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I scan these houseboy profiles almost daily, looking for new posts, re-reading the ones I didn’t contact but was tempted to do so. I’m disturbed by the proliferation of two questionnaire responses, “ask me,” and “it depends.” I can understand “ask me,” if a response requires some kind of explanation that justifies an answer that might otherwise eliminate the man from consideration But when a potential houseboy answers several questions with “ask me,” I tend to presume that he wants to Guatemala what answer I would like to hear. The same is true for “it depends.” One such answer is leaving something unknown, but I bypass the men who have several indefinite responses. Am I being paranoid, or unfair to these guys?

Life is getting harder and harder for me and I just need to find someone to make my life easier and better and to guide me through the journey I plan to go on It's so hard to find a good employer or just one that actually messages me back so now I'm looking for anyone in the united States to help me and I will show me appreciation however they want me to.

I've started looking for a houseboy and I just don't believe it is possible here am I wrong

I reach out to a couple houseboy profile a couple times a week and got a reply from MusccelStud4Dad. From his profile he is pretty much fantasy material. Through life I've learned to live by the old adage "if it seems too good to be true it probably is. Just curious if there is ay input on this profile.

Looking for anyone who would be interested in my houseboy services! I cannot be a live-in houseboy because i’m a student in the MKE area. However I can travel to surrounding areas during the week as long as it’s not too far. On weekends i’ll be available to travel to the Madison area and northern Illinois area. Check out my profile to learn more about me and my services and message me if you’re interested or have any questions! Thanks

Age: 22, Current Location: Texas Looking to relocate. Not a huge fan of the term "houseboy" because I am hoping for something a little different. I am NOT looking for a relationship, sexual partner or someone who wants to 'own' me. I am looking for a healthy, safe, secure atmosphere where I can be myself. I am capable of handling chores, errands, etc... I hope to find someone who is okay with being close friends/confidants/somewhat of a mentor, but anything other than that would depend on the chemistry that develops. I am not opposed to the possibility of sex, but if the chemistry isn't there then it isn't happening. Just don't want it to be expected because that just adds unnecessary pressure (in my opinion). If you do expect it then I'm most likely not your guy. I have never moved off to be in a situation such as this, so it's imperative that you can prove to me that you have a SAFE environment to offer (and that I can trust you). I have many interests. A few are paleontology, archaeology, ancestry and anything nature-related. When it comes to cooking you may have to pretend to like my food sometimes, but most of the time it's edible lol. People call me a clean freak so you would not have to worry about messes. If you have landscape that needs tending, I can definitely help out there. Anyways, if you would like to know more about me then pm me on here with your email and I will hit you up with more information/face pics. Thanks ***Not looking to relocate outside of the United States***

Hi my name is Daniel I'm a 24 year old guy currently living in Las Vegas. H ave always been interested in domination and I think it's the right time for me to be collared. I'm down to relocate pretty much anywhere. I love cleaning, doing chores, and taking care of my master. Love seeing a smile on his face.

Hi I'm new on and looking to see where this goes. Any questions message me and ask. ,HMU

Hoping to start fresh with a kind man or couple that is happy to share their space and life with me. I am going through some major changes in my life, walking away from a job that I was unhappy with, and ending a relationship. I’m having a hard time getting back on track and need help. Desperately. That means I have the opportunity to take care of someone else and tend to their needs however they see fit. Im a very young looking 29 year old, slim build, and have a positive disposition. Looking for that place to start fresh and bring a smile to your face. im hoping that this message reaches someone. Looking forward to hearing from you!

(:Hello I'm a young guy, 24 growing up lol. I am looking for someone caring and real. Of course I'd love a great situation, but it's not going to be great if we dont have a real connection. Love to talk and build a bond with someone.. I am great at Housework, great in bed, and great listener. Message me! Denverlove is my name on Houseboy, Xoxo Much Love -D

Hello to Αll, I am new here and I am searching for an employer. I love cooking especially MEd cuisine, serve and cleaning. Ready to relocate inside EU and be used for the pleasure of my employer.

Couple looking for a houseboy/roommate who enjoys cooking and cleaning along with master/slave play in Toronto, ON, Canada. We are 41 masculine hung vers top and 23 hung pure top twink. We are looking for under 25 obedient twink. We expect the houseboy/slave/roommate, cook and clean for us. We want a houseboy that is goal oriented, for example, has a job or looking for a job, school, etc; our guidance to help you to succeed will always be there. You will have your own room. If the chemistry is there we want an exclusive sex slave that enjoys 2 dominant hung tops that have fetishes, we are both daddies who are caring yet in control. We are looking for serious replies only, be in Ontario if you don't drive as we do and can meet with you.

