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  1. 4 points
  2. He added a fourth - all fake, all immediately want to go to google chat and want to come to you right way - they just need money. Doesn't even put any effort into it. Asks nothing expect when can you send him money.
    4 points
  3. Thank you so very much for posting this. I hope everyone reads your post and uses caution when contacting every boy.
    4 points
  4. And I have a feeling that they all have the same address in Flushing New York
    3 points
  5. I think that many people on this site just treat this site like a regular porn site, versus dealing with real peoples lives. (I got to be first to admit there is a lot of eye candy on the site.) the only way to really fix this issue is that the owners of this website gets serious and make it to where people can meet and employ people who want to be employed!
    3 points
  6. Scammer be aware. Never replies to question, I'm talking basic simple info. Be careful
    3 points
  7. Go straight to videochat. I used to set up videochat after several email exchanges. But now I've learned to make it step #1. I met one guy who was completely genuine. He had no problem with video chat, liked the idea of seeing if I was for real too. Two other guys; One never showed up to the chat and I never heard from him again The other pretended to have no access to any device capable of videochat (you can do it for free at the library if you really have a 27 year old phone with no camera like you say). Dont waste your time on the scammers and players. Filter them out from the start.
    3 points
  8. Before I paid to relocate someone there would be extensive chats about expectations online, then I would visit them to see if everything's a good fit. If that's the case then I'd personally relocate them.
    3 points
  9. This site seems to be just full of scammers! I have talked to four guys and all just want money or scams. It's so bad one guy had two profiles and forgot he was talking to me on both! Not sure this site is worth the time or energy! BEWARE!
    3 points
  10. Be careful!!! desparation is not attractive to serious houseboys or employers. Desparation is a sign that you are unable to manage your situation, and draws scammers and fakes who may want to take advantage of you. worse, serious employers see desparation as a red flag, often indicating the houseboy is himself a scammer. Be VERY careful as this word and Post is a red flag!!! And NOT the type of red flag that guides an airplane to the landing strip.
    3 points
  11. My roommate is moving to another city and has tried to set up a profile. He has been waiting over 2 weeks to be able to log in. He gets the “still being vetted” message when logging in. He got the confirmation link in an email and still not able to log in. He gets emails showing who is viewing his profile, upgrade options etc.. We have both tried to contact “the team” and I even “submitted a ticket” for assistance. Not a single response and no assistance or support has been provided.
    2 points
  12. Hey guys, haven't been online for quite some time. I'm looking to relocate to the UK on a semi permanent or permanent basis. Looking for a live in employer. Also don't mind couples (certainly have the libido for it). Can do most types of work and can learn the remaining ones. I'm a bottom and more than open to experimenting. If I have a choice I'd have sex a few times a day lol. Don't hesitate to message if interested. I'm very communicative and have never turned down the chance to chat with someone.
    2 points
  13. So sorry we were down for a week (forums). We had issues with the files that needed to be on the server for the new version of the board software.
    2 points
  14. Hi, this is my first time posting on the forums and I know this site is technically for employers interested in houseboys but I'm curious if there's any older men here who are interested in a househusband. (Or housewife, I'm not too caught up in gender since I'm technically nonbinary/gender-fluid. I'm just as okay wearing a tux as I am a french maid outfit). In any case, I recently turned 27 and even though at this age I should be concerned about settling into a career, for as long as I can remember the idea of settling down with someone for the rest of my life has always resonated with me. I've always fantasized about having a husband to cook for, clean up after and submit to but unfortunately, I'm from Jamaica and that's not a possibility at the moment since same sex marriage isn't legal. Of course I don't expect anyone of sound mind to immediately jump into a marriage with someone they've never met, especially someone from another country, but I am curious if there's anyone here who'd be interested in affirming my feminine desire to get married and be a homemaker/househusband later down the line. I don't really have my sights set on anywhere in particular, as long as it's somewhere that gay marriage is legal and you're someone who's emotionally available, emotionally stable and emotionally intelligent (and not currently married to someone else) that's good enough for me. Ideally we'd get to know each other virtually, exchange pictures, video call, date long distance and do everything committed couples do in a monogamous relationship for a bit and then you could even visit me if you're in a position to do so until I'm able to relocate and officially tie the knot. I understand if the idea of starting off long distance might sound daunting, but I genuinely believe I'm worth the investment (and I'm more than willing to put in the time/effort if you are). I also have strong maternal instincts so I also look forward to nurturing/raising children of our own someday, but it's not necessarily a requirement and we can cross that bridge when we get there (I'm fine with the idea of raising a fur baby). On a semi related note, I'm a total softie who enjoys all the romantic, mushy stuff but I definitely have a kinky side too. I'm pretty open minded so I'm willing to try almost anything as long as it's safe, sane and consensual. I live to please! For what it's worth, I'm open to all races and body types, but I have a soft spot for big hairy men. I don't know what it is, but there's just something about being cuddled by a bear that makes me feel safe and protected and taken care of. Bonus points if you're a dominant top that generally thinks of himself as a Daddy type (if you're verse or a side that's fine with me too). If any of this interests you, feel free to reach out. Looking forward to hearing from you! P.S. There are pics of me on my profile in case you're curious but I have no problem sending additional pics to verify my identify/prove my sincerity. P.P.S. Please don't be a jerk. If you can't relate to anything I've mentioned so far and this isn't for you, just wish me luck and be on your way. I can appreciate constructive criticism and sound advice, but I can do without passive aggressive comments and snide remarks. Thank you!
