maid with benefits, etc) 2. Older gen may be more conservative in nature as being gay was considered taboo for much of their lives in the past and they prefer to be as low profile as possible preferring for short-term and discrete arrangement in nature. 3. Volatile economy and inflation is a bitch. Not all baby boomers managed to lock down a place they own (or managed to secure a low interest mortgage that is almost paid off) and their buying power are declining (perhaps not as bad as the next gens but still). This may make it harder to all-paid accommodation longterm if not lifetime. That's a bit of a commitment you don't take lightly like having a child. 4. Seems like this website isn't very active unfortunately. I imagine many found someone by now or got discouraged from spams/bots and exited the market. 5. I imagine for a lot of older gens who are established, they have been successful because they surround themselves with people who made it in life and avoiding people with liabilities (for drama-free sanity, financial protection, etc). Typically houseboys are looking for an arrangement (not everyone ofc but many I imagine) because they haven't figured out their lives yet and it may give them "pick me up" vibe rather than someone who may compliment them and provide them with solid synergetic relationship. Plus many of these people I imagine have the option to just find someone on a dating market who have their lives figured out rather than going into smaller niche market of houseboys. 6. Seems like a lot of houseboys tend to be entitled or too unstable to have a meaningful arrangement longterm. Not all ofc and bad news spread faster than good news, but they do scare them off I imagine. Food for thought. Rooting for you regardless because I'm on a similar boat welp lol.