Hey! My name is Jeremy. I am looking for someone who is genuine and kind. On here there is a part of all of our profiles that asks if sex is expected. If you have “yes, most likely” then I’m probably not your guy. The ONLY way I’d ever participate in sexual activity is if the chemistry is right. I wouldn’t fuck randoms where I’m at. Definitely wouldn’t do it with someone from online. I have to be attracted to you both physically and emotionally. Just how I am. I have goals that I plan to accomplish and am hoping to find someone who can help me do that. I want to go back to school for starters. What I’ll major in is still a question I can’t answer. I love so many things. Paleontology, Accounting, Archaeology, Ancestry... the list goes on. I love cooking, but am not amazing at it. I love doing activities outside. Whether it be yard work, carpentry, gardening, or just enjoying nature. I am not the kind of person who enjoys staying indoors. When I was younger I started playing the guitar, so be prepared to hear that often. Am I great at it? No. But it is soothing for me. I love music of all kinds and listen to it throughout most of my day. I am hoping to relocate as soon as possible once finding the right person. It’s best that both of us understand that regardless of how good we connect, it’s important to view things as a trial run at the beginning. That way if things don’t work out we can just go our separate ways. Viewing this as permanent from the start would put too much stress on the situation in my opinion. In the end I am hoping to find something genuine. Whether we are just friends or it develops into something more depends on the chemistry. As long as the situation is mutually beneficial I think we’ll get along. With that being said, if you think I’m what you’re looking for then message me!

*READ ENTIRE* 2 In Spartanburg, SC Long-term Couple (47/54), together 29 yrs. Only play together. Healthy, Honest & Safe, DDF/HIV neg Daddy Types White male 47, 175, 7c mushroom head, blue hazel eyes, grey hair, Average, top verse, kinkster ζ Blk male 54, 225, 8.5uc thick and curved, bald, Masculine/Large, total top, vanilla, but dominate Both of us are pretty down to earth and laid back. Looking for a loyal masculine bottom pup or houseboy to grow with us. Uncut/Hairy/Ginger/Latin are major pluses. Please be over 25, single. Not into fem guys. Must be clean, drug and disease free. Not into the circuit or bars. Not into drama, no liars or game players. Please be in the USA. Gay only. NO bi, demi, pan! Rather have quality over quantity! We're hoping to find the right match one day. Lots of love, affection, cuddles, nurturing, lovemaking. Probably spoil the applicant to death when he is obedient and good. The applicant must hold a job and contribute to the family household. We have a lot to offer the applicant. We have a spare room for the applicant. We would have to get to know the person before inviting them into our home. Don't misunderstand honesty with attitude, we all have our preferences.

It's not a large city, but Sierra Vista, AZ, has most anything you might need, and Tucson is only an hour away. There's a branch of ASU here for the student, an Army fort for any interested soldiers who are stationed here and looking for a place off-base, or help with your career if you are neither of those. I can help provide direction in your life, if you need it. Room and board provided, and you'd have your own room. Depends on what you bring to the table, maybe some help with college or a small allowance, or help getting a car. Discretion assured and required of you. No drugs, no smoking (anything), no excessive drink. Ideally you would be into fitness and keep yourself in shape. I'm older and heavier, but willing to hit they gym with you and do what I can to improve myself. I keep a small bar stocked at the house so we can all have a drink now and then. You'd be expected to keep the place clean, do laundry, and cook now and then. In-house laundry available, as well as off-street parking. I love to cook as well, so it'll be a chore we can share. I have a fiance (male) but he's not here all the time. When he is here, we don't usually have much sex, so if there's mutual attraction between you and me, that would definitely be on the plate. I'm a total bottom so you'd have to compliment that. Someone with a high libido would be ideal. You'd be free to have friends over, as much time off as you'd like as long as you get your chores done. We could go out for dinners, see movies, grab a drink now and then, or even stay home and watch TV on the couch or play a video game. WiFi available, and I can help you get a tablet or laptop if you need one. You can treat the position as a job, but I'm ployamorous by nature, so an emotion connection is also a possibility, depending on what you are looking for. Your needs, sexual and physical, are important to me and I'll try to be available and supportive. I'm very open minded with regard to bedroom activities. I'm an IT Professional, as well as an author, playwright, and lyricist. I'm working on expanding the latter, so if you have any interest in the arts, maybe you would be interested in helping set up a local community theatre, or help me publish and market the things that I write. I'm not rich and famous, well not yet anyway, but you never know... lol I've never done anything like this before, but I need a guy in my life who's interested in more than a platonic friendship. My profile on here is JackTinSD, so look me up and drop a line if you have any interest in the position, or would just like to know more. I'd be happy to answer any questions you might have.

