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ones like this crack me up they are so obvious. First red flag, his address is Flushing, NY, the default address when one isn’t entered. The laughable red flag are his stats, 5’ tall, 320 pounds, average. Compared to his profile photo? Lol! Then to top it off four of his answers to profile questions states “I like this app”. And he’s had a profile a good while. Long enough to correct if there were errors. Just another fake!

Simply to get the word out in hopes he doesn’t f..k someone else over. Is that too hard to understand? Some men will not stand around and do nothing. I’m one of those. And no he has never gotten anything over on me. And yes there are a lot of fakes, liars, scammers, fantasy players, etc on sites like this. Getting the word out on them may not get rid of them but if it helps one person avoid a pitfall then to me it’s worth it.

I could care less who he really is or where he is. I’d have nothing to do with him. He’s a scumbag, a liar and a con artist. He’s still around just with a different profile name again. Beware

The names Johnbreslaws & John2 are both scammers. If you read their profile/bio fully & carefully they are about 95 to 100% the same. Just using 2 different pictures & locations. I texted with Johnbreslaws@gmail.com and he is not honest & for real. He gave me a birth date that makes himself 20 years old & he lists himself as 22. The picture he sent me in our emails does not match the one on the site. If I were you I would avoid them by all means. Or everyone who reads this could email bomb his Johnbreslaws@gmail.com address & tell him what a low-life he really is. HA-HAAA

Fantasy site? True as that is, it's absurd.

I searched for your profile but nothing comes up. Your first step would be to create a profile that potential employers can fine. You sound like a really nice person.

I’m wondering if anyone has had a good experience here, I’m committed to be an excelente houseboy one to really be there for what you need.

A nice and simple twink here. I'm new to this community so I really look forward to more opportunities here. I currently live in China but went to college in Missouri, U.S. I can travel and stay there for up to 6 months. (If visa allows or we work out I can stay longer). I really wanna move out of China. So if you have such a platform to help, I would do my best to pay you back in return. I can do all the chores like cook delicious Chinese food, clean your house and keep it squeaky-clean every day. I am very obedient, submissive and loyal. Never smoke or do drugs. Hit me up and see if we match! Looking for a mature man who provides boarding and a small amount of allowance if possible. Highly dominant and masculine is a plus.

I could spend all day talking about myself, but kinda tired of it. What is important is I am sick of being alone, and the last 4 years is the first time I have not had at least one, and usually two, live-in companions who generally were tired of dating, not wishing to go through the Grindr, call-boy, or silly meaningless random sex routine. Sure, they were usually vets, like me, students of little means, or guys that had such personal issues and self-esteem issues, they were in danger of being lost or go nuts. Certainly Covid has not helped. I am vaccinated, negative, educated,.... blah, blah, blah! And what I seek in you is someone who feels like, if they just had a chance to belong someplace, with help, meaning moral support and coaching, not a "Sugar-Daddy" situuation, they could pull them selves up and actually have a life. No, I do not seek to reform those on drugs, drinkers, or smokers, that's beyond my capacity for patience, and beyond hope for you to do alone, get Help! What I do require, if anything, is that you have some skill, and these are the ones I prefer, military experience, with a decent MOS, someone who likes to monkey with, or has experience with old cars, as THAT alone is something I wish to be involved in, restorations, also carpentry, or construction, or cooking, or HELL. even a cook or just a dedicated student who's not getting anywhere alone. I FIRMLY believe that it usually takes help, and someone to count on, both ways, to accomplish and build a life, so if you have tried, nearly or partly succeeded, or have HOPES you can accomplish good things if given a chance, TRY me. All I can do is say no, right? To my way of thinking, it is a team effort and one which requires absolute effort on both parts, so, Let me know what you think.

I’ve had same issues a good long while now but I’ve also engaged with potential houseboys who I felt were legit but for several different reasons were not willing to commit with me. Many want to remain in the same are. Many are city boys who don’t think they’d be comfortable in a rural environment. Some have outrageous expectations of being paid a lot of $ to sit around and look pretty. Some we just don’t click. Some have way too much baggage like for instance outstanding warrants or excessive drug use. One of the first things that give me pause is the answer to the question, willing to relocate, “maybe”. MAYBE?! If they haven't settled it in their mind yet that relocating is Preeminent then I have no interest. Yes I know some wish you find a position close to where they live and some wish the same but not “live in house”. Which is fine. But if they aren’t disclosing that in their profile then I immediately see that as not being serious right off the bat. Just my two bits worth.