    2 points
  15. Thank you very much, you're very kind and I appreciate you taking the time out to not only read my post, but to respond as well. I also appreciate the heads up on the lack of engagement in the forums. I'll def keep that in mind. Looking forward to seeing what the site has in store for me though. God bless!
    2 points
  16. Hey there I'm new and it seems so far this forum is fairly quiet so I thought I would say Hi and post a topic for light discussion. Anyone who wants to join are free too as well posting any additional topics we can discuss! Be Nice Now! Will there ever be openly Gay Or Bi President? Why or why not would you say?:-\
    2 points
  17. Out of the blue after 1 year I get phone call from Danny=vegasboy (we have never spoken or communicated ever) looking for a position. While I was interested I told him to provide recent Pic & personal details. As we're talking I check main houseboy website & NO MORE VEGASBOY! Thought it was a scam for $ but felt sorry for him. Since he deleted his profile putting aside my concern for him I hung up & blocked his phone number. Disappointed bc we were considering helping him! Be careful, don't get suckered in, like we did in past cost us $$ Ask for info & do background check. ALSO, BIG CLUE LOOK AT THEIR ADDRESS! FOR EX SEVERAL GUYS ARE AT SAME ADDRESS IN MIDDLE OF PARK IN BROOKLYN NYC!
    2 points
  18. Recently it has started to work again, but is VERY slow in opening, but it is working. I would estimate about 5 minutes? I keep having hit the "wait" button.
    2 points
  19. DavidRoca62 FUCK YOU you're harassing me on here & email So listen up & read if you're literate No profile FUCK YOU no response to questions FUCK YOU so FUCK YOU we are NOT INTERESTED IN A SCAMMER FOR MONEY SO FUCK YOU
    2 points
  20. No one is taking you seriously since you still haven't made your profile public for everyone to see.
    2 points
  21. any issues getting on website? been 3 - 4 days can't even get to login page any help appreciated
    2 points
  22. Access is normally granted weekly or a few times a week.Why? Spammers often log in, create fake profiles using proxies and we want to see if they log in and there is a discrepancy. It is as simple as that. We remove about 100 fakes per week or more. I am not sure why so many try but they do and they must be getting someone to give them money or they would not be trying.
    2 points
  23. Handsomeboy4u is a scammer, don't fall for his stories. He's has multiple profiles in the past.
    2 points
  24. I'd say depends largely on what you want, is it company on the road... or are you thinking more so someone in the sleeper tied up and ready to be used whenever you get bored?
    2 points
  25. Just a heads up. The new houseboy Marcel wouldn't give me his full name & birth date or show me a birth certificate to prove if he was real or not. The scammer went quick to cellphone texts along with he is currently leaving his boyfriend he lives with now cause he flirts with other guys. He still hasn't produced any facts if he is real.
