Comments and Suggestions

There should be a way to list a scammer and be able to provide all details and information for these people that ruin this site for all of those that are sincere and honest. We should be able to include names they have used, phone numbers they have used, passports they have used, pictures they have used, email addresses they have used. The web host could check to verify if the information was correct before allowing to be posted, just like a new picture or id information.

FitOutdoorsBoy is a con artist and scammer. I really don't mind helping someone who really needs help but this guy is a scammer who is conning gay men out of their money. HE is NOT looking for a HB position. He uses the "Block" to prevent you from reporting his profile. His profile said that he lived in N.J. but he stated that he was in Va. when he texted me and the call came up as being from Pa. He is a scumbag who targets older gay men. Please spread the word and report him if he contacts you. Let's get people like him off of our sites so that we don't have to worry about being hurt financially or physically.

Hello team, I'm mostly happy with the new look and feel, though it took me a while to relearn how to navigate it. I do have a few suggestions that I hope you find useful. - I miss the sort-by feature on the search. I find it useful to sort by most recent login as those that logged in more recently are more active and more likely to reply to my messages in a timely fashion - It would be nice if you used my profile address as the search-from address. I have to enter my zip code every time I log in and do a search. It's not a lot of work, but it seems unneccessary. - The send message pane looks terrible on Chrome. The text box that you use to enter y…

I can’t leave messages for people anymore. I have someone who has left me message and I can’t respond to them.

If I click on "My Account" and then click on " Visitors and Visited Profiles" I just get the spinning wheel that says it is thinking. Some browsers I have tried will tell me that there is a script slowing down the browser and if I stop it, it just goes back to the spinning wheel. It's been like this for a long time (last weeks inability to see profiles inspired me to finally ask that this be fixed). I've tried a variety of browsers on both my laptop, phone, and tablet. If you can fix it, it would really be appreciated.

My roommate is moving to another city and has tried to set up a profile. He has been waiting over 2 weeks to be able to log in. He gets the “still being vetted” message when logging in. He got the confirmation link in an email and still not able to log in. He gets emails showing who is viewing his profile, upgrade options etc.. We have both tried to contact “the team” and I even “submitted a ticket” for assistance. Not a single response and no assistance or support has been provided.

No objection with having advertising inserts on the profile's individual photo display page(s) but please RESIZE the DISPLAY WINDOW so that the entire PHOTO is visible with along with the advertising graphic inserts. It's annoying to have to move the window up and down, etc. to be able to view the actual PHOTO of the person being viewed.

I am new on this site. I am an employer looking for a real houseboy who will have benefits from me(depends on how acquainted I become with you) I'm looking for a relationship that I hope goes into the long-term I'm a middle-aged man looking to make the right choices going forward. So please, pay this no heed if you're not real or not serious. My houseboy username is Michaelgratt

The site is so slow when trying to look at visitor tracks. Several things could be at fault - if your using a separate server to host the mysql your having communication issues.

There's a link to it but when I click it, it leads to an error page or something. Does it actually work? Is anyone else getting it to work? I think a chatroom would be a great feature on this website. A way for us to all get to know eachother y'know? -Angel.

Perhaps, probably it is there, but is there an easier way to see who we have contacted? Thank you, Corey

It's going rather slow finding an employer on this site so I was thinking about actively seeking a employer/sugar daddy at the gay bars. Any advice what too look for? -Christopher

in addition to paying for their air fare , that they require BTA... Internet Financial Scams - US Embassy in London london.usembassy.gov/.../internet_... Embassy of the United States, London Beware of anyone who requests funds for a BTA, or Basic Travel Allowance, as a requirement to depart another country for the United States. There is no such thing as a BTA. In other cases, your Internet friend will claim to need a travel allowance, or travel money, to be able to travel to the United States. "Second only to flight money, the Basic Travel Allowance (BTA) is the scammers highest paying income. Also known as the Personal Travel Allowance, Travellers Allowance F…

i have twice updated my town and it says SAVED but other users keep telling me i am listed in the wrong state. what's the status on fixing the town/location glitch from the upgrade?

I log on to my account and most of my emails are gone. I did not delete them. What happened? Anyone else have this problem.

I just avoided another scammer trying to get in with me here today, our newest member. Midwest phone number, Brooklyn address listed here, and he says he is in Africa, go figure!!! I asked for pics and he sent group shots of military guys fooling around, obviously taken from some poor soldiers internet shots. If you want to avoid being scammed just DEMAND a selfie taken NOW and have them holding up one,two, or three fingers. They can't do it cause they are not the man they claim and will start calling you names and trying to make it like you are the one lying here. I just love it, they are the same everytime they get caught in their scams and lies. Ever heard of anyone tr…

It doesn’t matter which browser I use. I can never load the page that shows who’s viewed my profile. Safari, Chrome, Firefox, doesn’t matter. What’s happening?

I am an employer viewing houseboy profiles and I suggest that it would be desirable and helpful if the display of ESCORT = yes or ESCORT = no or ESCORT = N/A or ESCORT = Ask Me can be shown when viewing the individual profile display page. The search selection feature for ESCORT should be retained as a tool, also. Suggested display position on profile page might be at the TOP section underneath: Sexuality: gay Position: Bottom Age: 26 years old Dick Size: 7-8" (18-20 cm) HIV Status: Negative Escort = N/A example above is Escort = N/A (not answered) For ease of the programming change, maybe continuing only the use of YES or NO as answers may be desira…

What do you all think of a section that lists types of food liked and more importantly disliked. I take food, both eating and preparing as an important social aspect of living together. We will need to eat daily, while our sexual needs are important, they are not needed as frequent. Lol maybe wanted though! I have met a few guys that could have passed muster but their incredibly picky eating habits made me wonder how I could cook for both of us and enjoy a nice home cooked meal. I love eating out but that gets old and expensive.

Why doesn't the search by location work? I have tried putting in my zip code, but it pulls up with nothing. However on the 'around my area' it shows there are other people, but only in my direct city. However through casual searches I have noticed there are others in cities near mine. Is that just broken? Or am I using it wrong? I usually do 50 miles from my zip, maybe I'll try a different number

This new format for the site is the worst ! Very difficult to use ! Very hard to navigate, can’t find what I’m looking for , miserably horrid !

when i share photos, it often fails or just says SAVING but never completes

shouldn't gold members be recognized in their profiles as bring gold, or silver? I see nothing in my profile thumbnail or profile page itself that indicates gold membership. "Verified photo" yes.

i'm no longer seeing an option to view my sent messages from the inbox is that gone? or how do i reach it?

I have chosen two sites that specialize in matching young and old (inter-generational) couples and have been searching for "the one" for several years. During that time, I have had replies from fakes, gold-diggers, phonies, scammers, game players, etc. but no real, honest, polite, sincere young men who are truthful about what they looking for on these sites. Have any of you gentlemen heard of anyone who has had success in finding the kind of person (twink, gent, Daddy, houseboy, etc.) that he was looking for? Where are the success stories that usually accompany these sites? I am a humble man who was (as I am sure that most of the "employers" on these sites) bullied, …