Preference when searching for a partner or sexual match is not the same as negative or hurtful discrimination. Being fem is not the same thing as being or living as a woman, and maybe DJHJD is simply stating a fact. His statement is great news for anyone looking for a woman or a man that lives as one, but is, without any disrespect, a heads up for those of us that aren't at all into women (cis or not). He didn't say or imply that there was anything wrong with it, but if the ads in that area on that site consist mostly of men pretending to be women, that's just stating facts. Being judgmental isn't any better than discriminating, but when searching for what you actually want, you have every right to discriminate rather than settle. If I thought like you, I'd be offended every time I see a guy that doesn't date black guys (which is usually about 3 out of ever 4 profiles). That's not discrimination or anything to take personal; I'd rather be with someone that adores me rather than be with someone that thinks he's doing me a favor. Lighten up... you're on a houseboy site after all.

https://www.goodreads.com/list/show/119859.Gay_Romance_with_a_side_of_Kink

Yesterday he was Lookin4Love but he must have seen my other post in the Forum and changed his screen name today to MuscleBoy4You. Either way, this same pic pops up under a new name every month or so. He immediately blocks me from viewing his profile, so he must be a scammer from the past trying yet another way to scam innocent employers - BEWARE!

DreamBoy4U Repeat scammer mentioned here numerous times.

Michael today he is Handsome4Mentor Thanks for being on top of it!

Michael today, 05/09/2021, as of 4:15pm CDST he is a “new member” with the profile name of Handsome4Mentor Go get ‘em tiger!

I don't see him. But, the programmers are working on not allowing users to edit their username. That function was not in site before and slipped in with new code. It will be removed if possible.

Now he’s DreamBoy4U

Is it just me, or has anyone else grown tired of the growing gay porn sites and videos featuring fantasy incest and pedophilia? When that Austin guy first did that one scene, that was... odd, but kind of cute if you fast forward to the sex. Now, there are entire websites and fully acted out series of people pretending to be getting fucked by daddy or uncle or grandad with sites like "Family Dick" flooding most gay porn search results. On the flip side, that same actor was also one of the stars of the "boys for sale movement". Yeah, I'm glad slavery for you little white boys is something you all get to enjoy so much because the history of slavery in this country hasn't always been so pleasant. Microsoft was first to notice this disturbing trend and began limiting what would show up in searches, so to get around it, these same actors and studios began labeling it stuff like "step" dad and "not his dad" and so on. Google soon followed, and with recent refusal to work from many ethnic actors due to this and other issues, I've noticed that even PornHub isn't listing any of that at the top of their search results any more. Why has this become such a thing? It's annoying enough that blacks in porn had to always pretend to be mean thugs, but the incest and pedophilia, and the idea of being turned on by the idea of selling, buying, and owning a person... why is this such a growing trend? Maybe it's just me.

media goes for extremes as in "if it bleeds it leads" and some people have argued for centuries that it is typical of empires in decline to get more decadent as people are wealthy, bored & disassociated from reality, cf caligula and no,it's not just you noticing, here are some metrics https://news.yahoo.com/why-millennials-love-faux-incest-221000452.html?guccounter=1&guce_referrer=aHR0cHM6Ly93d3cuZ29vZ2xlLmNvbS8&guce_referrer_sig=AQAAANV8CfEMvKlMaM2Lp5vzkKwJgk3OJ9dTdow9ekdJ2qIdjpBebvcyiUzHuj5A-XSf0lhaI1id80O0rrb5KExJ5T757TPq1hPJKnXdetKB4bER4dlv350CEXgJPzAMODfJeHBmqX7T4SEekxQ3y-e9RdEkJRcS5K3eWtVWSq0c83RO

In all honesty I'm beginning to wonder if anyone on this site actually wants to be a houseboy. I've exchanged messages with a significant number of boys and every single one of them has turned out to be a scammer or a fake

Well there’s your reason why you can’t see his profile and he can’t see yours, he deleted it. Or the website booted him. Keep on truckin brother, you’ll find a good one.

There are a vast number of profiles on here of people who only want the fantasy and have no real intention of following through. Like commented earlier they get off to the anonymity and the fantasy. I call them fantasy boys. I’ve not had that particular issue that you have described except for ones who have blocked me.