    2 points
  26. I've been on here for a few months now, and I see people posting about scammers in here all the time. Tonight I was fortunate enough to encounter my first scammer, and I saw him coming from 200 miles away and I promptly told him "No way". Don't fall for the scammers games, guys. They message you out of the blue, tell you that you're cute and they like you and they want to come and be with you and do all of these unheard of sexual things to you... but wait... there's a catch: "I ran out of gas. I... I had a flat tire. I didn't have enough money for cab fare. My tux didn't come back from the cleaners. An old friend came in from out of town. Someone stole my car. There was an earthquake. A terrible flood. Locusts!" It sounds bad, I know... But, if you send them a few hundred dollars, the world will once again be righted and they will come directly to you and it will be nothing but sunshine and happiness until the end of time. DON'T DO IT! My rendition of what may happen is, clearly, overly dramatic and you can (hopefully) see that what I've laid out before you is a load of crap. The kids with the to-die-for sexy pictures who say they love you will not be as obvious. Regardless, you must resist them. If they truly are homeless, stranded, etc there are resources available to them who will help them: They can post on their local Craigslist for somewhere to crash for a few days. It will be much easier for them to get somewhere local (and at no cost to you, to boot!) than for you to give them money to fly/drive/bicycle to wherever you are. They can go to a shelter. There are 3,500+ shelters in the US. Some cater specifically to Youth -- some even to GLBT youth. (http://www.homelessshelterdirectory.org/) No car, no gas, pogo stick broken? No way to get to the shelter? They can call the local police. They will gladly take them to a shelter. Did their parents throw them out because they're gay? Call the local PFLAG office. They'll put 'em up for a few days and help them get back on their feet. (http://community.pflag.org/page.aspx?pid=256) You do not have to help them. Their predicament whether real, or most likely, a fictionalization is not your fault. They were like that when you found them, and they will be like that when you keep on walking. The above resources are available to them free of charge. Keep your money, buy yourself something pretty -- don't give it to them. Bottom line, please don't send them money. It's a trick. If it sounds too good to be true (i.e.: drop-dead gorgeous guy telling you that you're hotter than an oven on the sun, when you know good and well that you're an elderly bald man*, and he wants nothing more than to be snuggled up in your arms tonight.) it probably is. Common sense is the rule guys. * Nothing against elderly bald men, by the way. I just needed an example. Everyone is beautiful in their own way.
    2 points
  27. This guy said he is an innocent boy located in the UK. I did a websearch of his pic and found the picture that is posted on Houseboy is also on a Sean Cody porn models profile? RichardColton5 ignored me once I sent him the link. It seems that in the past few weeks there has been a huge jump in the number of fake profiles. http://www.fitdudesnude.com/sean-cody-willis
    2 points
  28. That is very true. so I have to believe that there are people actually doing that.
    2 points
  29. He is using profile pictures from a porn shoot from Eastern Europe from years ago (goggle images) , He says he’s lived in Boise Idaho with his aunt because his parents are dead, but he has a phone # from Missouri. Only has two pictures he can send because his phone doesn’t work, even though he’s texting from it, And even though he just sent pictures from it, they just happen to be the two from the porn shoot that he used in his profile, has no other pictures.
    2 points
  30. This Martin Taylor is a real expert. Luckily he failed my due-diligence.
    2 points
  31. New to this site and hoping to find a good and trustworthy houseboy. We are a married couple, looking for a houseboy to assist us with house responsibilities while our work lives. The houseboy would assist with the property management business, so a modest wage will be provided, along with room/board. We live on the water in a beautiful area of the state with many parks and natural springs. We are hoping this site will provide us with great leads for houseboys willing to relocate and move to Florida. Inquire within for more information.
    2 points
  32. BEWARE of HotStud4U. Please check out other topics in the Forum about him and other scammers before you interview someone.
    2 points
  33. Dang, truth. This all sounds spot on, at least for me. I guess I wanted someone who was transparent and up front, not misleading, and clear about what really goes into all of this. And a lot of the “maybe” and standoffish responses I’ve noticed I used to use that as a fallback to protect myself if I found out someone is not truly who they present to be. Jumping into any commitment has majorly uprooted a former life of mine, yeah, and it does come at a major cost. I’m not making money, I’m hoping things’ll pan out, and what then if I don’t really like them? What if it’s such a compromise to myself that I found I settled for a life I could have just as easily been making for myself? Like, really, I can figure out how to provide this stuff (and now do). It‘s just the human connections I’m lacking. We all want that, that makes a lot of sense. I’m catching on that there’s always some sort of caveat, though, and like he was saying, it’s not always monetary. I deleted my profile before (obviously came back) because I got tired of it, even though I’ve connected with a few matches for me over the years I was actually participating online - none of it really turned into meeting. I didn’t feel ready, or felt like it was too much of a rush. I do feel confident in