Hey guys thanks for stopping by. There are many fake profiles and many that want you to send them money, I am not one of those. I'm a real guy that is serious about finding a situation here. I'm mainly looking to stay in the area but for the right person and situation I'd consider relocating. I'm an easy going down to earth guy that is loyal and fun to be around. So what am I seeking? Not quite the exact type of arrangement I'm seeking but I'm hoping to find an easy going, caring, down to earth guy. I can definitely help you out in any way you need, whether as an assistant, house manager, or the like. Or if you don't need too much help than perhaps help starting my own career or starting a business. Looking for home, friend, travel partner, someone to go out with and have fun with. If your serious about finding someone real that's not looking for handout shoot me a message and let's go from there. Looking forward to hear from ya.

To be honest, I'm not exactly sure how to write something that anyone would find interesting enough to reply to, so here goes nothing. I prefaced my post with that because, from what I understand, it pretty much sums up my personality. I have recently been told that I'm not very interesting and that that may be the reason why most employers refrain from continuing conversations with me. There have been a few that I've had really good talks with, but those have never led to anything. I don't want to come off as desperate since I have a decent life as it is. I'm currently going to school (a little late) where I make enough to take care of my bills through work study. I have a pretty decent friend group where the people are genuine. I've even been recommended for the role of student body president next school year. I just want to see if the grass is more green on the other side I guess. I want to meet new people. Where I currently live (the Bible Belt), there's not much to do and the people that are here are quite different from the rest of the world. It's hard to find someone who actully finds interest in you and is comfortable expressing that. Openly. It's not that I have a problem with guys who aren't open about their sexuality, but it's more difficult being with someone like that because we can't really be "together" in public. Also, a relationship, one where we've given each other the title of boyfriend, isn't exactly what I'm looking for. I'm looking for comfort. I want to be with or around someone who has no problem with small displays of public touch or affection. Someone who's okay with who they are but still recognizes that there's always an opportunity for development. Someone who's comfortable with trying new things. Someone who's in a different place. I understand that there are quite a few "flakes" out there and that I shouldn't set my expectations too high, but if you're anything like me or you find me interesting and want to talk, let's talk. Don't tell yourself that I'm out of your league either (not to say that I'm the best looking guy because I know I'm not). Yes, looks do matter in the fact that we have to find each other physically attractive if we want a sexual relationship, but personality is so much more important. I'm an outgoing individual who likes to have fun but also enjoys just sitting and reading a book (I'm actually about to start reading Forged in War: Roosevelt, Churchill, and the Second World War if you're interested). I love learning new things and trying new foods. I'm very simple when it comes to life, but hopefully not too simple to be noticed.

Houseboy looking for a daddy near Chicago. I love cleaning, and I’ll love it if you force me to wear a collar, thongs, and booty shorts regularly

Hi there, I have been working as a houseboy for several years and recently started a new job, I love the work we do together business-wise and I really enjoyed our personal time together these past several months. It was agreed from the start that we were to have an open relaxed relationship, but whatever happened with anyone else was to be kept out of our home and was our own business. However recently my employer met a young man and liked his company, and invited him to stay in our home for a month or two (He said he was not sure of it would be a sexual relationship but it was clear from letters I filed away that it would be most likely) During which time they would share a bedroom together and I would stay in my own private room, me and my employer would have no sort of closeness and it was not to be mentioned to this gentlemen that we had anything other than a strictly platonic relationship. This has really upset me and left me in a terrible way, I confronted him about this and his response was that he could hardly rescind the invitation now and that when we originally laid our boundaries that his exact wording referred to him specifically not having sexual intercourse with anyone in our shared bed, BUT that did not include any of the other rooms on the property or the fact that he could share our bed with them and not do anything sexual. I do not know whether I am just being overly sensitive and have my own issues to deal with but I feel mislead, I could not get him to understand why such a situation upset me so, and was made to feel I was being overly dramatic and that The technicality of his vague wording was a strong enough case for his validation but I just cannot accept that, especially from a man who prides himself and boasts about never telling lies, but to me there’s a big difference, he may not have lied but he was not exactly forthcoming with the truth. I don’t know what to do, I love my job, my friends, the life I have here, my pets and the actual legitimate professional (non-houseboy) career I am building here. But I feel hurt, betrayed and angry, confused, a little naive and embarrassed and I just cannot see a way around it. If anyone has any advice or experienced anything similar or even just has a bloody opinion on the matter I would more than happily take it right now. I don’t know what to do. Thank you for taking the time to read this if you made it this far. J