Timjohn777 is a pure fake operating out of the far East and not Florida, per his email time stamps. Immediately wants phone number after a couple emails so can text because “I don’t have strength texting long emails”! Lol! The excuses don’t get much dumber than that. He has your typical non American raised poor grammar skills. This type scammer is only mining information in order to hack you. Stay clear of this scum bag. Another one bites the dust!

All of the scammers already give you a symbol. It tends to be a big red flag. They ask for money. That's your sign he's a scammer. No boy is thin enough, cute enough, or young enough to need cash or gifts from you before ever meeting. The only thing a person should have to send to a boy is their flight or train or bus itinerary which can be done via email. The symbol is there, just don't ignore that big red flag.

Yes, this site needs a system to weed out the scammers. There are plenty of them pretending to be houseboys, but the truth always comes out.

And yet another new name today...very similar to his original name...now he's MuscledBoy4You. You have to give him credit for trying fool people. I just hope lots of people read these forums and avoid this jerk like The Plague. I can't report him as he has me blocked. I hope someone does report him though.

I don’t understand, why do you keep up with a profile that blocked you & one you’re not interested in?

johncry you have a serious issue in regards to other individuals privacy. Very disrespectful, in my eyes, as to what you’ve carelessly done on this forum. You’re a HUGE Red Flag!

I agree 100% with yngdom4sub. You should know better than to post what you have posted here. Very disrespectful!

You've just posted this and 2 other profiles from houseboi.com. Why not just contact them there?

Yep, that’s him, same thug.

This really intrigues me. I have a few gigs for a handyman and have even provided free room and board for a few others, though, it didn't come with the side perks but would be fun to fill both needs. Pm?

Just a few days ago this repeat offender, con man, liar, scammer was YourDreamBoy, as reported here. He changes profile name quite frequently. Numerous times over the past many months. I can’t report him because he blocks my profile as soon as he creates his newest profile. So I simply just out him here.

Everything is great...thank you!

From my point of view it all seems to be normal again. Thanks Michael. Had me concerned.

Thank you for the note Michael. I'm just glad to know it's not something I'm doing incorrectly.

Added note: What I do which is the same thing the website does to verify. Have him write his name (whether it’s his actual name or not who knows) and the date on a piece of paper, hold it near his face and take a selfie. That won’t prove he won’t try to get money out of you but will verify what he actually looks like. If they can’t do that then I’m done and move on.

Yeah, a sign for me as well. Like you said every time in the past after logging on my profile is the first one in the group. I don’t even see mine even close by now. So who knows. I think there’s been a major glitch and they are unable to fix it for whatever reason(s).

Three newest houseboys all three legit scammers, fake profiles. Stay clear. You’ve been warned. The last one, YourDreamBoy, crestes a new profile more often than I change underwear. He’s been reported here using numerous different profile names after each time he gets called out for what he is, a low life dirt bag. He’s smart, soon as he creates a new profile he blocks me to keep from reporting him. Anyway, stay safe, stay healthy everyone.

YourDreamBoy is just the newest profile name of one of the most notorious scammers this site has had the displeasure of having to put up with. He gets busted weekly so just changes his profile name and pops up anew. Seldom ever ever changes his photo or his profile read. Will come on strong but will never give you specifics or video chat. His locations change constantly. The only thing he is interested in is you falling for his sad sack story and sending him money so he “can come to you”. Which he never will. He’s slick. You’ve been warned.

Hi im a 29yo latino bottom boy ready to be molded to your every desire

I’m new to this and looking for some advice/direction in life. I feel like my sexual needs will determine my hunger for the work. I want to be independent from my parents so financial advice is needed. I have many more questions but would rather chat privately

I personally have not had such a relationship. It would be nice if that were to happen, for sure. And who knows? Best advise I’ve got is to just keep on searching. I think the right one for everyone is out there just waiting to be found. Best of luck to you all all the rest of us searching for “the right one” be it houseboy or employer. Honestly I’d settle for just a good, honest, friendly, open living arrangement where both our needs are met.

i've met several good men or couples thru the site, some that i've stayed in touch with even when things didn't work out between us. the site is very haphazardly administered, as an afterthought to the webcam porn portion of the site. and it's like most dating sites in the modern era, has lots of flakes, bots and picture collectors. but if you fill out your profile, chat with people, vet them, ask them practical questions, video chat them, get a background check etc, it's pretty obvious who is actually leaning into meeting and checking each other out. it's possible to meet good guys if the math of your competing but reasonable expectations works out. but it's a long shot. good luck.