A bit of a long shot but life can be an interesting absurdity sometimes for better or for worse, so why not I figure? Currently in Kansas City MO helping out a local business owned by a friend of mine but it's getting harder to scale and I am hoping to find a new fresh change of scenery and have a life a bit more fulfilling and meaningful than just bartering time for a step little closer to future like a pyramid scheme welp lol. Used to have some light few experiences working in IT field (nothing fancy just tier 2 and some tier 3 roles). My eventual dream is to restart a boutique hedge fund I used to run with my parents' capital that helped them retire early. It's a shame they quit while they were ahead and if I had more years at it I would have made enough for me to start on my own but c'est la vie :/ So right now, the goal is to hustle as hard as possible to expand the cleaning business (and hopefully get more leads and increase revenue... scale better) and either have it automated or flip it to move onto higher margin business till I have enough cash flow to be free to set myself up and be able to focus on growing asset and investment firm without worrying about surviving or feel like I am leveraged between a rock and a hard place. I'm quite attracted to to those who is already living a truly free life and bravely or shamelessly embrace who they truly are and live a fulfilling and happy life they can truly claim as their own. Someone who has mad hedonistic chemistry to the point where we can unleash ourselves and have nothing holding us back behind the curtains, but also have the genuine sentimental bond found in closest friends who love and care. In the world where we are often judged for our shortcomings, the relationship I am hoping for will be judged on how much we love instead. Someone with an aspiration/dream and know where you're open-minded but also know what foundation is determined and rigid enough to define who you are. Be able to trust enough to show your vulnerable side (personality, sex, etc) but also know when to bare your fangs when our interest is endangered. Someone who genuinely understands my craving and actually wants me to be around. And vice versa ofc. People like that mean a world to me, and I'd like to go at great length to show that I'm here both good and challenging times. Hope to have dynamics where we can manage the volatility of life and make something meaningful with happy ending. I could say more, but I feel if we can connect with vibe and sentiment like this... that's basically half the battle and the rest are less trivial elements that can be worked out. If any of these intrigues you, I'd love to dm further and see how deep the rabbit hole can go Few details about me: - 5”4 and about 160-165 lbs but have every intention and motivation to workout more regularly given available time as I have done in the past. I used to do once every 2 days muscle workout and cardio once or twice every weekdays and I'd love to do it again. Being closer to the ocean breeze, better diet and positive ecosystem would also hopefully help me manage my atopical eczema better as well. Apart from that, fairly healthy and has no illnesses/STDs. I do not do drugs nor do I smoke. - I'm fairly honest, friendly and try to appreciate the context of few people I learn to care about and look out for their interests with good intention. Fairly independent and require little supervision but also don’t mind being managed especially in areas that I may need work on. Tolerant and respect tough love so long as it’s good and not malicious intention based. - Not shy from having good hard work ethic, so long as it’s physically doable. I’m not a Schwarzenegger with Energizer battery so doing heavy labor level seen in heavy construction field may not be feasible. When trust is earned and if potential is shown, I’d be open to taking more roles/errands that require more skills and experience as part of growing as an asset (I haven’t finished college but I had IT/compsci background and I also have high interest in financial/business world and hope to develop a good acumen and potentially building something for myself in the future if opportunity surfaces). - Enjoy cooking and if the standard is very high, totally open to be taking lessons to become more professional. - Cautious driver with relatively clean abstract and should be able to do errands that require a car. Only have driven automatic but open to learn how to drive manual if applicable. What I'm hoping for (and hopefully something you find intriguing): Meet someone who has mad hedonistic chemistry to the point where we can unleash ourselves and have nothing holding us back behind the curtains, but also have the genuine sentimental bond found in closest friends who love and care. In the world where we are often judged for our shortcomings, the relationship I am hoping for will be judged on how much we love instead. Someone with an aspiration/dream and know where you're open-minded but also know what foundation is determined and rigid enough to define who you are. Be able to trust enough to show your vulnerable side (personality, sex, etc) but also know when to bare your fangs when our interest is endangered. Someone who can see that I'm serious about life and might mentor/assist me in building something of my own by establishing platforms that can generate good cash flow and raise capital. Have some good times with cherishing memories and pick up some wisdom along the way. Apart from relationship wise... hmmm... to be free, truly be free and be unleashed from the world so I can truly make choices in life that matters to me. Meet like-minded souls who share many values that are aligned with mine, but have enough differences that would spice up and enrich life. Someone with aspirations and passions and genuine interest that they are willing to dedicate on. Someone who is not afraid of thinking outside the box but also appreciate the box when it serves the interest. Personal aspirational context: I do have a modest ulterior motive which I hope isn't going to be a conflict of interest (ideally aligned interest if we hit it off to be close enough but that's tbc). A big motivation of mine is to be free... truly be free. Financially at first but eventually becoming a better version of myself physically, mentally, financially and experience wise. Seeing that you've made great accomplishments with solid business acumen, I'm cautiously curious about potentially and eventually having the opportunity to learn from you to perhaps one day build something of my own. And at that point I think the connection would be far more genuine and meaningful as well knowing that I am free as a bird capable of going anywhere with options but choosing to stay/visit anyway. I wised up and matured late instead of having this determined mindset after high school, but I hope to at least escape from corporate slavery with opposing interest and be able to build options where I have greater say on my fate in life. As such I hope to have a more meaningful and lasting relationship rather than strictly just being a houseboy over time if possible. If this possibility intrigues you, I'd love to have more discussions on exploring this matter and breaking more ice between us sufficiently enough to want us to make something happen that would enrich both of us. P.S. I realize my account is fairly new and scams/bots/flakes are rampant here (though I'd like to hope bots don't write as much as me welp lol) but for the right person I'm happy to verify myself (video chat with valid ID, meeting in person, etc). I'm real and I'm quite serious and committed for the right person and I am fiercely loyal to few people who manage to get into my shell.

I fell for a post by an Employer in Jacksonville, FL wanting to find a new situation for his current House Boy due to a changing family situation. Ultimately the House Boy asked for money to pay for his Grandmother’s funeral. When I wasn’t able to help he ghosted me.

The profile is no longer up but if I see it again I will call attention to it.

I’ve talked to 24 profiles on here. Only one was an actual person looking to be a houseboy. The rest were scammers! Anyone else have the same trouble?

I have been a member on Houseboy.com a couple of times as an employer. Recently have been in communication with 3 guys in different areas of the USA. While they expressed a keen desire to come for a visit or more, without my finding anything out about them ... even a full name ... their biggest request is that I send the money to them, so that they can make travel arrangements. BULLSHIT!! IF I were to send the money - they wouldn't ever show! DON'T BE GULLIBLE TO THESE SCAMMERS! A GOOD 65% OF THE PROFILES ON HOUSEBOY.COM ARE FAKE/FRAUDULENT! (I have performed reverse image search on several AND reported the findings without profile removal)

Confirmed - this guy is a scammer. He sent me the same passport pic. It eventually turned into a plea for help to pay a hospital bill and it just kept getting more and more elaborate. His user profile on here is JeffryGles.