Hey guys, I'm really looking for an employer to help me out in NYC. I've been looking for someone for about 5 years now and there has been scam after scam. I live with my dad in NJ who makes my life stressful and miserable. I'm willing to do just about anything to stay in the city and live a stress/rent free life while pursuing my dreams of acting and writing. I'm only 23 yrs old and I'm desperately trying to find a comfortable, and fun relationship with an employer from the city. If anyone is interested in me please reply to this and we can text or email. I'm really looking forward to it!

Loving daddy looking for live in houseboy, near Ventura, California

Hey I am Mike, and I am searching for someone that travel with me to various events. I work in a lot of non profit charity events for the LGBT community. I am also in a Gay Men's Leather and Fetish Club. I get travel to different leather events. I know several porn stars by name and have built friendships with. I have gotten on here in hopes to find someone that could help keep me company. I live on a nice Farm in Mississippi. I have horses, ducks, geese, and dogs. I am a big animal lover. I have been single for about a year now. I was in a 5 year relationship. We had a really bad breakup and I have been lonely since then. I have tons of friends but they just dont fill that void. I feel like I must be pretty desperate to get on here to find someone. I live next to a Large College Campus. Tons of discreet college boys. Works great if your just looking for a quick hookup. Truly sucks if your looking for a relationship or something more than just sex. I have lots to offer someone but it seems its not enough. I meet plenty of guys that want to date but they live so freaking far away. If your reading this just give me shout. Would love to have a conversation even if we never meet.

Hello, the title is self explanatory. Don't wanna come off rude or a wrong way. Just want someone i can care for and help or just be a good friend too. Someone who is willing to take me in and help my grow as a human being and prosper. I really could and need a stable place of living and i want to better myself and further my education. Im sorta on the brink of just deleting this app because ive gotten hardly any responses and everyone is picky nowadays.... i wanna be myself and not something someone wants me to be. I wanna be able to be happy and smile again and just sorta not worry about having to constantly move all the time. I just need a anchor. Support. A caring and loving individual who wont give up on me and stick with me. Someone who can help me heal. I guess im just asking for a fairy tale. Anyways, if this even remotely interests you. I guess feel free to message me. If not then have a good day and night. This would be my last and finale ad and if i cant find anything by September. Im deleting my account.. Good day.

We are a gay male married couple living in minnesota looking for a houseboy/roommate asap. Email us at chevroletboy84@yahoo.com if interested and after reading our profile. Hope to hear from someone in need. Here is what we are looking for but open to talk about. we are looking for someone who would be able move into our home in st cloud to keep the home cleaned and organized, take care of mowing and shoveling. Someone who will be nude inside the home at all times unless company is over, and someone open for play from time to time we would ask at least once a week, anything more if your call but we may not even ask once a week. just depends. We would be asking no company over as we are not comfortable with new people in our home and even opening it up to you is a challenge but something we decided we need to do. Sexual activities are the least of important in it all which is why we say from time to time. We are needing someone who is or can be mostly a bottom. I am a drug and disease free bare top and he is a drug and disease free bare vers bottom. we are into oral, making out, and fucking. You are more than welcome to initiate anything you want the only rule is we all have to be included in the play, no one on one unless the other okays it. Everything else is the most important We are offering free room and basic housing bills water, electric, heat, air, laundry, wifi, in exchange. You would be responsible for your own personal needs and wants as well as food. our interview process is mainly a meet and great and you must be in the nude as part of it, you walk in strip down and we all just chat. We want to see what you have to offer, and its part of the interview because we want to see that you can follow direction. Nothing sexual happens until your moved in to keep from random hooking up. we will ask that before we agree to meet, we see a full nude pic, a hard AND soft cock pic as seeing your cock is most important to us while cleaning and walking around, and a butt pic. We are more interested in watching you and your cock move around the house then your ass, although that will be watched too. Any questions please ask, we are a open book. Also what happens between us and you stays between us and you. Email us at chevroletboy84@yahoo.com if interested and after reading our profile

Hello I'm a young guy looking to move to California. If you yourself are looking for someone similar a loving houseboy for fun and chores. Find me on houseboy website name is Devonboy24, I live in Denver, Colorado.