Not retired. Still producing and acting.

I've been a member on and off for 7 years now. I've made new profiles and deleted them because it's always the same thing. I notice that most of the profiles from the same people have the SAME EXACT PICTURES and SAME EXACT TEXT in their profiles. Don't any of you change at all? Don't any of you grow and learn new things and perhaps maybe take on new perspectives and change things around in your lives and profiles?? Or are most of you the same pathetic people you were 7+ years ago? Nothing has changed on here! And the same people always ignore me and never want to talk. I get it, technology has taken over everyone's lives. Nobody has time for anything anymore. And here I am...I've learned a lot of things about myself and the world in the last 7 years. I know most of you gossip about me. There's always 2 sides to every story and who is to judge other than God on judgement day? Pretty much the same exact things I experience while looking for a job, I experience on houseboy.com with all you wannabe "employers." You all ignore me (like what happens when anyone sends a resume or job application out), you have too high of expectations (like expecting 5 y ears experience for an entry level job, or expecting people to be your personal sex slave with no regard for anything other than your own selfish needs), and you don't give people a chance to prove themselves. And you wonder why the world is getting crazier and crazier? You wonder why the younger generation is so messed up?? It's the OLDER generation that screwed up the stock market, the housing market, and the job market. Good job. We have nothing now. Anyway, I'm looking for a non sexual situation. I need to better my life and flourish. I know there are people on here who don't care about sex and really honestly want to help and mentor someone. I really want to stay in San Diego because that is where I am from.

hello my name is Eddie but perfer to be calling slaveboy i am 25 years of and seeking very hard to fine a master/employer to make me into his servant and personal houseboy asap will always be naked for him while working and do not have any choice in this and just need something to suck on every so often

No, it's perfectly reasonable for them to expect you to pay for them to get to you. You're the employer, so you ought to be the one with the ability to provide transportation. Now, that doesn't mean that you necessarily need to purchase a plane ticket. It's also reasonable for you to travel to their current city and interview them, possibly providing other transportation back. Put yourself in their shoes. If you were looking at employment at a startup company (which is what you effectively are), you'd expect them to buy a round-trip ticket for you (or travel to you) if they wanted to conduct an in-person interview. And it doesn't inspire much confidence that you'd be there for very long or that it's a worthwhile company to work for, if they're not willing to spend money to find and hire the right people. As the employer, you have the financial upper hand. You ought to demonstrate this by being willing to pay for their expenses. But, as always, remember the forum warning: NEVER send money directly to them. Those requests are almost certainly scams.

My time as a houseboy (particularly the 3 years in Key West) introduced me to my current field of law enforcement which I currently work, so I will always be grateful for this site and all the men that gave me a chance to better myself. Recently, I was able to move back here to my hometown and I now proudly wear the sheriff's department emblem and shield of my hometown. I'm well on my way to finding and settling down on a nice piece of land out here in the country to spend my days doing those country things I love (cooking, raising a few animals, playing with the dogs, watching the deer eat the pears off the ground, etc) far away from the hustle and bustle of the big cities. I almost couldn't be happier. As a houseboy, I was able to be more than just the normal big black top that most people desire when they see my and I learned that I have an urge to satisfy a good man that takes care of my intellectual and emotional needs. It was nice to be able to open up and let my guard down and cry on someone's shoulder when I needed it instead of always being the tough one. I used to think it was perhaps something I was missing from my own dad, but we have a great relationship. It took me a while to realize that I am just more attracted physically and mentally to older men. There is no amount of money that can replace the gifts I've received from the men I've met on here, the things I will always hold near and dear to me. So, I hope to meet some nice guys that would like to be friends. I don't want anything sexual right now. If you live far away, I will pay my own way to fly up and see you for an extended period of time if we hit it off. If you want to come here, I'd gladly show you all the fun hidden gems this area has to offer. I am not open to relocating. Dating isn't out of the question; if it happens, just be patient. I'd rather you email me than reply on here. Oh, and yes, I am completely out and open at work and in life.