What's wrong with the site? It's been down for several days now. Is it going extinct? This is what I'm seeing. Anybody else? (ps. no updates, no corrupt files, all other sites working perfectly, no video games even played lately! Don't suggest them!)

unfortunately the website is only partially maintained on autopilot but is really just a front for the porn site which is the moneymaker it's definitely been getting worse in the last 5 years. it's been years? since michael the sysop posted

I haven't been here for a few days, just logged in and it looks dead to me. The site has been slowly breaking down for awhile and now needs life support stat. Retrieving mail was getting super slow and checking to see who looked at my profile had completely stopped months ago. It is too bad because we need a HB.

Hi. I'm Aaron. I need some advice or suggestions and I thought, "I should ask on the forums here." Among other things in my life right now, I'm looking to start teaching some cardio and fitness classes to make some more money. I also really like health and fitness (and nutrition). I want to help other people learn to be healthier versions of themselves, and I'm very knowledgeable about it. Teaching some fitness classes and eventually also personal training a few people with weightlifting makes complete sense for me. So, to start teaching a few classes, I would like to find a space I can rent as cheaply as possible, for about 3 hours each day and five days each week. I guess I need help with two questions? Where would I even start looking for a place like that, that's also gay friendly? (I would also like to do all, or some, of the classes as clothing optional, if that's possible. I'm a nudist at heart.) Also, where/how should I try to find the people who want to pay for and attend my classes? I'm not currently certified, but that is a next step too. I have many years of personal experience with lifting weights, fitness, and nutrition, so I know enough to start my own classes without those certifications yet. However, I need some guidance. Right now I am living in Palm Springs, but that could change in the future as I’m currently looking at houseboy options (see my houseboy profile). Any thoughts? Thank you :-) Aaron (HungFitJock) [houseboy]

If the profile says flushings, NY, are these scam? Seems like there are a lot of these.

It’s loaded for me plenty of times in the past just fine, not taking long at all and popping up almost immediately But at least a year ago now it stopped working for me. Now it doesn’t show, not even after an hour. It times out after 3 min or something. Just sad - I’m glad I stopped paying for the service every month

It loads with my chrome browser but sometimes takes up to 10 minutes.

With Mozilla Firefox, Microsoft Edge, and other browser platforms, there is an add-on application you can get generally called Reverse Image Search allowing you to RIGHT click on a photo and search for similar across numerous websites. A good 30% of the 'houseboys' on this website are FRAUDULENT - using someone else's photos OR claiming to be someone else. PLUS, IF you contact someone and they refuse to send additional photos - THAT'S a good indication that something's wrong!

I am a houseboy looking for an employer. Preferably live in. It just seems like everyone is a fake or flake.

Vegasboi is not a scammer. He did live in my home for 10 months. He does lie a lot and he doesn't look like his profile picture anymore. He's probably in his 40s now. That is why you won't get a current picture of him. He is a good house keeper, but he is not good company. He can be controlling and aggressive. So good luck with this guy.

Looking for other guys for content and fun- ideally my employer is a male couple who's deviant needs occupy my time for a few days or few weeks of hardcore raw fucking and more

I've had several houseboys. And tried out some that did not make it. Being sexy is not enough. Key criteria are being trustworthy, reliable, dependable and desire to do a good job, A good houseboy likes to please, not just go thru the motions. And wants to be of service, help out, make a contribution to the employer. Open honest transparent communication is essential. Shared expectations, clarity about duties, and explicit adult conversation about sexual play are critical if an arrangement is going to work for both the houseboy and employer. As the houseboy, especially if relocating, realize not all "employers" are going to treat a boy right -- meaning with respect and looking out for the boy's well being. There are users out there -- some are "employers" and some are "houseboys". All take an no give types. As a houseboy, don't put yourself in a situation where you are trapped and have no options. You have a right to boundaries, limits, and to say no. Don't forget that and get ran over and used like a doormat instead of a houseboy. My current part-time houseboy has been with me almost 3 years. He is now finished with school and started his first career job. He will be moving on soon. He commutes some distance to work for me. My houseboy before that was with me nearly 4 years, until he finished his graduate degree. I helped him land his first career job -- we are still friends. I am not just an "employer", but an older, more experienced male that these boys can look to for mentoring, advice when needed and even a bit of help at times. We enjoy each others company, our sexual connection and getting the work done. It needs to be a win/win. That is up to both the employer and boy.