eventually meeting one guy though because we’ve developed a relationship very slowly over a year, and still to this day, we talk and actually enjoy messaging each other. Actually, when we first made contact online, I asked him to tone it back originally when he wanted to message me multiple times per week. I wasn’t emotionally very available, only in spurts (like now), and then I would have to go back to tend to my own demanding work life. But we would message or get into doing some sort of weekly check in and that worked perfectly fine with me. Again, it wasn’t rushed. He just would message me like twice and I would be like dude back off. And when we finally communicated how often we wanted to talk after a few weeks or months of talking, we eventually came to some sort of agreement. I mean, how was I going to know if I really wanted to agree to communicate with someone indefinitely when I didn’t even know if I liked them??? I’m not gonna just make a commitment on week 1. But we did eventually work something out. I wasn’t in any rush to go anywhere. I’ve done that a couple times, allowing someone to rush me into a commitment, because I’ve really just wanted some temporary (very temporary, one day) connection which felt great, and it came to eventually hurt each time. Moving in with someone I know nothing about who has given me very limited information became one of my regrets and bigger learning lessons. Worthwhile stuff seems to take time to build (isn’t that what stability really is about?), and I’m not so keen to be pushed around or obligated by other people’s wants and and needs as much now. I think ultimately I’ve kept coming back for the fantasy of no worries, getting away from life, and doing some radical change like coming out of a combustion chamber two years later, all while enjoying a great sexual connection and companionship, revamped and ready to tackle the world, and fly away. I seem to do that when I realize I want a change or I’m realizing I’m not as happy as I’d like to be. Like this morning, getting on here. But maybe it is all just that - a fantasy with a hidden price tag. One big maybe. Seems like life ain’t one big cruise, and I gotta shape it how I want it to be if I wanna be certain. My two cents.
    2 points
  34. Said his name is Gabriel Jose. Asked me to send him bitcoin via cash app. When I told him NO he wanted me to send money via Zelle to Sleeperjames4@gmail.com The name on that account is James. Lots of lies coming out of him. Nothing is making sense. Says he wants to come here but refuses to talk on phone. Sometimes he texts wells and other times it sounds like he barely knows english.
    2 points
  35. This scammer pops up every other month or so. In October, he was HotBoy4Dad. I forget all his other names, but he always uses a '4' in his screen names. I know he's the same person as every profile he creates, he is the same distance from me, and he immediately has me blocked from reading and reporting his fake profile. Oh I should say he is a real person, just a flake and he'll try to take you for every penny he can get out of you. If you speak with him, please don't let his Southern accent fool you. He is from the deep south, he just doesn't have any Southern charm. You have been warned - take my advice please.
    2 points
  36. ones like this crack me up they are so obvious. First red flag, his address is Flushing, NY, the default address when one isn’t entered. The laughable red flag are his stats, 5’ tall, 320 pounds, average. Compared to his profile photo? Lol! Then to top it off four of his answers to profile questions states “I like this app”. And he’s had a profile a good while. Long enough to correct if there were errors. Just another fake!
    2 points
  37. Simply to get the word out in hopes he doesn’t f..k someone else over. Is that too hard to understand? Some men will not stand around and do nothing. I’m one of those. And no he has never gotten anything over on me. And yes there are a lot of fakes, liars, scammers, fantasy players, etc on sites like this. Getting the word out on them may not get rid of them but if it helps one person avoid a pitfall then to me it’s worth it.
    2 points
  38. I could care less who he really is or where he is. I’d have nothing to do with him. He’s a scumbag, a liar and a con artist. He’s still around just with a different profile name again. Beware
    2 points
  39. Currently in Texas here looking for an employer for a fresh start. Submissive loyal boy here, looking to service and please with any work/chore duties in the house as well any sexual duties in the bed.
    2 points
  40. Retired single gay man seeking a live-in houseboy - young 18-30 ONLY - Dad/Son type situation -
    2 points
  41. i've met several good men or couples thru the site, some that i've stayed in touch with even when things didn't work out between us. the site is very haphazardly administered, as an afterthought to the webcam porn portion of the site. and it's like most dating sites in the modern era, has lots of flakes, bots and picture collectors. but if you fill out your profile, chat with people, vet them, ask them practical questions, video chat them, get a background check etc, it's pretty obvious who is actually leaning into meeting and checking each other out. it's possible to meet good guys if the math of your competing but reasonable expectations works out. but it's a long shot. good luck.
    2 points
  42. Totally agree, a scammer. His lease is up, truck is packed, needs gas money, shames you if you balk, then knows you were just bs! Remember the number O N E RULE. DO NOT SEND MONEY. !!!! REGARDLESS WHAT iS SAID. He is good, he is convincing, he is good at shaming, he is a. S C A M M E R !!!!!!
    2 points
  43. Sorry for Crappy image quality but the file size limitations on here are ridiculous
    2 points
  44. 2 points
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